{"id":54394,"date":"2020-03-08T22:25:34","date_gmt":"2020-03-08T22:25:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54394"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:29:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:29:24","slug":"come-convincere-un-ragazzo-a-chiederti-di-uscire-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-convincere-un-ragazzo-a-chiederti-di-uscire-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Come convincere un ragazzo a chiederti di uscire usando questi 7 metodi subdoli"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Come convincere un ragazzo a chiederti di uscire?<\/p>\n<p>Well, if you&#8217;re willing to put some effort into getting your desired guy&#8217;s attention and flirt your ass off, then you&#8217;re ready for the rest of this article.<\/p>\n<p>With a little bit of luck (and plenty of effort) it&#8217;ll be a piece of cake getting that cute guy to ask you out and possibly get your fairy-tale ending.<\/p>\n<p>But let&#8217;s not rush it.<\/p>\n<p>From what I can gather, you either have a guy friend you&#8217;ve got the hots for or there&#8217;s a new guy you like around your block and you want him to ask you on your first date and then fall in love with you like no other, right?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54398 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/relaxin-girl-looking-forward-at-a-sunset-outside.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza rilassata che guarda al tramonto all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/relaxin-girl-looking-forward-at-a-sunset-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/relaxin-girl-looking-forward-at-a-sunset-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/relaxin-girl-looking-forward-at-a-sunset-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Prima di tutto, le cose da fare.<\/p>\n<p>Chiunque sia questo ragazzo, \u00e8 necessario che prima si apra e condivida con voi alcuni interessi comuni.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete anche farlo uscire dalla zona amici (cosa che forse avete fatto per sbaglio) e stabilire un forte contatto visivo con lui. Volete che vi veda davvero!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Subtle hints are the best way to go, along with some sexy body language! Even if this is your best friend, you need to fire on all cylinders! Clearly he&#8217;s got you hooked, so the ball is in your court now.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s always the little things.<\/p>\n<p>A parte l'ovvio contatto visivo e le sottili allusioni, avete bisogno che lui vi noti in una stanza piena di belle donne, giusto?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54399 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-flirting-in-a-restaurant.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che flirta in un ristorante\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-flirting-in-a-restaurant.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-flirting-in-a-restaurant-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-flirting-in-a-restaurant-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, that&#8217;s what we all want and ultimately deserve.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m totally willing to play matchmaker today and help you get that one guy you&#8217;ve been eyeing for ages, as long as you&#8217;re willing to keep working on it the next day and every day after.<\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro obiettivo finale \u00e8 una relazione a lungo termine, dovete trovare il modo perfetto per rendervi desiderabili per lui attraverso tutti i canali a vostra disposizione.<\/p>\n<p>It isn&#8217;t that difficult to ask a guy out.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s a real challenge is getting him to stick around by blowing his mind with what you have to offer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54400 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-thinking-and-looking-upwards.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di donna che pensa e guarda verso l&#039;alto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-thinking-and-looking-upwards.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-thinking-and-looking-upwards-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-thinking-and-looking-upwards-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your goal is to be that cute couple everyone is talking about, but you&#8217;re not going to get there by pining after him and crying when it doesn&#8217;t work.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re going to achieve it through a serious amount of effort with the help of some sneaky methods!<\/p>\n<p><em>Here&#8217;s where you start.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/come-sapere-se-piaci-a-un-ragazzo\/\">How To Know If A Guy Likes You For Sure: 12 Signs He&#8217;s Totally Into You<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Come convincere un ragazzo a chiederti di uscire: 7 metodi comprovati<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54403 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-sitting-at-home-and-thiking.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza seduta a casa a pensare\" width=\"800\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-sitting-at-home-and-thiking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-sitting-at-home-and-thiking-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/girl-sitting-at-home-and-thiking-768x520.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve made sure that he&#8217;s noticed you and is aware of your existence; that&#8217;s a good first step.<\/p>\n<p>Ora arriva la parte difficile. Volete che pensi che sia stata tutta una sua idea.<\/p>\n<p>Your goal is to make yourself so appealing to him that it makes him wonder why the hell he hasn&#8217;t asked you out already.<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;m going to explain just how to get there.<\/p>\n<p>He won&#8217;t even know what hit him and before you know it, you&#8217;ll be on your first date, talking, laughing, and connecting \u2013 and you&#8217;ll know that it was all you!<\/p>\n<p>Le belle donne si trovano in ogni angolo, ma come fare per catturare la sua attenzione e mantenerla?<\/p>\n<p>Seguendo questi metodi infallibili di seduzione segreta:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Usate il linguaggio del corpo a vostro vantaggio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54405 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-friends-meeting-in-coffe-bar.jpg\" alt=\"amici felici che si incontrano al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-friends-meeting-in-coffe-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-friends-meeting-in-coffe-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-friends-meeting-in-coffe-bar-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci sono tanti modi subdoli per usare il vostro corpo per aiutarvi a conquistare il ragazzo che vi piace!<\/p>\n<p>Guys are drawn to our body movement, so when you keep that in mind at all times, it&#8217;ll make it easier to use it to your advantage.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 necessario mantenere un forte contatto visivo (ma non <em>tutti<\/em> the time, you don&#8217;t want to scare him off).<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, quando lo vedrete la prossima volta, assicuratevi di attirare la sua attenzione e di inviare un messaggio forte guardandolo dritto negli occhi per qualche secondo, poi distogliete lo sguardo e sorridete casualmente a qualcuno.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54406 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-sitting-at-coffe-bar-and-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice seduta al bar a guardare il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-sitting-at-coffe-bar-and-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-sitting-at-coffe-bar-and-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-sitting-at-coffe-bar-and-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can also lean in when you&#8217;re in close proximity so as to grab something behind him, but actually to let him smell your gorgeous new perfume.<\/p>\n<p>Un'altra cosa carina che potete fare \u00e8 giocare con i vostri capelli, ma in modo sexy.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t want him to think you&#8217;re fidgeting.<\/p>\n<p>Let him see your body is open for any sort of communication, but don&#8217;t physically throw yourself at him. All in good measure.<\/p>\n<p>The big thing here is to let him see you&#8217;re interested but in a non-threatening, mysterious kind of way.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Flirtare a pi\u00f9 non posso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54407 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-flirting-and-playing-billiard.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che flirta e gioca a biliardo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-flirting-and-playing-billiard.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-flirting-and-playing-billiard-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-flirting-and-playing-billiard-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il modo migliore per convincere un ragazzo a chiedervi di uscire \u00e8 mettervi sul suo radar.<\/p>\n<p>Guys find it hard to read our mixed signals, so you need him to know that you&#8217;re totally into him.<\/p>\n<p>Flirtate con lui per fargli vedere la vostra apertura e possibilmente aprirsi da solo.<\/p>\n<p>But don&#8217;t flirt with every other guy as well, unless your aim is to confuse him.<\/p>\n<p>Se questo \u00e8 il ragazzo che vi piace, concentrate la vostra attenzione civettuola solo su di lui.<\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re with him, use your soft, sexy voice (but don&#8217;t go out of your way to sound like a totally different person).<\/p>\n<p>Subtly compliment him. Guys won&#8217;t admit it, but they love getting complimented.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54408 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-and-woman-flirting-while-working-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che flirtano mentre lavorano in un bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-and-woman-flirting-while-working-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-and-woman-flirting-while-working-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-and-woman-flirting-while-working-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Be just a little enticing, but don&#8217;t be too obvious. Show a little skin, just to make him crave you, but without seeing much at all.<\/p>\n<p>Un po' di gambe o una scollatura (ma non entrambe).<\/p>\n<p>Openly share some common interests in a way where you&#8217;re like &#8221;<em>Get out of here, you&#8217;re a gym rat as well<\/em>??&#8221; and then punch him in the shoulder in a cute way that will definitely make him think.<\/p>\n<p>Avete capito il senso. Sfruttate al meglio i vostri modi civettuoli e aspettate l'imminente primo appuntamento!<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/consigli-per-un-appuntamento-in-spiaggia\/\">Appuntamento in spiaggia: 10 cose da sapere per un'uscita divertente e di successo<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>3. Esprimere interesse per lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54409 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che guarda un uomo in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you want to know how to get a guy to ask you out, first you need to let him know you&#8217;re interested in him as a human being.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s honestly the easiest part! Most guys love talking about themselves, so you won&#8217;t have a problem getting him to open up. Here&#8217;s how you can make that work:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Use music as your number one option. Who doesn&#8217;t like music? Ask him about his favorite type of music and let him tell you some of his favorite artists. Perhaps you&#8217;ll find some similarities and it&#8217;ll lead to a great convo!<\/li>\n<li>Chiedete dei suoi interessi. \u00c8 un patito della palestra? Gli piace il calcio o il basket? Fa volontariato presso il rifugio per cani locale? (<em>Questo mi fa venire i brividi!<\/em>) Parlate di ci\u00f2 che gli piace fare a fine giornata e di come si rilassa.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Show him you really want to know what he thinks about the latest controversy regarding any topic that&#8217;s been going around the news lately. The trick is not to pick something too out there so as not to cause unnecessary and premature conflict. You don&#8217;t want to end up arguing before you even get to your first date.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>4. Lasciare sottili allusioni<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54410 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-sitting-in-forest-and-typing-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna felice seduta nella foresta che scrive al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-sitting-in-forest-and-typing-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-sitting-in-forest-and-typing-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-sitting-in-forest-and-typing-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Utilizzate ci\u00f2 che gi\u00e0 conoscete di lui per fargli capire che volete davvero che vi chieda di uscire.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you could mention a cool new restaurant you read about (nothing overly pricey) that you&#8217;ve been <em>morire<\/em> da provare!<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re both mad basketball fans, you can casually say how much fun it would be to go see the Lakers (or whichever team you love) at their next home game!<\/p>\n<p>You want him to know that you&#8217;d most definitely say <em>s\u00ec<\/em>E questo render\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 facile per lui trovare il coraggio di chiederti di uscire.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re into Mexican food, ask him if he&#8217;s heard about the new Mexican place that just opened up a few blocks away, and trust me, that&#8217;ll lead him right where you want the conversation to go.<\/p>\n<p>He needs to know that he&#8217;s not going to get rejected, and using your common interests is the perfect way to get him to ask you out somewhere you&#8217;d both absolutely love.<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/come-ricominciare-a-uscire-con-gli-amici\/\">Come ricominciare a uscire con gli amici: 15 consigli per tornare in gioco<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>5. Usare gli amici in modo subdolo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54411 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-friends-talking-at-the-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"amici felici che parlano al caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-friends-talking-at-the-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-friends-talking-at-the-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-friends-talking-at-the-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your friends can come in really handy in this situation. You can use them (with their permission) to get things going and here&#8217;s how:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If you have some mutual friends and you all gather regularly for game night or something similar, get them all on board by telling them to group you and your crush together for any team-based games (even better if it&#8217;s in twos!)<\/li>\n<li>Your friends can tease the guy you like about when on earth he&#8217;s going to get the courage to ask you out (it might be a bit awkward, but at least he&#8217;ll know that people see that there&#8217;s something between you two.)<\/li>\n<li>Make your friend mention you in a conversation a few times in order to see his reaction! They can also drop subtle hints as well about what a cute couple you two would make. By observing his reaction, they&#8217;ll be able to see how he feels.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>6. Informatelo dei vostri piani<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54412 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-young-girl-talking-on-a-phone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane ragazza sorridente che parla al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-young-girl-talking-on-a-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-young-girl-talking-on-a-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smiling-young-girl-talking-on-a-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nI&#8217;m talking about your imminent plans, such as seeing a band this weekend or getting coffee in-between classes where he can join you.<\/p>\n<p>The trick is to make it into a low-pressure casual hangout where he won&#8217;t feel any jitters but rather enjoy comfortable conversation with a cool chick he&#8217;s getting to know.<\/p>\n<p>Andate a prendere un caff\u00e8 dopo le lezioni o andate davvero a vedere un gruppo che vi piace e legatevi semplicemente in base ai vostri progetti.<\/p>\n<p>Bonus points if you&#8217;re into the same things!<\/p>\n<p>Make sure he always knows where you&#8217;ll be (thanks to your mutual friends) and that he gets a chance to join you! If you&#8217;ve got some big plans for the following week or so, casually slip it in the convo.<\/p>\n<p>Chiss\u00e0 cosa potrebbe accadere.<\/p>\n<p>If the guy&#8217;s into you at all, he&#8217;ll catch your drift and finally ask you out.<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/list-of-couple-goals\/\">L'elenco definitivo degli obiettivi di coppia per le relazioni pi\u00f9 felici<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>7. Assicuratevi che conosca i vostri giorni di riposo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54413 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smilig-young-couple-sitting-and-talking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia sorridente seduta a parlare all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smilig-young-couple-sitting-and-talking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smilig-young-couple-sitting-and-talking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/smilig-young-couple-sitting-and-talking-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You want this guy to know when you&#8217;re free so that you avoid him finally asking you out on your one busy night of the week!<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re on a texting chain, you can use it to pretend-complain about your schedule, but what you&#8217;re really doing is letting him know about your days off!<\/p>\n<p>You want this cute guy to know when you&#8217;ll be most likely to say yes because even if you said no purely due to scheduling issues, it would still hurt his ego.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi fategli sapere di un weekend libero che potrebbe essere all'orizzonte per voi o del vostro bar preferito che amate visitare ogni venerd\u00ec sera.<\/p>\n<p>You get what I&#8217;m hinting at here, right? Knowing your schedule and your habits will ease him into asking you out.<\/p>\n<h2>Cose da evitare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54415 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-gesturing-a-no-sign.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di donna che gesticola un cartello di divieto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-gesturing-a-no-sign.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-gesturing-a-no-sign-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-gesturing-a-no-sign-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Okay, so now that we&#8217;ve covered what you <em>dovrebbe<\/em> do, it&#8217;s time to cover some ground on the things you should avoid doing if you want this guy to ask you out and possibly fall in love with you!<\/p>\n<p>Se volete che funzioni, ci sono alcune regole di base su cosa NON fare.<\/p>\n<p>Evitate assolutamente di sembrare disperati, appiccicosi e prepotenti.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t want to push yourself on him because nobody likes that.<\/p>\n<p>Especially if he&#8217;s been through a recent break-up. Give him time to breathe.<\/p>\n<p>Taking it slow is what it&#8217;s all about and if you make sure to avoid these 4 things, your chances of him asking you out will increase.<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: Il mio ragazzo mi ha lasciato: Cosa fare dopo?<\/p>\n<h2>1. Non chiedetegli l'amicizia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54414 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/friends-gesturing-a-friendzone-symbol.jpg\" alt=\"amici che gestiscono il simbolo della friendzone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/friends-gesturing-a-friendzone-symbol.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/friends-gesturing-a-friendzone-symbol-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/friends-gesturing-a-friendzone-symbol-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And vice versa. It&#8217;s vital that you&#8217;re both very clear about what your roles are.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure he hasn&#8217;t put you in the friend zone by firmly letting him know that you&#8217;re not here to be his buddy.<\/p>\n<p>Volete di pi\u00f9, ma senza pressioni sulla velocit\u00e0 di sviluppo. Potete prendervi il vostro tempo, purch\u00e9 alla fine ci arriviate.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, make sure you haven&#8217;t friend-zoned him!<\/p>\n<p>Guys who sense that they&#8217;re in your friend zone will get the hint and skedaddle.<\/p>\n<p>So be clear about your intentions and make him see that you&#8217;re most definitely girlfriend material.<\/p>\n<p>Deve vederti come una donna sexy e libera. Non come una della sua banda.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Evitare di essere troppo insistenti e scontati<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54416 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-flirting-with-man-in-coffe-bar.jpg\" alt=\"donna che flirta con un uomo in un bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-flirting-with-man-in-coffe-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-flirting-with-man-in-coffe-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-flirting-with-man-in-coffe-bar-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s something really hot about being mysterious but not to the point of completely closing yourself off!<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a huge difference between throwing yourself on him and casually dropping hints about wanting him to ask you out.<\/p>\n<p>Imparate a capire qual \u00e8 il limite e percorretelo con attenzione.<\/p>\n<p>Do NOT keep mentioning how free your weekends are and how lonely you&#8217;ve been lately.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t keep pressuring him with constant eye contact (subtlety is key) and reluctance to leave his side without showering him with an abundance of compliments and sexy winks.<\/p>\n<p>Be mysterious. Don&#8217;t let him know that you&#8217;re desperately just waiting for him to ask you out as if you&#8217;ve got no other plans in life.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s a bit off-putting.<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/la-bellezza-interiore-cosa-significa-in-realta\/\">Bellezza interiore: Cosa significa realmente e 7 modi per raggiungerla<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>3. Don&#8217;t talk about superficial things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54417 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-whispering-to-mans-ear.jpg\" alt=\"donna che sussurra all&#039;orecchio dell&#039;uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-whispering-to-mans-ear.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-whispering-to-mans-ear-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-whispering-to-mans-ear-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Trovate qualcosa di significativo di cui parlare.<\/p>\n<p>Steer clear of all topics where you&#8217;re talking about looks, money, going out, and time spent getting yourself ready.<\/p>\n<p>Certo, potete menzionarne alcuni casualmente, ma non fateli mai diventare l'argomento principale di discussione.<\/p>\n<p>Guys don&#8217;t like superficial girls who are all about looks and wild nights out.<\/p>\n<p>Collegatevi a un livello pi\u00f9 profondo. Parlate dei vostri interessi, dei vostri progetti futuri e di come pensate di raggiungerli.<\/p>\n<p>Anche la musica \u00e8 un elemento importante, per cui si pu\u00f2 entrare in contatto anche su questo piano.<\/p>\n<p>Siate versatili. Parlate di tutto e di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>I ragazzi amano le ragazze con cui si sentono a proprio agio a discutere di cose pi\u00f9 profonde. <em>Che<\/em> \u00e8 il modo per convincere un ragazzo a chiederti di uscire.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Don&#8217;t just wait around for him to make up his mind<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54418 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussines-couple-talking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"coppia di uomini che parla all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussines-couple-talking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussines-couple-talking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussines-couple-talking-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be that girl. You are better than just sitting around as if this guy is the only thing that exists in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono due modi possibili per concludere questa vicenda.<\/p>\n<p>Either he&#8217;ll finally ask you out or you&#8217;ll be the one to ask <em>lui<\/em> fuori.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, it&#8217;s a perfectly good way to finally see where you stand.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve been dropping hints left and right and you still see him hesitating when it comes to asking you out, you can either decide to take initiative or move on from him.<\/p>\n<p>You can be the judge of that. But whatever you do, don&#8217;t let him see how desperate you are for him to ask you out.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54419 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-sitting-on-a-bench-in-a-park-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta su una panchina in un parco a parlare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-sitting-on-a-bench-in-a-park-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-sitting-on-a-bench-in-a-park-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-sitting-on-a-bench-in-a-park-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Either do it yourself or let him see what he&#8217;s missing.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he&#8217;s just slow on the uptake and you need to take the wheel or perhaps he&#8217;s just not that into you.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s only one way to find out. You can be direct and honest or you can decide to let him go.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re the only one who knows the right thing to do here.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s it going to be?<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/segni-che-sei-ancora-un-bambino\/\">20 segni reali che sei ancora un bambino nel cuore<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54395 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/HOW-TO-GET-A-GUY-TO-ASK-YOU-OUT-USING-THESE-7-SNEAKY-METHODS-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"COME CONVINCERE UN RAGAZZO A CHIEDERTI DI USCIRE CON QUESTI 7 METODI SUBDOLI\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/HOW-TO-GET-A-GUY-TO-ASK-YOU-OUT-USING-THESE-7-SNEAKY-METHODS-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/HOW-TO-GET-A-GUY-TO-ASK-YOU-OUT-USING-THESE-7-SNEAKY-METHODS-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/HOW-TO-GET-A-GUY-TO-ASK-YOU-OUT-USING-THESE-7-SNEAKY-METHODS-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/HOW-TO-GET-A-GUY-TO-ASK-YOU-OUT-USING-THESE-7-SNEAKY-METHODS-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/HOW-TO-GET-A-GUY-TO-ASK-YOU-OUT-USING-THESE-7-SNEAKY-METHODS-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/HOW-TO-GET-A-GUY-TO-ASK-YOU-OUT-USING-THESE-7-SNEAKY-METHODS-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How to get a guy to ask you out? 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