{"id":54095,"date":"2020-03-04T09:57:43","date_gmt":"2020-03-04T09:57:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54095"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:09:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:09:43","slug":"le-ragioni-per-cui-i-narcisisti-predano-le-donne-con-ansia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-ragioni-per-cui-i-narcisisti-predano-le-donne-con-ansia\/","title":{"rendered":"10 motivi per cui i narcisisti predano le donne con ansia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Un narcisista raramente si mette con una persona qualsiasi.<\/p>\n

In fact, their selection is never random; they\u2019re always looking for the most suited victims for their abuse.<\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 stato dimostrato che la maggior parte delle vittime del narcisista sono donne che soffrono di ansia<\/a> disturbo.<\/p>\n

So, there has to be some kind of connection between the two. Let\u2019s look into it.<\/p>\n

1. A narcissist never takes responsibility\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Una delle caratteristiche pi\u00f9 comuni di tutti i narcisisti \u00e8 che non si considerano mai colpevoli per qualsiasi cosa dicano o facciano.<\/p>\n

These are the people who usually have zero conscience and never admit that they\u2019re wrong.<\/p>\n

Even when they see their mistake, they never admit it to anyone else \u2013 especially not their victims.<\/p>\n

Anche se nel profondo vedono le loro imperfezioni, i narcisisti hanno la necessit\u00e0 di presentarsi come impeccabili.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re not like the rest of us mortals.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t make errors, repent for their misdeeds, or apologize when they\u2019ve done you harm.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, tutto questo fa parte della loro tattica di manipolazione.<\/p>\n

Fingere di essere troppo bello per essere vero all'inizio \u00e8 un modo per un narcisista di entrare nella vostra pelle.<\/p>\n

Ultimamente, la fa franca con i suoi peccati perch\u00e9 non li ammette mai e trova sempre una scusa per il suo comportamento tossico.<\/p>\n

2. …while people with anxiety think they\u2019re always to blame<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, le persone con disturbo d'ansia attribuiscono sempre tutta la colpa a se stesse.<\/p>\n

E questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che pi\u00f9 si addice al narcisista.<\/p>\n

Vedete, anche se un narcisista vi dice he\u2019s sorry<\/a>, somehow he\u2019ll manage to twist the entire situation around and you will never get a genuine apology.<\/p>\n

Instead of taking responsibility for his actions, he\u2019ll end up convincing his anxious victim that she made him react that way, that he for example cheated because she wasn\u2019t giving him enough attention, or that he insulted (or even hit her) for her own good.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sembra assurdo, lo so.<\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019re anxious and insecure about yourself, something like this is easy to believe.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, un uomo con un disturbo narcisista vi far\u00e0 il lavaggio del cervello per mesi e anni.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll blame you for every little thing that happens and for every failure of your relationship until you\u2019re manipulated into seeing things that way too.<\/p>\n

3. A narcissist makes their victims feel like they\u2019re not enough\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: A narcissist\u2019s ego is fragile.<\/p>\n

Despite popular opinion, these people don\u2019t think highly of themselves and have an awfully low self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, invece di lavorare su questi problemi, scelgono un modello di comportamento diverso.<\/p>\n

They decide to start acting completely the opposite to what they feel and pretending that they\u2019re self-confident in order for others to see them that way as well.<\/p>\n

So, when you first meet a man like this, you admire his sense of self-worth without actually knowing what\u2019s hidden underneath the surface.<\/p>\n

The problem isn\u2019t in this guy\u2019s cockiness, it is in the way he bases his self-value on humiliating others.<\/p>\n

A narcissist constantly compares himself to everyone around him \u2013 especially to his victim \u2013 and the only way for him to feel good is to be above you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Di conseguenza, questo ragazzo sfrutta ogni occasione per metterti in difficolt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Vi insulta, vi chiama per nome, sminuisce il vostro valore, si prende gioco di voi. Sostiene che i vostri amici, la vostra istruzione o la vostra carriera non servono a nulla.<\/p>\n

Ti fa confrontare con altre ragazze. E la lista continua.<\/p>\n

Egli fa di voi la sottomessa nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

La sensazione di dominio che ha su di voi gli d\u00e0 un senso di potere e di autostima.<\/p>\n

4. …while anxious people already have self-doubts<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

E chi pensate sia il migliore per questo trucco di magia? Beh, nessuno se non una ragazza che sta gi\u00e0 lottando con l'ansia e le insicurezze.<\/p>\n

Una donna ansiosa \u00e8 la vittima pi\u00f9 adatta di una abuso di narcisisti<\/a> perch\u00e9 pensa gi\u00e0 di non essere abbastanza.<\/p>\n

So, a narcissist has no trouble making her believe that she really isn\u2019t worth anything.<\/p>\n

This guy puts all of his efforts into convincing you that you\u2019re not meant to be loved, that you should be lucky that he agreed to be with you, despite the way he\u2019s treating you, and that nobody else would ever look at you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not pretty or beautiful enough.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re stupid, crazy, incapable of doing anything with your life, and you would be a total failure if it weren\u2019t for him \u2013 your savior and the only person in this world who could ever love you the way you are.<\/p>\n

5. A narcissist uses fear\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Un'altra tecnica che tutti i narcisisti utilizzano per controllare le loro vittime e tenerle al loro fianco \u00e8 la paura.<\/p>\n

When you hear this, you probably assume that this man threatens to kill you or beat you up, but there is much more to fear than physical threats, even though they\u2019re also usually included in narcissistic abuse.<\/p>\n

He might emotionally blackmail you and tell you that he\u2019ll do something to himself if you leave him.<\/p>\n

Or he threatens to expose all of your secrets to your closest ones or publish your private videos and photos \u2013 the possibilities are endless.<\/p>\n

\"fidanzata<\/p>\n

He promises that he\u2019ll destroy you if you walk away on him or that he\u2019ll haunt you for as long as you\u2019re alive.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, il risultato finale \u00e8 lo stesso.<\/p>\n

This man doesn\u2019t keep you physically locked up next to him, but he definitely does keep you hostage in another way.<\/p>\n

6. …while anxiety disorder makes you afraid<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, chi soffre di ansia \u00e8 il bersaglio perfetto per questo tipo di comportamento.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, il vostro disturbo d'ansia vi fa paura da solo.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re an overthinker and pessimist who always expects the worst case scenario.<\/p>\n

So, how could you assume that this man\u2019s threats are in vain?<\/p>\n

How could you see that he is actually nothing but a coward who wouldn\u2019t have the guts to do anything about it?<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Most importantly, how could you deal with this new fear, when you\u2019re already struggling with the ones you already have?<\/p>\n

Come si pu\u00f2 guardare dritto negli occhi e alla fine scacciarlo?<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t, right? Well, sadly, your narcissistic boyfriend knows that and uses it to his advantage.<\/p>\n

7. A narcissist gaslights their victims\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Tutti i narcisisti hanno l'abitudine di usare una tattica tossica chiamata gaslighting.<\/p>\n

Mentono, dicono mezze verit\u00e0 e fanno di tutto per cambiare il corso degli eventi nella vostra testa.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re playing with your mind, trying to make you feel like you\u2019re the crazy one.<\/p>\n

Every time you two argue about something, a narcissist claims that you didn\u2019t hear things right, that you misinterpreted them, or that you made a big deal out of nothing.<\/p>\n

\"marito<\/p>\n

Nei casi pi\u00f9 estremi, il narcisista cercher\u00e0 di convincervi che alcune cose del vostro passato non sono mai accadute.<\/p>\n

It is all in your head and you\u2019re imagining things just to accuse him of being a bad guy.<\/p>\n

Basically, they want to brainwash you to the point where you\u2019ll believe them over your own brain and where you\u2019ll start doubting your own sanity.<\/p>\n

8. …who don\u2019t trust their own judgments<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when you\u2019re dealing with an anxiety disorder, it won\u2019t take you long before you start believing him, since you already question your judgment-making skills.<\/p>\n

La sua memoria \u00e8 giusta o quest'uomo sta dicendo la verit\u00e0?<\/p>\n

La vostra mente vi sta giocando brutti scherzi?<\/p>\n

Vedete le cose peggio di come sono in realt\u00e0 a causa del vostro pessimismo e delle vostre insicurezze?<\/p>\n

La risposta \u00e8 no.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve everything but crazy and you have a more vivid remembrance of the past because of the pain it caused you.<\/p>\n

9. A narcissist makes their victim emotionally dependent\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Ogni narcisista ha bisogno di essere necessario perch\u00e9 questo gli d\u00e0 un senso di valore.<\/p>\n

E per riuscirci, si assicura che le sue vittime diventino emotivamente dipendente<\/a> su di lui.<\/p>\n

All'inizio, finge di essere l'uomo migliore che tu abbia mai conosciuto.<\/p>\n

Vi d\u00e0 tutta la sua anima e il suo cuore, vi fa dei favori e vi aiuta ogni volta che pu\u00f2.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, dopo un po', si inizia a fare affidamento su di lui.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>\n

You count on the fact that this man isn\u2019t going anywhere and you\u2019re more than happy for finally finding someone to share your life difficulties with.<\/p>\n

Ma nel momento in cui lo riconosce, il narcisista si tira indietro.<\/p>\n

However, he doesn’t leave you hanging for good. He just wants you to see how emotionally dependent you\u2019ve actually become on him.<\/p>\n

So, he manages to convince you that you can\u2019t make it without him.<\/p>\n

E rende il vostro pi\u00f9 grande incubo la paura di perderlo.<\/p>\n

10. …while anxious people are scared of abandonment<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re an anxious person, you\u2019re constantly obsessed with the thought that everyone you love will walk away on you sooner or later.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll do something to chase them away, they\u2019ll get tired of your demanding personality, or they\u2019ll just stop loving you.<\/p>\n

Beh, questi problemi di abbandono<\/a> you\u2019re dealing with is exactly what this guy uses against you.<\/p>\n

He knows you\u2019re terrified of the mere thought of him leaving you on your own, and he is always keeping your traumas alive.<\/p>\n

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