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<\/p>\nAfter all this time, I’m still hoping.<\/p>\n
I’m hoping that maybe one day you will explain why you left me.<\/p>\n
I know it’s wrong. I should just leave you in the past and simply move on with my life.<\/p>\n
But that’s not easy.<\/p>\n
Come si fa ad andare avanti con qualcosa che si pensava sarebbe durato per sempre?<\/p>\n
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Come si fa ad andare avanti con una persona per la quale si provavano sentimenti cos\u00ec forti e che si amava con tutto il cuore?<\/p>\n
To be honest, I don\u2019t know how many times I tried to write this letter and I couldn\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n
Le mie emozioni erano in agguato.<\/p>\n
Ti amavo ancora.<\/p>\n
However, I was also angry because I couldn\u2019t believe it was so easy for you to let me go. To let our love go.<\/p>\n
Ora sono arrabbiata con me stessa per aver amato qualcuno che non \u00e8 mai stato mio, che mi ha lasciato senza parole.<\/p>\n
Mi sono sentita tradita perch\u00e9 mi hai mentito.<\/p>\n
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How many times did you say that you would do anything for me, that there was nothing in this world you wouldn\u2019t have done for me?<\/p>\n
Beh, l'unica cosa che dovevi fare era amarmi come io amavo te. E hai fallito.<\/p>\n
I felt sad. That\u2019s it. I felt so profoundly sad.<\/p>\n
Non ci sono abbastanza parole per descrivere questa sensazione.<\/p>\n
Spero che tu capisca cosa hai fatto e che tipo di conseguenze mi ha lasciato. Hai lasciato un segno innegabile nel mio cuore.<\/p>\n
If you ever cared for me, you wouldn\u2019t have made me feel like this.<\/p>\n
I was afraid. I was actually worried about my mental health because I didn\u2019t think I was strong enough to cope with you leaving.<\/p>\n
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Le cicatrici che hai lasciato mi hanno spaventato.<\/p>\n
Continuavo a temere che l'uomo che sarebbe venuto dopo di te sarebbe stato cattivo quanto te.<\/p>\n
After it all ended, I didn\u2019t want anyone else to take your place.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t want to have someone near me if that wasn\u2019t you.<\/p>\n
I was confused. I simply wasn\u2019t able to comprehend what happened.<\/p>\n
Niente di tutto ci\u00f2 mi sembrava avere un senso.<\/p>\n
Tutto sembrava perfetto in un momento, ma poi mi hai spezzato il cuore. Mi hai spezzato.<\/p>\n
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E mi \u00e8 rimasta la sensazione di insicurezza che ho ancora adesso.<\/p>\n
I thought that I wasn\u2019t enough for you or that maybe I had rushed you into something you didn\u2019t want.<\/p>\n
Sometimes I even caught myself thinking that I wouldn\u2019t ever find someone who would be able to love me like I deserve, like I loved you, selfless and pure, without any measure.<\/p>\n
But now, after time healed my wounds and after I managed to patch my heart, I know that true love will find me, at the right time…<\/p>\n
Quindi grazie. Grazie per avermi lasciato andare.<\/p>\n
Ho imparato a dire addio. Mi hai insegnato a spiegare le ali e a volare di nuovo liberamente.<\/p>\n
Guess what? The world didn\u2019t stop with you leaving after all.<\/p>\n
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Ci sono cos\u00ec tante cose belle che aspettano solo che io esca e le esplori.<\/p>\n
C'\u00e8 qualcuno che sar\u00e0 pronto per il mio amore.<\/p>\n
Qualcuno che mi vizier\u00e0 con il suo amore. Qualcuno che incoragger\u00f2 a essere migliore a ogni passo.<\/p>\n
C'\u00e8 qualcuno con cui realizzer\u00f2 i miei sogni.<\/p>\n
Someone who isn\u2019t afraid to love or commit.<\/p>\n
I know it\u2019s my fault I gave you all the love you didn’t deserve.<\/p>\n
Ti ho dato tutto di me.<\/p>\n
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I am sorry because I didn\u2019t know how to love any less than that… But you weren’t ready to love me the same way.<\/p>\n
Forse ho insistito troppo.<\/p>\n
Did I scare you with something I did? I know you didn’t fake all of that.<\/p>\n
You can’t fake emotions as strong as that. You didn’t fake your love. So, what really happened?<\/p>\n
This is a rhetorical question because I don\u2019t want to know the answer.<\/p>\n
I am afraid of it. I am afraid you\u2019ll tell me that I rushed you into something serious.<\/p>\n
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I want to believe that you weren’t ready for a serious relationship, that you weren\u2019t ready for the type of love I was giving you.<\/p>\n
You weren’t ready for that \u2018forever type of love\u2019.<\/p>\n
Anyway, it doesn\u2019t matter anymore who was wrong and who was right. It doesn\u2019t matter whether I chased you away or you were the running type.<\/p>\n
Ci\u00f2 che conta \u00e8 che ho imparato qualcosa dalla nostra storia.<\/p>\n
I learned a thing or two about men and relationships. I learned to let go of the things that weren\u2019t meant for me.<\/p>\n
Soprattutto, ho imparato a valorizzarmi di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n
Ho aperto gli occhi su nuove prospettive e su una nuova vita che posso avere senza di te.<\/p>\n
E tu?<\/p>\n
Sei diventato parte del mio passato e voglio lasciarti l\u00ec. Sono pronto per il futuro.<\/p>\n
Take care of yourself and goodbye… forever!<\/p>\n
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