I\u2019m a grown-ass woman who is done with bulls**t.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c8 qui che intervenite voi.<\/p>\n Since this piece was inspired by your bullying and your crazy little manipulations, I suggest you take a seat and get comfortable because I’ve just started to take out my frustrations which I’ve been collecting for years.<\/p>\n Mi dispiace quasi per me stesso per non aver capito tutto prima.<\/p>\n Perch\u00e9 quasi, vi chiederete?<\/em><\/p>\n Well, the reason I\u2019m NOT sorry is that I was fed so much bullshit that I ran out of places to store it, so it eventually started hitting me on the head with an intention to make me realize what an idiot I’ve been this whole time.<\/p>\n I know I would have never reached this blissful stage of complete enlightenment if I\u2019d kept the BS from everyone deep inside, suffering in silence and coping with it when no one was looking.<\/strong><\/p>\n That\u2019s why I\u2019m glad it happened anyway.<\/p>\n Ora, almeno, so di aver dato il massimo. So che ho provato di tutto, ma non ho mai avuto un riscontro positivo da parte vostra.<\/p>\n Hai continuato a vivere la tua vita senza compromessi, come se fossi solo in essa.<\/p>\n Hai continuato a essere egoista senza curarti di tutti gli avvertimenti che sono arrivati da un giorno all'altro.<\/p>\n Now that I’ve become indifferent, it\u2019s too late for you to fix things. There is no going back.<\/p>\n For the sake of this article and for the sake of people still storing frustrations inside themselves, I\u2019m going to write as many fundamentally stupid things as I can remember and the mistakes you made which slowly drove me away from you.<\/p>\n I know it\u2019s hard to face the truth but bear with me\u2026 it might do you good and help you become a better version of yourself\u2026 IT. JUST. MIGHT.<\/p>\n Over time, I realized that the problem wasn\u2019t me and I shouldn\u2019t take any more BS because I was in no way responsible for the problems coming our way (despite how hard you tried to manipulate me into thinking it WAS all my fault).<\/p>\n The problem was you\u2026 all along, it was you.<\/p>\n You hated yourself for the things you did or better said, for the things you didn\u2019t do and you should have.<\/p>\n I rimpianti ti accecavano e non riuscivi mai a superarli. Avevi bisogno di qualcuno con cui sfogarti.<\/p>\n Ero la fonte di energia vivente pi\u00f9 vicina a cui le vostre intenzioni velenose potessero attaccarsi.<\/p>\n I\u2019m aware of that now and I\u2019m finally putting an end to it\u2014something I should have done a long time ago.<\/p>\n Sorridere divenne qualcosa che facevo solo in rare occasioni. Quelle rughe felici sembravano svanire quando passavo pi\u00f9 tempo con te.<\/p>\n Me, a girl who was always laughing and in good spirits\u2026 I became unrecognizable.<\/p>\n C'erano occasioni in cui sorridevo, ma tutti quelli che mi conoscevano bene vedevano che lo stavo forzando.<\/p>\n They all saw it\u2014a big, fake smile to chase off curious snoopers dying to find out something new to gossip about.<\/p>\n In altre parole, lentamente, mi hai reso infelice. Mi hai trasformato in una donna stanca della vita.<\/p>\n At the age of thirty, I was tired of life. Isn\u2019t that just sad?<\/p>\n Ora mi chiedo addirittura se tu fossi geloso di me? Forse pensavi che io ce l'avessi fatta nella vita e che tu fossi rimasto indietro.<\/p>\n But if that is true and it most definitely is not, how could have I achieved the things you wanted instead of you? I could only help you get there. I couldn\u2019t do it for you.<\/p>\n E non hai mai avuto le palle di alzare il culo e fare davvero qualcosa nella tua vita.<\/p>\n Cos\u00ec, dopo che ce l'ho fatta, hai voluto prenderti il merito del mio lavoro. Volevi essere il motivo del mio successo.<\/p>\n The truth is I\u2019m successful BECAUSE I had to do it all by myself.<\/p>\n I never could rely on you for anything\u2014from the smallest details to bigger commitments. I guess what I want to say to you now is\u2026 thank you.<\/p>\n It became an obsession, really. It wasn\u2019t cute anymore. Instead, it became horrific.<\/p>\n Over time, I felt like I needed to dedicate my life to you only, leaving no room for anyone else\u2014friends or what\u2019s even worse, family.<\/p>\n How could a person be jealous of the other\u2019s mother and their perfectly healthy relationship?<\/p>\n Beh, sei riuscito a entrare in un'altra sfera di gelosia, a superare un altro livello e purtroppo ha distrutto la nostra possibilit\u00e0 di essere felici.<\/p>\n Hai perso il controllo e mi hai bandito dalla tua vita, per sempre.<\/p>\n Davvero, dopo un po' diventa vecchio. Sapevo esattamente quali sarebbero state le tue scuse e quali battute avresti usato dopo un litigio.<\/p>\n Le conoscevo a memoria perch\u00e9 era sempre la stessa storia.<\/p>\n You were never guilty, it was always someone else\u2019s fault and you just happened to be there to take the blame.<\/p>\n It\u2019s impossible to believe that you\u2019re such a saint while everyone around you is faulty in a way.<\/p>\n It\u2019s even more impossible to believe that everyone else is stupid and wrong, only your opinion matters and only you are right.<\/p>\n C\u2019mon\u2026 seriously?! That is a load of BS listed as No. 5 on my list which I\u2019ve put up for such a long time but even that trace of love I had for you, the familiarity and warmth I used to feel around you couldn\u2019t justify your behavior and your claims.<\/p>\n Tutto era semplicemente troppo.<\/p>\n It was impossible to \u2018Always Look on the Bright Side of Life\u2019, as sung in \u2018Monty Python\u2019, with you by my side.<\/p>\n It was always about negativity. All you could talk about were some insane conspiracy theories in which every scenario ended up the same\u2014we were all going to die horrible deaths.<\/p>\n You know what?! I don\u2019t give a shit! I\u2019m going to die anyway.<\/p>\n Quindi, se Dio ha voluto che io morissi in una morte orribile, caotica, da fine del mondo, cos\u00ec sia!<\/p>\n I didn\u2019t want to live my life in fear and regret something that might just happen but which you had no proof that it actually would.<\/p>\n La vostra negativit\u00e0 mi ha cambiato ogni giorno un po' di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n Quella stronzata si \u00e8 ancorata nella parte posteriore della mia mente; man mano che si stabiliva nel mio cervello, ho iniziato ad averne paura.<\/p>\n Ho iniziato a credere che tutte le cose che hai detto sarebbero accadute.<\/p>\n Intendo dire giorni migliori con te. Durante la parte centrale della nostra relazione, avevo ancora la speranza che i giorni migliori dovessero ancora arrivare.<\/p>\n Needless to say, I couldn\u2019t have been more wrong. That hope slowly vanished as you showed absolutely no intention of changing.<\/p>\n Not just that you refused to change, you didn\u2019t even notice that you had a problem. It was so much easier to blame me or anyone else.<\/p>\n Era molto pi\u00f9 facile dire stronzate che essere un uomo, allacciarsi le cinture e mettere ordine nella propria vita.<\/p>\n There you go\u2026 This is what you got for what you served.<\/p>\n There it is. I finally feel like I’ve got to that point in my life where I can shout from the top of my lungs to everyone who bothers me, loud and clear: \u201cFU!\u201d I’m finally at that stage where I simply don\u2019t give a damn anymore. 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\nSo yes\u2026 it\u2019s going to be a long ride.<\/em><\/p>\n![\"giovane](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-by-the-window-3.jpg\")
<\/p>\nBS No. 1 – Your hidden self-loathing was not my problem<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No. 2 – You made me (in one word) MISERABLE<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No. 3 – You lacked any form of support imaginable<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No.4 – Your jealousy was too much to handle<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No.5 – Poor you, you were always the victim<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No.6 – Your negativity drove me insane<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nBS No. 7 – You destroyed my hope of better days<\/h2>\n
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