{"id":53247,"date":"2020-02-19T23:21:59","date_gmt":"2020-02-19T23:21:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53247"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:21:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:21:21","slug":"la-vera-donna-diventa-cio-che-vuole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-vera-donna-diventa-cio-che-vuole\/","title":{"rendered":"Ricordate, una vera donna diventa quello che vuole essere"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vi va bene che qualcuno vi dica cosa fare? Vi va bene che qualcuno si occupi della vostra vita?<\/p>\n<p>Since when do people have the idea they can change someone\u2019s life and direct them on a path <strong><em>LORO<\/em><\/strong> pensano che sia il migliore? O, soprattutto, da quando le donne ascoltano queste stronzate?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tesoro, fai quello che ti rende felice!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-53248\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-blonde-woman-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna bionda felice che ride di qualcosa al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-blonde-woman-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-blonde-woman-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-blonde-woman-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are a woman who has been through ups and downs. You\u2019ve seen hell and you\u2019ve tasted happiness.<\/p>\n<p>Eppure, sei alto con un cuore incorrotto e una speranza infinita. Ancora, sei pieno d'amore, tutto feroce e maturo.<\/p>\n<p>No one \u2013 listen to me\u2026 NO ONE has the right to change who you are. NO ONE has the right to tell you what to do!<\/p>\n<p>Accettare consigli da qualcuno \u00e8 una strada a doppio senso. Purtroppo, la maggior parte di noi si ritrova ad essere bersaglio di gelosia e di false pretese.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not uncommon to get stabbed in the back by the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/dopo-la-rottura-di-qualcuno-di-cui-ci-si-fidava\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">persona che pensavate di poter trarre<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Advice coming from those people \u2013 the ones who pretend to be your friends \u2013 is toxic and dangerous.<\/p>\n<p>D'altra parte, un consiglio da parte di qualcuno che si preoccupa sinceramente per voi \u00e8 una benedizione.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-53249\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-1.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia felice che si abbraccia sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-couple-hugging-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sadly, no one knows for sure when a piece of toxic advice is disguised as a warm and loving one, and when it\u2019s the other way around.<\/p>\n<p>Detto questo, credo che il punto sia: L'unica persona di cui ci si pu\u00f2 fidare \u00e8 se stessi. Una donna forte lo sa.<\/p>\n<p>Una donna forte sa che pu\u00f2 fidarsi solo del proprio intuito e delle proprie azioni. Sa che il suo giudizio \u00e8, alla fine, il pi\u00f9 affidabile.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Alcuni potrebbero interpretarlo come testardaggine, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che una donna forte sa quello che vuole, quindi fa quello che vuole.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>A strong woman wants to\u2026<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Essere indefinibili dalla societ\u00e0.<\/strong> <\/em>She doesn\u2019t want to be a stereotype \u2013 a beautiful, classy, and extremely feminine woman who is supposed to do girly stuff and act according to what society thinks is acceptable.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-53250\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-woman-on-floor.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna felice che sorride e si siede a terra con il suo caff\u00e8 e il suo telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-woman-on-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-woman-on-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-woman-on-floor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No, a strong woman \u2013 a woman who wants to be whatever the hell she wants \u2013 will watch football on Sundays and drink beer with the guys.<\/p>\n<p>Potr\u00e0 persino ubriacarsi di brutto in un bar rifiutandosi di tornare a casa. E nessuna di queste cose apparir\u00e0 ridicola su di lei; nessuno la giudicher\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>The reason for that is more than simple. She is super confident and she will never force herself to do something she doesn\u2019t feel comfortable doing. And that\u2019s visible from the outside.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Siate assolutamente onesti.<\/strong><\/em> There is no place for mind games in her life. She thinks playing around is a complete waste of time \u2013 and her time is far too precious to waste.<\/p>\n<p>Che si tratti di un'amicizia o di una relazione, lei vi dir\u00e0 sempre la verit\u00e0 e non se ne vergogner\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n<p>Una donna come lei fa quello che diavolo vuole <strong>PERCHE'<\/strong> pu\u00f2.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-53251\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-goofy-girl-walking.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna felice e imbranata che cammina in citt\u00e0\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-goofy-girl-walking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-goofy-girl-walking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-goofy-girl-walking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sentire la verit\u00e0 da lei pu\u00f2 sembrare una doccia fredda, ma quella doccia fredda ha il compito di riportarvi alla realt\u00e0, dove i problemi aspettano di essere risolti. Ringraziatela per avervi scosso!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Non essere meno che completamente onesta anche con se stessa.<\/strong><\/em> If she\u2019s hurting, she\u2019ll find the strength to accept it and, more importantly, get over it in time.<\/p>\n<p>She is woman enough to confess what\u2019s going on in her head and what she\u2019s feeling.<\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t concerned with appearing silly or crazy. The secret to her sanity and healthy spirit is honesty and embracing what she feels.<\/p>\n<p>Solo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/non-si-puo-nascere-forti\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">donne mature e forti<\/span><\/a> sono pronti a fare quella mossa.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Essere indipendenti.<\/em><\/strong> And she is. She doesn\u2019t need anyone really. She doesn\u2019t need your love that badly that it will make her reach the border of the \u201cLand of the Desperate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-53252\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-working-alone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane ragazza intenta a lavorare sul suo computer portatile\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-working-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-working-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-woman-working-alone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>On the contrary, she will accept your move, and then\u2026 Then she will make her own.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t see it coming. She\u2019ll surprise you with the last thing you thought she\u2019d do.<\/p>\n<p>In queste situazioni, allontanarsi dalla persona che si ama ed essere distrutta per un po' \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 accettabile che passare il resto della vita come una stupida, presa in giro e controllata.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Combattere le proprie battaglie.<\/em><\/strong> She won\u2019t let you push her around. She won\u2019t let you bully her. Conflict isn\u2019t a strange concept to her.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t like it, but she doesn\u2019t avoid it either. If the situation asks for it, she will fight for what she wants no matter the consequences.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s no doormat and, trust me, she\u2019ll never let you take your frustrations out on her.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/stabilire-dei-limiti-come-una-donna-di-alto-valore-2\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ha dei limiti<\/span><\/a> e nessuno ha il diritto di attraversarli. Chiunque abbia osato farlo \u00e8 stato punito per questo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-53253\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-woman-leaning-on-wall.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna felice appoggiata al muro della strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-woman-leaning-on-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-woman-leaning-on-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-woman-leaning-on-wall-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Essere in una relazione per il gusto di farlo.<\/em><\/strong> She isn\u2019t in it only for the sex. She doesn\u2019t need a casual relationship with you because she can find casual wherever she goes.<\/p>\n<p>Una cosa occasionale non \u00e8 cos\u00ec complicata da incontrare. D'altra parte, una relazione significativa lo \u00e8.<\/p>\n<p>A real relationship doesn\u2019t revolve around sex. It\u2019s definitely a part of it, but it is not a priority.<\/p>\n<p>Anyone who thinks differently doesn\u2019t stand a chance in the presence of a woman like this. She\u2019s on a completely different level of consciousness.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Essere responsabile dei propri errori.<\/em><\/strong> Una persona come lei non getterebbe mai qualcun altro sotto l'autobus.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-53254\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/calm-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna calma e speranzosa in riva al mare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/calm-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/calm-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/calm-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If she\u2019s wrong, she will come clean without thinking twice about it. Once again, maturity leaves its footprint.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to relationships, she\u2019ll own up to her part of screwing up, but also want the same from you.<\/p>\n<p>Purtroppo, a volte queste donne hanno pi\u00f9 palle di alcuni uomini quando si tratta di ammettere gli errori.<\/p>\n<p>Il punto \u00e8 che lei vuole risolvere il problema e ammetterlo \u00e8 l'unico modo per risolverlo.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>In the end\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A strong woman is a woman who\u2019ll walk away when she isn\u2019t happy. A strong woman is a woman who won\u2019t take BS from anyone, under any cost.<\/p>\n<p>Una donna forte fa quello che vuole. Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 <strong><em>UNA DONNA FORTE PU\u00d2 FARLO.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-53256\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Remember-A-Real-Woman-Becomes-Whatever-The-Hell-She-Wants-To-Be-pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ricordate, una vera donna diventa quello che vuole essere\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Remember-A-Real-Woman-Becomes-Whatever-The-Hell-She-Wants-To-Be-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Remember-A-Real-Woman-Becomes-Whatever-The-Hell-She-Wants-To-Be-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Remember-A-Real-Woman-Becomes-Whatever-The-Hell-She-Wants-To-Be-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Remember-A-Real-Woman-Becomes-Whatever-The-Hell-She-Wants-To-Be-pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you okay with someone telling you what to do? Are you okay with someone being in charge of your life? Since when do people have the idea they can change someone\u2019s life and direct them on a path THEY think is the best? Or, more importantly, since when do women listen to that crap?&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":53255,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-53247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Remember-A-Real-Woman-Becomes-Whatever-The-Hell-She-Wants-To-Be.jpg",800,523,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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