{"id":5301,"date":"2020-03-13T13:46:35","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T13:46:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5301"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:25:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:25:00","slug":"come-bloccare-un-narcisista-in-9-potenti-passi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-bloccare-un-narcisista-in-9-potenti-passi\/","title":{"rendered":"Come chiudere un narcisista in 9 potenti passaggi"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you’re looking for ways and inspiration on how to shut down a narcissist and regain your power, you’re in just the right place!<\/p>\n

Narcisista<\/span> persone<\/span><\/a> are very capable when it comes to taking over somebody\u2019s life.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll use anything and everything to make people do what they want and they\u2019ll be the ones to get the best of it. Summarized, it’s called narcissistic abuse.<\/p>\n

People who suffer from a narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) tend to ruin other people’s self-esteem for the sake of becoming dominant.<\/p>\n

The main manipulation tactic they use is gaslighting, aka silent treatment (especially in toxic relationships and other types of abusive relationships), used to gain control over the victim’s emotional responses, which is a form of emotional abuse.<\/p>\n

Narcissists have a delusional sense of self-worth and a lack of empathy, which is their primary tool when it comes to destroying their victim’s self-worth.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Chiedere scusa o decidere di lasciarvi in pace non \u00e8 nel loro interesse.<\/p>\n

Dealing with toxic people and psychopaths can result in severe damage of the victim’s mental health because the victim often doesn\u2019t know how to set boundaries and deal with a narcissist’s bad behavior.<\/p>\n

Questa persona potrebbe essere il vostro vicino di casa, il vostro capo, il vostro collega, un partner narcisista, un genitore narcisista, un ex narcisista, uno dei vostri amici intimi o un membro della famiglia.<\/p>\n

Imparare a gestire le loro tendenze narcisistiche e a riprendere il proprio potere \u00e8 necessario per prevenire ulteriori danni e iniziare il processo di guarigione.<\/p>\n

Ora, ognuno combatte i narcisisti a modo suo, ma le donne forti riescono a combatterli fino a batterli al loro stesso gioco, quindi potremmo sicuramente imparare qualcosa da loro!<\/p>\n

\u00c8 COS\u00cc CHE LE DONNE FORTI METTONO A TACERE LE PERSONE NARCISISTE<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. I narcisisti sono molto bravi a trovare persone simpatiche allo scopo di alimentare il loro ego.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo
\nI narcisisti hanno bisogno di persone gentili intorno a loro, per sentirsi meglio con se stessi.<\/p>\n

Hanno bisogno di persone gentili per alimentare il loro ego! Si circondano di queste persone ingannandole e facendo loro credere di essere uguali.<\/p>\n

La differenza \u00e8 che le persone gentili vi dicono solo cose gentili quando lo pensano davvero, mentre un narcisista usa parole gentili solo per ingannarvi e farvi diventare suoi amici.<\/p>\n

Si comporteranno come gli estranei pi\u00f9 gentili (soprattutto se avete bisogno di aiuto), vi convinceranno di essere la persona pi\u00f9 amorevole e premurosa del mondo facendovi continuamente complimenti, viziandovi e facendovi sentire speciali.<\/p>\n

But they won\u2019t mean any of the nice words they say, their compliments will be fake and the only reason why they would ever want to make someone special is so that they can break them easily later on.<\/p>\n

Il problema \u00e8 che le donne forti non sono cos\u00ec ingenue ed \u00e8 per questo che sono maestre nell'evitare di essere un rifornimento narcisistico.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Strong women can easily spot whether somebody truly means what they’re saying or if it\u2019s just a trick.<\/p>\n

Le donne forti sono molto consapevoli del loro aspetto e sono anche consapevoli delle loro altre qualit\u00e0 e nel momento in cui notano che qualcuno \u00e8 ingenuo, si disimpegnano immediatamente, applicano la regola del non contatto e lo cacciano dalla loro vita per sempre!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 4 cose che accadranno quando andrete via <\/span>Nessun contatto<\/span> Con un narcisista<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

2. I narcisisti sono bravi a convincere gli altri che il problema \u00e8\/era un altro.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo
\nA narcissist’s grandiose sense of self makes them feel superior over everyone around them.<\/p>\n

Ignorano i propri errori e sono in grado di dare la colpa a qualcun altro in un batter d'occhio.<\/p>\n

They are in constant pursuit of their victim’s weaknesses so they can turn them against them. Accepting they did something wrong is never an option (unless they use it as a tool to manipulate you.)<\/p>\n

Qualsiasi cosa accada, secondo un narcisista, \u00e8 accaduta per colpa di qualcun altro ed \u00e8 pronto a fare di tutto per convincere la sua vittima che \u00e8 lui il colpevole di qualsiasi cosa.<\/p>\n

Il problema \u00e8 che le donne forti non permettono mai a nessuno di usarle come discarica.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll admit their part of the guilt but they\u2019ll demand the same from the other side.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t ever allow a narcissist to put the blame on them or anybody else in fact and that\u2019s why narcissists have a tendency to avoid strong women.<\/p>\n

Correlato: La guida definitiva per ignorare un narcisista (Individuazione e conseguenze)<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Narcissists might make many long-term promises to raise the stakes in a relationship and make sure the person they\u2019re dating is highly invested<\/h2>\n

\"giovane
\nNarcissists lure their victims into believing they have a future together and that\u2019s when the victim lets down their guard completely.<\/p>\n

They fool the victim into believing that they have a strong connection, that they have future plans and that they’ll always be there for them no matter what.<\/p>\n

But in reality, the only thing they’re doing is giving fake promises so that they can easily manipulate their victim and make them think that they’re one hundred percent serious and devoted in the relationship.<\/p>\n

In reality, the only thing they’re doing is preparing the terrain for massive manipulation.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re that victim, you\u2019ll start planning your joint future and you won\u2019t be aware that the narcissist is using that open window to use you in any and every possible way.<\/p>\n

If you’re that victim, you’ll be blind to see the narcissist’s real nature because they are so good at hiding their true self.<\/p>\n

The problem is that strong women don\u2019t let down their guard so easily.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non credono mai solo alle parole, si aspettano sempre che gli altri compiano azioni che seguano le loro promesse.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where their conflict with a narcissist arises because, as you might\u2019ve imagined, narcissistic people never keep their promises.<\/p>\n

Le donne forti non si affidano mai alle parole, alle promesse o alle scuse. Credono invece solo nelle azioni e nelle cose che possono vedere con i loro occhi.<\/p>\n

4. I narcisisti hanno la tendenza a manipolare le persone<\/h2>\n

\"uomo
\nNarcisista<\/span> le persone controllano gli altri<\/span><\/a> avendo la capacit\u00e0 di influenzare le loro emozioni o le loro azioni in modo che le cose vadano a loro favore.<\/p>\n

Hanno la tendenza a farvi credere in ogni loro parola senza mai mettere in discussione nulla.<\/p>\n

And if you ever complain about being mistreated or similar, they will just accuse you of overreacting and being the crazy one, even though you know for a fact that you’re the victim in the whole story.<\/p>\n

But, unfortunately, they’re not interested in hearing any of it. They are only interested in hearing what they want to hear.<\/p>\n

They’re only interested in making you feel less worthy so that they can break you more easily but with strong women, this is not such an easy task.<\/p>\n

Il problema \u00e8 che le donne forti sono estremamente difficili da manipolare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they don\u2019t feel like doing something or if they have a strong opinion about something, it\u2019s highly unlikely that even the strongest manipulators out there, such as narcissistic people, will trick them into doing things they don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

When a strong woman senses that someone is trying to trick her or make her feel like she’s the crazy one, she makes sure to let them know that she will not dance to their tune.<\/p>\n

Una donna forte decide immediatamente di interrompere ogni contatto con loro e di cancellarli definitivamente dalla sua vita. (Questo \u00e8 uno dei consigli pi\u00f9 saggi su come chiudere un narcisista, quindi assicuratevi di memorizzarlo).<\/p>\n

5. Narcissists often bring down the people they\u2019re surrounded by<\/h2>\n

\"donna
\nAffinch\u00e9 un narcisista si senta superiore, tutti gli altri devono essere al di sotto di lui.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why narcissistic people often undermine people, bring them down or bring up their flaws at the worst possible moment.<\/p>\n

When a narcissist is feeling down, they\u2019ll use anything and everything they can to bring you down as well, so they can feel better about themself.<\/p>\n

Vi umilieranno di persona, sui social media e persino in pubblico per sentirsi padroni di voi.<\/p>\n

Il problema \u00e8 che le donne forti non si lasciano abbattere cos\u00ec facilmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sono molto consapevoli delle persone che sono e sanno quanto sono forti.<\/p>\n

Le donne forti sono anche consapevoli dei loro difetti e ci lavorano ogni giorno, quindi non permettono mai a nessuno di rimproverarle.<\/p>\n

Queste cose si ritorcono sempre contro i narcisisti quando le usano su donne forti.<\/p>\n

Cercano di attirarli nel loro mondo tossico, ma si ritrovano a fallire ogni volta che ci provano.<\/p>\n

6. I narcisisti hanno la tendenza a comportarsi in pubblico in modo diverso rispetto al privato<\/h2>\n

\"gruppo
\nNarcissistic people have many faces or many shades of one face and they pull out the one that\u2019s the most convenient for the situation.<\/p>\n

For example, they\u2019ll agree with your opinion on something when you\u2019re alone together but when you\u2019re out with other people, they\u2019re most likely to change their opinion in order to please others.<\/p>\n

Or they will pretend that they agree with you only when they’re surrounded by other people so that they can see how kind and loving they are.<\/p>\n

And when you’re back to your four walls, they all of a sudden change their mind, telling you that they didn’t really mean what they said in front of others or that they made a mistake.<\/p>\n

You see, narcissists have a tendency to adapt to every possible situation and make it look like they’re just awesome to be with, when in reality they are the complete opposite and strong women know that!<\/p>\n

Il problema \u00e8 che donne forti<\/b><\/a> non tollerer\u00e0 mai questo tipo di comportamento<\/strong>. They\u2019ll immediately expose the narcissist and confront him in public.<\/p>\n

Questo roviner\u00e0 il loro illusorio senso di autostima e li costringer\u00e0 a smettere di giocare sempre a fare Dio.<\/p>\n

And given that narcissistic people are not accustomed to this unusual behavior, they probably won\u2019t even know what hit them.<\/p>\n

7. Narcissists play by the rule \u2018attack is the best defense\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

When you catch a narcissist in a lie or when you discover their masquerade, you\u2019ll fight them for two minutes about their behavior and then you\u2019ll be defending your actions for the next two hours.<\/p>\n

They just throw the ball in your court and keep you so busy with defending yourself that you\u2019ll forget what the fight was about in the first place.
\nIt’s one of their favorite manipulation tactics used when they want to solely focus on you instead of the real problem which is them.<\/p>\n

Vi attaccano con tutte le loro armi narcisistiche e aspettano che vi arrendiate.<\/p>\n

Il problema delle donne forti \u00e8 che non abbassano mai la voce e non permettono a nessuno di allontanare i loro pensieri da qualcosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, when a narcissist tries to switch topics, they\u2019ll cut them at the root by saying that isn\u2019t the topic of the conversation and that they can get back to that later but they\u2019ll deal with the original issue first.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t leave them a way out and they\u2019ll have to show their real face, wanted or not.<\/p>\n

And if they still refuse to switch topics, strong women make sure to tell them to go to hell because they’re not worthy of their time.<\/p>\n

If you’re wondering how to shut down a narcissist, this is the way to do it.<\/p>\n

8. Quando vengono beccate, le persone narcisiste fanno la vittima<\/h2>\n

\"coppia
\nWhen their real face is revealed, they\u2019ll try to hide behind the mask of a victim.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll make excuses for being the way they are and blame it on their ‘abusive’ past, by their narcissistic mother or similar.<\/p>\n

Lo fanno per risvegliare l'empatia nelle persone e per farvi sentire in colpa per loro, in modo che possiate perdonarli per i loro peccati.<\/p>\n

Vogliono che abbiate la coscienza sporca per averli accusati, perch\u00e9 sono loro la vittima dell'intera situazione e non voi. (Naturalmente, questo non \u00e8 affatto vero).<\/p>\n

When busted, a narcissistic person turns into an innocent child just to make you feel guilty about everything you’ve said or everything you’re about to say or do.<\/p>\n

But in reality, they’re still the same manipulative person, ready to do anything for their selfish goals.<\/p>\n

The problem with strong women is that they do have emotions and they do feel empathy toward others but they\u2019re perfectly able to recognize when somebody is playing them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll never be tricked into pitying somebody they should be mad at.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll stand untouched by the puppy eyes that narcissists try to pull and they won\u2019t allow emotions to cloud their judgment.<\/p>\n

Strong women always put reason before their emotions when they feel that something’s utterly wrong.<\/p>\n

They don’t let others take advantage of them because they’re ready to fight till the last breath.<\/p>\n

Correlato: Come ferire emotivamente un uomo narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n

9. Le donne forti si oppongono ai loro abusatori!<\/h2>\n

\"donna
\nThey don\u2019t dim their voices, they don\u2019t let others pretend to be something that they are really not and they don\u2019t allow others to use them as their puppet or to make them dance to their tune.<\/p>\n

Sono orgogliosi di ci\u00f2 in cui credono e sono fedeli a se stessi, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what they expect from others as well.<\/p>\n

Tutti i tentativi di un narcisista, tutte le sue trovate, tutti i suoi giochetti, non funzionano mai con le donne forti, perch\u00e9 loro ci passano attraverso.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s why strong women are so intimidating to narcissistic people.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how strong women shut narcissistic people down!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Vendicarsi del narcisista con questi 7 contrattacchi efficaci<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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