{"id":53079,"date":"2020-02-18T20:04:19","date_gmt":"2020-02-18T20:04:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53079"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:26:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:26:19","slug":"segnali-per-cambiare-la-tua-vita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segnali-per-cambiare-la-tua-vita\/","title":{"rendered":"5 segnali che indicano la necessit\u00e0 di cambiare radicalmente la propria vita"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cosa succede quando ci si rende conto di non essere soddisfatti della propria posizione?<\/p>\n

Maybe you should have gone to college but didn\u2019t, maybe you started a family too soon, maybe you\u2019ve driven important people away or even chosen wrong ones to be by your side.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, c'\u00e8 una parte di voi che percepisce che le cose non vanno bene, ma la vostra mente cosciente sceglie di ignorare i segnali per evitare il cambiamento.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s like realizing you have given so much to someone but failed to see how toxic and wrong the<\/em><\/strong>y sono per voi.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s just how we humans are. We avoid change at all costs and we\u2019re rarely brave enough to start our lives over (kudos for those who have though!).<\/p>\n

Anche se cercate di opporvi, il vostro io interiore trover\u00e0 il modo di mostrarvi che lo fate davvero. necessit\u00e0 di un cambiamento<\/span><\/a>Non importa quanto sia grande il cambiamento e quanto sia difficile fare il primo passo.<\/p>\n

Cosa sono questi canti, vi chiederete? Eccole:<\/p>\n

1. Guardate al vostro passato attraverso un paio di occhiali rosa.<\/h2>\n

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Per una persona che ha un disperato bisogno di cambiare, la vita come la conosce, nel presente, sembra piatta, noiosa e senza speranza.<\/p>\n

People in these situations tend to look back at their past as something perfect, even though they are aware, deep in their hearts, that things they are remembering weren\u2019t that perfect.<\/p>\n

For example, if you’re unhappy with your current relationship, you may be looking back at the relationship you had with your ex in a very unrealistic way.<\/p>\n

You are probably forgetting about all the bad things that happened between you two and you\u2019re most certainly concentrating on the romantic, fluffy, exciting things you two did together.<\/p>\n

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No matter all the wrongs he\u2019s done to you, you only see the right things and that stops you from realizing you are actually with the wrong man right now.<\/p>\n

If it’s your job you are unhappy with, I guess you are thinking of all the ways the job you had before was better, maybe even regretting quitting (if that was the case).<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, tutti noi rivisitiamo il nostro passato di tanto in tanto, ma se vi ritrovate a vagare con la mente alle cene a lume di candela con il vostro ex (o a quella volta che vi ha portato la cioccolata quando avevate le mestruazioni), molto spesso \u00e8 il caso di chiedersi quali sono le cose che vi rendono infelici nella vostra vita attuale.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re feeling indifferent<\/h2>\n

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Non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 nulla che renda felici. Le cose che prima erano fonte di divertimento ora sono noiose.<\/p>\n

Le piccole cose quotidiane che vi facevano sorridere in passato, come mangiare un gelato con gli amici, semplicemente non fanno pi\u00f9 per voi.<\/p>\n

Dal momento in cui vi svegliate a quello in cui andate a letto, niente sembra far scoccare la scintilla in voi.<\/p>\n

Non siete pi\u00f9 entusiasti delle cose, anche se quelle che vi accadono sono o dovrebbero essere eccitanti. Sembra che non possiate essere n\u00e9 molto felici n\u00e9 molto tristi.<\/p>\n

Sembrate galleggiare nel mezzo, non toccati ma generalmente insoddisfatti.<\/p>\n

Not being able to feel emotions to the core of your being is a clear sign you are not letting yourself feel something and that can often be your mind’s way of hiding your need for change.<\/p>\n

3. Other people\u2019s lives seem so much better<\/h2>\n

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Every single one of us will sometimes feel as if our life is in a certain way worse than other people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

Ma anche, in una situazione neutrale, ci sono occasioni in cui sentiamo che la nostra vita \u00e8 in un certo senso migliore.<\/p>\n

For a person in need of change, almost everyone\u2019s life seems better than their own.<\/p>\n

Potreste vedere una persona affamata che chiede l'elemosina e trovare comunque dei modi in cui la sua vita \u00e8 pi\u00f9 eccitante o pi\u00f9 degna di essere vissuta della vostra.<\/p>\n

If this isn\u2019t a clear sign you need change, I don\u2019t know what is.<\/p>\n

Yes, the grass is usually greener on the other side but thinking pretty much everyone\u2019s life is more thrilling than your own is a red flag in terms of needing a major change.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019ve stopped caring about your appearance and health<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Se arrivate a una fase della vostra vita in cui nulla di ci\u00f2 che avete programmato per il futuro, o anche per il resto della giornata, vi fa sentire eccitati o pieni di energia, \u00e8 facile cadere in una routine.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t spend much time picking out clothes, you\u2019ve maybe stopped exercising under some fake excuse or you\u2019ve started eating unhealthily.<\/p>\n

Whatever one of the things above it is, you obviously no longer feel you have a need to prepare for anything, since you feel like you don\u2019t even have a future.<\/p>\n

If you really don\u2019t have anything or anyone in your life to make you feel excited to get ready and go out, you should at least have enough confidence to want to stay happy and healthy.<\/p>\n

If you notice this is no longer the case, it\u2019s time to make changes.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019ve made some new unhealthy habits or returned to your old ones<\/h2>\n

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If you started smoking, drinking or developing any kind of addiction (even one of the harmless ones, like watching too much TV) or returned to an old lifestyle that was bad for you in the past, that\u2019s probably a sign that you need to make a huge change in your life.<\/p>\n

La vostra mente sta cercando di liberare tutta l'energia negativa<\/span><\/a> sepolto nel profondo di voi e tutto quel veleno deve trovare la sua via d'uscita.<\/p>\n

Ricadere nelle vecchie dipendenze o in quelle nuove \u00e8 il vostro modo di auto-rasserenarvi e di aiutarvi a dimenticare i vostri problemi piuttosto che affrontarli.<\/p>\n

F. Scott Fitzgerald once wrote: \u2018I hope you live a life you\u2019re proud of, and if you\u2019re not, I hope you have the courage to start over again.\u2019<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Alcune cose che scegliete di fare vi segnano per l'eternit\u00e0 e, anche se dovete convivere con le vostre scelte, di solito siete anche in grado di scegliere di nuovo e di ricominciare la vostra vita da capo, se necessario.<\/p>\n

Yes, you have put a lot into creating a certain kind of scenery for your life, and breaking it seems like a waste but isn’t it a much bigger waste having to spend the rest of your life as a part of something you don’t enjoy?<\/p>\n

Tenetelo a mente e cercate di trovare la forza di reinventarvi.<\/p>\n

After all, if you can\u2019t make yourself happy, for sure no one else can do that for you.<\/p>\n

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