{"id":53393,"date":"2020-02-22T10:58:30","date_gmt":"2020-02-22T10:58:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53393"},"modified":"2022-03-09T13:48:13","modified_gmt":"2022-03-09T13:48:13","slug":"non-ti-deludero-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-ti-deludero-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Nota a se stessi: non vi deluder\u00f2"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quante volte avete dovuto reprimere i vostri sentimenti per poter aiutare l'altro?<\/p>\n

Quante volte avete cercato di aiutarli a risolvere i loro problemi, mentre voi eravate alle prese con cose peggiori?<\/p>\n

Maybe YOU were the one who was falling apart at that moment, but you didn’t want to burden anyone with your problems.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Or maybe you did tell someone but they didn’t do anything to help you. They let you down, even though you\u2019d never failed them.<\/p>\n

Smettete di sentirvi un peso. Avete sempre qualcuno a cui appoggiarvi.<\/p>\n

Hai sempre te stesso. Siete certamente l'unica persona che non vi deluder\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

You just have to learn how to love yourself more. You don’t have to create a “new self”, just a better self.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don’t wait to do it. Do it now. Decide that you won’t live by compromising or sacrificing yourself.<\/p>\n

Especially if it is going to endanger your own happiness. Don’t push your own needs aside.<\/p>\n

Fate subito una lista di cose da fare. Nel momento in cui inizierete a scriverla, vi sentirete meglio con la vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Sarete entusiasti di pianificare nuove cose e sfide.<\/p>\n

You’ll be excited to cross some things or some PEOPLE off your list.<\/p>\n

Potete farcela. E avrete successo, ve lo assicuro!<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La decisione pi\u00f9 importante dovrebbe essere quella di trattate voi stessi nel modo in cui meritate di essere trattati.<\/a><\/p>\n

This should be on the top of your bucket list. Believe me, it\u2019s not selfishness, it is bravery.<\/p>\n

Vivere una vita pi\u00f9 sana e appagante. Apportare cambiamenti benefici.<\/p>\n

You are a priority. Everyone else may come and go from your life, but you can’t.<\/p>\n

You are stuck with yourself for the rest of your life, so try to be somebody that you’ll enjoy being around.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Gettate via tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 tossico. Cercate di aggiungere qualcosa di meglio alla vostra vita, invece di aggrapparvi a tutto ci\u00f2 che non vi fa bene.<\/p>\n

Cercate di migliorare le cose invece di buttarle fuori dalla vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Le persone vi tratteranno e rispetteranno sempre nel modo in cui glielo permetterete. Se mostrate delle insicurezze, le persone le useranno come un'arma contro di voi.<\/p>\n

I vostri meccanismi di difesa dovrebbero stabilire dei limiti e prendere le distanze quando necessario.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Ripensate a quell'ex che era tutto per voi. Ma nonostante ci\u00f2, ti ha deluso? Vi siete sentiti come se il mondo intero vi avesse deluso.<\/p>\n

Don’t worry. You still have someone that will never do that to you. You have yourself.<\/p>\n

And no matter how hard things become, you’ll never let yourself down.<\/p>\n

E sapete una cosa? Mr Right non lo farebbe mai.<\/p>\n

He would never leave. He wouldn’t turn his back when you need him most.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

He would reach out to you and he wouldn’t let you fall. And if you were already down, he would help you to get up again.<\/p>\n

Il suo amore DEVE essere incondizionato! Non pu\u00f2 lasciarvi andare o deludervi.<\/p>\n

Don’t be surprised by other people’s actions. Don’t allow yourself to be disappointed by anyone’s words or actions.<\/p>\n

You don’t owe anything to anyone in this world. Just to yourself.<\/p>\n

Avete il diritto di guardare indietro. Avete il diritto di cambiare idea. Avete il diritto di pensare prima a voi stessi.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Don’t you dare think you’re less important than anyone else. You have to know that you matter.<\/p>\n

Siete importanti per coloro che vi amano. Siete importanti per voi stessi perch\u00e9 avete bisogno di amarvi di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Vi meritate quell'amore. Meritate quell'amore profondo e reale. Un amore infinito. Il tipo di amore che non svanir\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

Okay. I admit. Life is hard and there will be days, weeks, months when you don\u2019t feel like you have enough fuel in the tank to push onwards and upwards.<\/p>\n

Quando vorreste avere qualcuno dall'altra parte del letto, solo per dirvi che non siete soli e che lui \u00e8 l\u00ec per voi.<\/p>\n

E verr\u00e0. L'altro lato del letto sar\u00e0 occupato da qualcuno che lo merita.<\/p>\n

By someone who will never let you down. Still, please, make yourself a promise that you won’t let yourself down…ever.<\/p>\n

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