{"id":5296,"date":"2020-04-19T13:23:59","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T13:23:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5296"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:38:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:38:40","slug":"10-modi-per-dire-solo-timido-solo-non","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-modi-per-dire-solo-timido-solo-non\/","title":{"rendered":"10 modi per capire se \u00e8 solo timido o se non \u00e8 cos\u00ec interessato a te"},"content":{"rendered":"

As Beyonc\u00e9 would say: \u201cIf I were a boy even just for a day\u2026\u201d<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

Wow, so many things would be so much easier. All the mixed signals and all those failed attempts to get inside their heads to see and understand what they are thinking about\u2014what is their vision of the things and people that surround them.<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t that be great? <\/strong><\/em>Non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 necessario fasciarsi la testa \u2018does he like me or not\u2019.<\/a><\/p>\n

But you can\u2019t be a boy, and you\u2019ll never be able to think like one. You\u2019ll never completely understand how their minds work and just might actually be a good thing after all.<\/p>\n

If we got it, right that second, what it is that he\u2019s thinking about, where would the thrill of the chase go?<\/em><\/p>\n

The phase when you\u2019re checking each other out and \u2018touching base\u2019 to see if you\u2019re good to go is the most exciting one. Take that out and you\u2019ve got nothing left\u2014dating would be boring.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably been in a situation when you\u2019re aching for a guy but he\u2019s not sending any signals back\u2014not even mixed signals, nothing!<\/p>\n

\"donna
\nDoes that have to mean that he\u2019s just not interested in you? No, it doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Non tutti abbiamo la sicurezza di una rockstar. Non tutti possono avvicinarsi a una persona e farla cadere in piedi con una sola battuta.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

At least with these kind of men, you know exactly how firm the ground you\u2019re standing on is. There are no misunderstandings. O si segna o si fallisce e si va avanti.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

But it\u2019s a whole different story with someone who is shy. You may get the feeling he\u2019s not interested in you because he\u2019s not making a move\u2014he\u2019s passive.<\/p>\n

When actually, he\u2019s standing aside waiting for you to \u2018notice\u2019 him. He\u2019s waiting for your signal because he is not confident enough to just do it!<\/p>\n

So, if you ever wondered how to tell if a shy guy likes you, check the list and decide if it\u2019s your time to do something about it.<\/p>\n

1. He\u2019s quiet around you<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Even though he\u2019s not the definition of a social butterfly, he seems to be even quieter when you are around.<\/p>\n

Usually, he doesn\u2019t feel comfortable standing out or being looked at. So, it is only natural that he avoids those situations.<\/p>\n

Even when he\u2019s around someone whom he likes (you), he won\u2019t pretend to be something that he\u2019s not just to seduce you. He\u2019ll be quietly waiting for you to encourage him.<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t interested, he wouldn\u2019t be around you in the first place.<\/p>\n

2. He\u2019s staring when you\u2019re not looking<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

This is my favorite. How many times have you caught someone staring across the room and they look away instantly like it\u2019s none of their business?<\/p>\n

Or they continue staring at something next to you with so much enthusiasm like they\u2019re looking at the Da Vinci\u2019s Mona Lisa.<\/p>\n

You know, he can\u2019t help but stare at you. The thing is he\u2019s not confident enough to do it while you\u2019re looking.<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t interested in you, you wouldn\u2019t catch him staring every now and then. Once, twice\u2014it can be a coincidence, but more than that\u2026come on!<\/p>\n

3. Sembra nervoso<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

You can even say that he looks a bit clumsy. He drops things when you\u2019re near him. His palms get sweaty.<\/p>\n

He loses his train of thought. Poor guy\u2026you\u2019re not even aware of what you are doing to him.<\/p>\n

He may appear to you as a bit anxious\u2014it\u2019s because he really likes you and he is trying to make you aware of that, but his nature, the fact he\u2019s shy is pulling him down.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll definitely know Gli piaci dal suo linguaggio del corpo<\/a>\u2014the way he touches you, looks at you\u2026<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t interested in you, he wouldn\u2019t make any effort in communicating with you in any way.<\/p>\n

4. He\u2019s intimidated<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Forse ha anche cercato di avvicinarsi a te o di farti capire che gli piaci, ma he\u2019s intimidated by you.<\/a><\/p>\n

He thinks you\u2019re that good and beautiful\u2014he maybe even think you\u2019re too good for him.<\/p>\n

Di solito i ragazzi timidi hanno problemi di autostima e restano in disparte per la maggior parte del tempo.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not interested in you, he wouldn\u2019t care that you are around him, and he would act like you are just another face in the crowd.<\/p>\n

5. He\u2019s Mr. Sherlock all of a sudden<\/h2>\n

\"gruppo<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll really try his best to find out as much as he can about you. He\u2019ll probably ask your friends about things you like. Actually, any info he could get would be of good use.<\/p>\n

Due to him being shy, he will never walk straight up to you and start a conversation. Especially if he didn\u2019t do a background check of the things you\u2019re interested in.<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t interested in you, why would he bother finding out anything about you?<\/p>\n

6. He\u2019s mysterious<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

So he\u2019s shy\u2014shy equals mysterious. I mean, who can resist a mystery? Who can resist him when you know there are a lot of exciting (unknown) things hiding underneath the surface?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like getting a wrapped present. You know something is inside, and you can\u2019t wait to tear the paper and take a peek inside. He\u2019s like that\u2014a present waiting to be unwrapped.<\/p>\n

Se he\u2019s not interested in you<\/a>, he wouldn\u2019t be all mysterious. Even though he\u2019s shy, he can use that to his advantage.<\/p>\n

7. He\u2019s considerate<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll remember each and every little thing you told him. He\u2019ll remember what\u2019s your favorite color or the name of your pet.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll remember your favorite food or your favorite place where you go to clear your head.<\/p>\n

He does this because he cares. He really wants to know all these things. If he wasn\u2019t interested in you, he wouldn\u2019t give a damn about your favorite color or your dog.<\/p>\n

8. He\u2019s interested in what you do<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll ask your friends about your hobbies. He\u2019ll try to find out what your talents are. He\u2019ll get involved in things you love.<\/p>\n

That is going to be his way of getting closer to you because it\u2019s the only way he feels comfortable with\u2014keeping a low profile.<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t interested in you, he wouldn\u2019t care less about what you love and do. He would continue doing his own s**t.<\/p>\n

9. I suoi amici lo prendono in giro<\/h2>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

Whenever you are around him and his friends, they tease him. Either they act like a group of girls and whisper to each other and giggle, or they openly tease him\u2014they make it really obvious.<\/p>\n

They may even scene the situation to leave the two of you alone\u2014like it was not on purpose. As if!<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t interested in you, his friend wouldn\u2019t react to your presence, whatsoever.<\/p>\n

10. Vuole essere amico dei vostri amici<\/h2>\n

\"amici<\/p>\n

He\u2019s acting like your friends are his prey. He\u2019s observing them from the distance to attack\u2014sounds creepy, but it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

Sa che se ottenesse l'approvazione attraverso i vostri amici, sarebbe pi\u00f9 facile per lui.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also an excuse to get closer to you\u2014to make you notice him.<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t interested in you, he wouldn\u2019t bother that much. Being friends with your friends, or not, it would be all the same to him.<\/p>\n

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