{"id":5447,"date":"2020-06-20T13:22:32","date_gmt":"2020-06-20T13:22:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5447"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:54:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:54:45","slug":"una-lettera-alluomo-che-mi-ha-salvato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-alluomo-che-mi-ha-salvato\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera all'uomo che mi ha salvato"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Prima di tutto: Grazie.<\/p>\n<p>Before life surprised me and brought you to me, I was miserable. I didn\u2019t even want to live. I had had enough. I was depressed and broken. Love had beaten me down.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>L'amore era il mio pi\u00f9 grande nemico. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Before you came along, the man who I thought was \u2018the one\u2019 used me, and when he was done, the only thing he left were the shattered pieces of my broken heart. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/terri-trespicio\/unfriend-your-ex-6-rules-to-moving-on-and-getting-him-back_b_6636798.html\" rel=\"noopener\">He didn\u2019t care. He moved on.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Sono stata io a dover guarire da sola. Sono stata io a dover combattere la depressione. Ero io che dovevo trovare il coraggio di uscire di nuovo. Lui ha ripreso da dove aveva lasciato.<\/p>\n<p>And then you came. You carefully took me and brought me back to life. You didn\u2019t have to do that. It would have been easier for you if you didn\u2019t do that. But still, you wanted to.<\/p>\n<p>Grazie.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for all the times you\u2019ve been by my side. Even when I asked you to leave me alone, you were there. You kept your distance and you gave me space, but you were still there.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for every time you\u2019ve climbed the walls I built around me.<\/p>\n<p>Grazie per aver trovato il modo di raggiungermi.<\/p>\n<p>Grazie per avermi ricordato quanto sono bella e degna.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92451\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Happy-mixed-race-woman-hug-black-man-husband.jpg\" alt=\"Felice donna di razza mista abbraccia marito uomo nero\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Happy-mixed-race-woman-hug-black-man-husband.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Happy-mixed-race-woman-hug-black-man-husband-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Happy-mixed-race-woman-hug-black-man-husband-768x515.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Grazie per avermi rispettato come io rispetto te.<\/p>\n<p>Grazie per<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/jamie-varon\/2014\/11\/what-it-feels-like-to-be-in-love-when-you-dont-believe-you-are-worth-loving\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> loving me when I felt I didn\u2019t deserve to be loved<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Dal giorno in cui sei entrato nella mia vita, mi sono reso conto di aver desiderato il tuo arrivo. Ho capito che la mia vita ha improvvisamente un senso. Ho capito che mi sei mancato per tutto questo tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Having you by my side has brought me happiness and nothing else. Now, I know for sure, I\u2019m going to be happy for the rest of my life. Now, I know I\u2019m going to be loved unconditionally. Now I know I needed this\u2014I needed your unconditional love from the start.<\/p>\n<p>I thought that no one can understand me\u2014that I am all alone\u2014until you showed up and convinced me to think otherwise. Before, I imagined I would <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/4-signs-afraid-lonely\/\">vivere una vita solitaria<\/a>, sad life, but now, I can\u2019t imagine a life without you.<\/p>\n<p>To my love, the one that saved me\u2014thank you for showing me that life is so much more than pain and suffering. Thank you for helping me learn to love myself. I would never have succeed if you hadn\u2019t given me your unconditional love.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for putting up with my \u2018crazy ideas\u2019 and my different sides. Thank you for being there for me when I am at my worst. Thank you for smashing every single brick that I lay when I start building the wall around me. Thank you for not letting me hide inside.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Grazie per avermi amato con i miei difetti e il mio passato. Grazie per aver condiviso con me il peso della vita. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/bianca-sparacino\/2016\/02\/thank-you-for-how-you-love\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Grazie per avermi amato.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-92456 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Saved-Me-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Lettera all&#039;uomo che mi ha salvato\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Saved-Me-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Saved-Me-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Saved-Me-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Saved-Me-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Saved-Me-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Saved-Me-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>First of all: Thank you. Before life surprised me and brought you to me, I was miserable. I didn\u2019t even want to live. I had had enough. I was depressed and broken. Love had beaten me down. Love was my biggest enemy. Before you came along, the man who I thought was \u2018the one\u2019 used&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":92454,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5447","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Saved-Me-1.jpg",800,546,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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