{"id":5351,"date":"2020-03-19T20:33:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T20:33:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5351"},"modified":"2022-02-27T03:16:40","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T03:16:40","slug":"7-modi-in-cui-le-ragazze-con-ansia-amano-in-modo-diverso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-modi-in-cui-le-ragazze-con-ansia-amano-in-modo-diverso\/","title":{"rendered":"7 modi in cui le ragazze con ansia amano in modo diverso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i> \u201cAnxiety is love&#8217;s greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic. <\/i> \u201d~Anais Nin<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like being trapped in a well. Everywhere around you it\u2019s dark, and you are standing in knee-high water.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t fall asleep because if you do, you\u2019ll drown. And you can\u2019t do anything about it.<\/p>\n<p><b><i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/anxiety-made-prisoner-mind\/\">That\u2019s anxiety.<\/a> It traps you and it holds you its captive. And you can\u2019t do anything about it. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>You can try to escape, but it\u2019s a never-ending battle. It lasts for your whole life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Anxiety becomes you. You can scream for hours in that deep well but no one will hear you. You will just have to manage and try to make it on your own\u2014try to survive.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79380\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta in riva al mare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A causa di questa sensazione, abbiamo sempre la guardia alta. Siamo sempre preoccupati e pensiamo a tutto.<\/p>\n<p>And when the people who don\u2019t get what anxiety is do even one wrong move, we feel like we are in that deep well, once again.<\/p>\n<p>Ragazze con ansia<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amo-in-modo-diverso-grazie-a-te\/\"> amare in modo diverso<\/a>. Dobbiamo amare in modo diverso perch\u00e9 siamo diversi. Ma il nostro amore \u00e8 quello che durer\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Our love is the one that is pure. Once we feel we can trust you, we will let you into our hearts. And we\u2019re going to let you stay there forever.<\/p>\n<p>You will be the one who is honored to be loved by a girl with anxiety\u2014differently.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abbiamo bisogno di sentirci al sicuro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79382\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna depressa seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Abbiamo bisogno di uno spazio sicuro. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/5-cose-che-attraggono-le-donne-forti-e-indipendenti-e-che-mantengono-vivo-linteresse-degli-uomini-di-qualita\/\">Siamo indipendenti.<\/a> Don\u2019t get me wrong, we are. But it\u2019s just that in those moments when we are at our lowest, we need someone to feel safe with.<\/p>\n<p>Anche quando siamo fuori, odiamo le situazioni che non rientrano nella nostra zona di comfort.<\/p>\n<p>So, we need you. We need you to be our safety net and to protect us from the things we are scared of. You don\u2019t even have to protect us. Being there is enough.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Siamo sorvegliati<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79383\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda attraverso la finestra piovosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-rainy-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Proteggiamo i nostri cuori. Abbiamo paura di essere feriti e la nostra ansia ci fa credere che la persona con cui stiamo ci ferir\u00e0 prima o poi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abbiamo problemi di fiducia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79384\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-woman-holding-her-phone-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna depressa che tiene in mano il telefono sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-woman-holding-her-phone-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-woman-holding-her-phone-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/depressed-woman-holding-her-phone-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci vuole molto tempo per fidarsi completamente di qualcuno. Lo facciamo perch\u00e9 la nostra ansia ci rende sempre cauti.<\/p>\n<p>Ci fa immaginare cose che non ci sono.<\/p>\n<p>Vogliamo fidarci di loro, ma l'ansia ha la meglio su di noi.<b style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dobbiamo essere sicuri<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79387\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We need that feeling of safety. We need to know that you aren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever we ask you to confirm and prove your love for us, it\u2019s not because we are second-guessing you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because we cannot control our anxiety which makes us doubt even things which we are the most positive about.<\/p>\n<p>The feeling of knowing everything is fine and that you are by our side gives us calmness. That\u2019s all we need.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abbiamo bisogno della vostra vicinanza<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79388\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-hugging-a-sad-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che abbraccia una donna triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-hugging-a-sad-woman-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-hugging-a-sad-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/man-hugging-a-sad-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p>Ogni volta che l'ansia ci colpisce, ci porta in luoghi oscuri. Ci porta alla depressione e alla tristezza.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever that happens, we need to know that you are by our side. And if you are, we\u2019ll never let you go.<\/p>\n<p>Tu sei quello che ci vede al nostro peggio e quando siamo pi\u00f9 vulnerabili. E se resterai anche dopo, saremo tuoi per sempre.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ci isoliamo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79389\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-woman-watching-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"donna sola che guarda il mare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-woman-watching-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-woman-watching-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/lonely-woman-watching-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci allontaniamo perch\u00e9 l'ansia ci fa desiderare di stare da soli. Ci fa chiudere e costruire un enorme muro infrangibile intorno a noi.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 grave quando ci innamoriamo, a causa di tutti i problemi di fiducia che abbiamo. L'ansia \u00e8 massima.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi ameremo nel nostro modo unico, per sempre<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79390\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-couple-in-hug.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia in abbraccio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-couple-in-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-couple-in-hug-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/young-couple-in-hug-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Possiamo essere un po' difficili da gestire, lo so. Ma siamo devoti perch\u00e9 rispettiamo e apprezziamo il fatto che abbiate trovato il modo e la forza di amarci.<\/p>\n<p>We know it\u2019s hard, and you did it. That means <a href=\"http:\/\/elitedaily.com\/dating\/only-love-worth-fighting-for\/1038719\/\" rel=\"noopener\">il tuo amore vale davvero qualcosa<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ti amiamo perch\u00e9 sei colui che ci ama anche quando ti mettiamo in discussione. Tu sei colui che non si arrende mai.<\/p>\n<p>Tu sei il nostro protettore e il nostro porto sicuro in una notte di tempesta.<\/p>\n<p>Non vi faremo mai sentire non amati. Anche quando soffriamo di pi\u00f9, quando l'ansia si fa sentire, non smetteremo mai di dimostrarvi quanto vi amiamo.<\/p>\n<p>Anxiety is real. It consumes you. It takes control over your body and mind. That\u2019s why we freak out at the smallest problem.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why we get scared to face the smallest obstacle.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ti daremo il nostro cuore e riporremo la nostra fiducia in te. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Se ci fai del male, non saremo mai pi\u00f9 in grado di amare qualcuno in quel modo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-79404\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/7-Ways-How-Girls-With-Anxiety-Love-Differently-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 modi in cui le ragazze con ansia amano in modo diverso\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/7-Ways-How-Girls-With-Anxiety-Love-Differently-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/7-Ways-How-Girls-With-Anxiety-Love-Differently-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/7-Ways-How-Girls-With-Anxiety-Love-Differently-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/7-Ways-How-Girls-With-Anxiety-Love-Differently-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cAnxiety is love&#8217;s greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic. \u201d~Anais Nin It\u2019s like being trapped in a well. Everywhere around you it\u2019s dark, and you are standing in knee-high&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":79392,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29634],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5351","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-anxiety"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29634,"label":"anxiety"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/7-Ways-How-Girls-With-Anxiety-Love-Differently.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29634,"name":"anxiety","slug":"anxiety","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29634,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learning how to control your anxiety or help and understand your partner struggling with anxious thoughts will improve the quality of your life.","parent":22911,"count":30,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29634,"category_count":30,"category_description":"Learning how to control your anxiety or help and understand your partner struggling with anxious thoughts will improve the quality of your life.","cat_name":"anxiety","category_nicename":"anxiety","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5351","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5351"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5351\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79392"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5351"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5351"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5351"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}