You asked yourself: What did I do to deserve this? Why can\u2019t I just have a normal, loving relationship, full of trust?<\/p>\n
It\u2019s the only thing you ever wanted. It should be so simple.<\/p>\n
After some time, you realized it wasn\u2019t about you or what you wanted.<\/p>\n
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Non c'era spazio per le vostre esigenze.<\/p>\n
It was always about him and you didn\u2019t even mind it until he violated your boundaries and transformed your whole world into such a lonely place.<\/strong><\/p>\n Hai lavorato cos\u00ec duramente per renderti di nuovo vulnerabile perch\u00e9 sapevi che era l'unico modo per far funzionare una relazione.<\/p>\n Stavi affrontando le tue paure una per una, volevi che questo fosse puro. Un nuovo inizio.<\/p>\n You tried to understand. You didn\u2019t think it would be easy to deal with all your fears and insecurities.<\/p>\n Ripensandoci ora, vi rendete conto che stavate solo cercando di giustificare i suoi comportamenti egoistici.<\/p>\n It\u2019s crazy how love can blind you. You didn\u2019t have anyone to reach out to\u2014because he was all you knew.<\/p>\n Hai riversato te stessa su di lui. La persona che adoravi \u00e8 diventata il tuo peggior incubo.<\/p>\n Tutto ci\u00f2 che condividevate \u00e8 diventato solo ricordi dolorosi e altro dolore. Vi sentivate cos\u00ec soli.<\/p>\n C'\u00e8 qualcosa di peggio che condividere tutte le proprie paure e speranze con qualcuno solo per vedere che le usa contro di te, che le usa per ferirti ancora di pi\u00f9?<\/strong><\/p>\n Come \u00e8 possibile? Ha detto che gli importava cos\u00ec tante volte.<\/p>\n Ha detto che nessuno si \u00e8 avvicinato a te. Ha detto che nessuno poteva farti del male.<\/p>\n There\u2019s nothing scarier than thinking those words were straight-up lies and he was the one who hurt you the most.<\/p>\n The worst thing is, you stopped trusting yourself and this is because you couldn\u2019t believe you fell for the same thing again.<\/p>\n Ti ha fatto sentire cos\u00ec insicuro. Hai perso tutta la tua sicurezza.<\/p>\n A voice in your head kept saying it was all your fault and it wouldn\u2019t go away.<\/p>\n Ogni giorno vi svegliavate spaventati, con un peso sul petto e l'incredulit\u00e0 che questa fosse la vostra realt\u00e0.<\/p>\n Volevi solo tornare a dormire perch\u00e9 era l'unico momento in cui il dolore sarebbe passato.<\/p>\n Hai pregato di tornare ad essere te stesso un giorno. Ci \u00e8 voluto tanto tempo solo per riuscire a fare cose normali.<\/p>\n You wanted to enjoy the small things again, so you started with everything that didn\u2019t remind you of him.<\/p>\n I want you to know that there\u2019s life after this.<\/p>\n So che questo ti ha reso guardingo, ma devi sapere che ci sono persone che ti capiscono e che stanno vivendo la stessa situazione.<\/p>\n A poco a poco, inizierete ad ascoltare ci\u00f2 che voi<\/em> che volete, ci\u00f2 che vi fa sentire a vostro agio e al sicuro.<\/p>\n Deciderete di voler conoscere meglio voi stessi.<\/p>\n Inizierete a conoscere voi stessi al di fuori del vostro dolore.<\/strong><\/p>\n In primo luogo, potete iniziare ad accettare il vostro dolore e a perdonarvi per non aver saputo fare di meglio.<\/p>\n In secondo luogo, potete prendere sul serio tutti i vostri obiettivi di vita e iniziare a fare progressi per tornare ad essere voi stessi.<\/p>\n Lasciatevi innamorare di tutto ci\u00f2 che potete fare e di tutto ci\u00f2 che potete essere.<\/p>\n Decidete di vedere tutto quello che avete passato come una motivazione e una curva di apprendimento.<\/p>\n Learn to accept that everything in life happens for a reason, one you don\u2019t know in advance.<\/p>\n This realization will make you at peace with yourself. There\u2019s no other way than to let go and try again.<\/p>\n La vostra forza \u00e8 nella storia della vostra vita. Il vostro senso di forza deriva dal fatto di averci sempre creduto, di averci provato e di essere andati avanti, nonostante il dolore che le persone vi hanno causato.<\/p>\n Once you realize that no person can take your power if you don\u2019t let them, you\u2019re invincible. Stand in your power.<\/p>\n This life is yours and yours only and it\u2019s you who gets to decide what you\u2019re going to do with it.<\/p>\n It\u2019s never too late. It\u2019s just one decision away.<\/p>\n Do it all not to prove yourself to anyone but yourself because you\u2019re the one who deserves it all.<\/p>\n You know that someday he\u2019s going to wake up overwhelmed by sadness and betrayal and ask himself: Is this how she felt? Yes. Even worse, it\u2019s how you felt so many times in life that you almost lost all your hope. You forgot what safe felt like. 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