{"id":53676,"date":"2020-03-20T23:03:09","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T23:03:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=53676"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:36:37","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:36:37","slug":"era-solo-la-tua-lezione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/era-solo-la-tua-lezione\/","title":{"rendered":"Era la vostra lezione, non una condanna a vita: lasciatelo nel passato"},"content":{"rendered":"

We\u2019ve all been there. We know how much it hurts. But please be brave. Life shouldn’t stop just because he left you.<\/p>\n

Raccogliete i pezzi del vostro cuore. Incollateli di nuovo insieme. Guarirete.<\/p>\n

Choose to learn from the past, not to regret it. If you focus too much on it, you’ll miss out on a beautiful future.<\/p>\n

The experience will leave scars. They’ll be there all your life just to remind you to choose yourself more often.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll mold you to become a better person in every possible way. They won’t let you go back to that man ever again.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

La scienza ha dimostrato che l'amore attiva nel nostro cervello gli stessi meccanismi di alcune droghe. In altre parole, l'amore crea dipendenza.<\/p>\n

E se se ne viene improvvisamente privati, si va in crisi d'astinenza.<\/p>\n

Be stronger than that. Don’t get high. Think about the long-term side effects.<\/p>\n

But don’t ever let that past define you. You aren’t una ragazza con il cuore spezzato<\/a> who can’t trust and love anymore. No, you are not.<\/p>\n

Remember, you will love again. And more importantly, you’ll be loved as you never have before.<\/p>\n

It’s hard to finish a relationship with someone you would have done anything for.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s hard, and it may get harder\u2014but it will pay off. All the pain and tear-soaked nights will pay off. You’ll be free and happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Don’t give him more power over your life than he deserves. He is now just an ex, and that’s all.<\/p>\n

Maybe you’ll say hello to him when you see him on the street. Maybe you won’t.<\/p>\n

He’ll surely suggest that you two stay friends. Don’t do that. Don\u2019t even respond.<\/p>\n

He’ll move on much faster than you, and if you keep in touch with him, you’ll have to see him with his new girlfriends.<\/p>\n

Forse ha chiesto di essere amici per tenervi a disposizione di tanto in tanto quando gli mancate.<\/p>\n

If you show him you\u2019re okay with that arrangement, he’ll enjoy those little make-up-and-cuddle sessions, and before you know it, you\u2019ll be so far in that you won’t be able to stop.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t call him\u2014not even to return his things or ask for yours. Be fair and give back what\u2019s his, but send it via someone else.<\/p>\n

Se un giorno tornate a casa e trovate uno scatolone con le vostre cose davanti alla porta, dovreste sbarazzarvene immediatamente.<\/p>\n

Throw it away\u2014no matter what’s inside. Whatever it is, it will slow your healing process.<\/p>\n

Lasciatelo nel passato. Don’t look back<\/a>. E se Cenerentola fosse tornata indietro per la sua scarpa? Non avrebbe mai incontrato il suo principe.<\/strong><\/p>\n

An ending doesn\u2019t have to be a bad thing. An ending simply means that something else is about to begin.<\/p>\n

La cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 escogitare dei meccanismi per affrontare la nuova situazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Per esempio, potreste scrivere una lettera a lui e darle fuoco, insieme ai vostri ricordi e alle vostre fotografie.<\/p>\n

\"Era<\/p>\n

Se pensate che la vostra salute mentale stia soffrendo, dovreste cercare il sostegno di un terapeuta...<\/p>\n

Cercate di circondarvi di persone che vi amano e che vedono il meglio di voi. Rimanere socialmente attivi \u00e8 molto importante per evitare di sentirsi depressi.<\/p>\n

Non negate mai che la rottura sia avvenuta o che vi abbia ferito.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re afraid of being alone. Maybe you think he is the only man you’ll ever love.<\/p>\n

You’re in shock, and you can’t think straight now, but you\u2019ll feel better\u2014you just need time.<\/p>\n

If you are still hoping that he’ll come back, that means you are stuck in the past. That unhealthy, negative energy will kill your soul.<\/p>\n

Life is a journey, and it\u2019s just taking you somewhere else. Buckle your seat belt and enjoy the ride.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Il tempo guarir\u00e0 tutto se glielo permetterete. Trascorrete del tempo facendo ci\u00f2 che vi rilassa.<\/p>\n

Leggete il vostro libro preferito, andate in spiaggia, mettete la vostra musica preferita o fate shopping. Respirate. Non pensate troppo. Toglietevelo dalla testa.<\/p>\n

Per guarire le ferite, bisogna smettere di toccarle. Voleva andarsene, quindi mostrategli la via d'uscita e chiudete quella porta per sempre.<\/p>\n

He is now in the past. Your past is a history of victory. Learn from it. It\u2019s the biggest lesson of your life.<\/p>\n

Rompi le tue illusioni su di lui. Non \u00e8 mai stato il vostro per sempre. Smettete di collezionare pietre quando meritate diamanti. Meritate l'amore pi\u00f9 vero di tutti.<\/p>\n

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