{"id":54520,"date":"2020-03-09T22:09:08","date_gmt":"2020-03-09T22:09:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54520"},"modified":"2022-07-23T09:31:23","modified_gmt":"2022-07-23T09:31:23","slug":"non-dare-il-benvenuto-a-qualcuno-di-tossico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-dare-il-benvenuto-a-qualcuno-di-tossico\/","title":{"rendered":"Non riaccogliete qualcuno di tossico nella vostra vita solo perch\u00e9 vi sentite soli"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quante volte avete ignorato quella sensazione istintiva che vi diceva che non dovevate fare qualcosa, per poi farla comunque?<\/p>\n

Come rispondere quando ti manda un messaggio o ti chiama all'improvviso?<\/p>\n

Ti sei mai chiesta perch\u00e9? Dopo tutto quello che \u00e8 successo, continui a dargli una seconda possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get comfortable with accepting less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to just stop loving once you have fallen so deeply in love but sometimes the problem is not just that.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s about our relationship with ourself.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

L'essere soli viene spesso confuso con essere soli<\/em>mentre in realt\u00e0 si tratta di due termini completamente diversi.<\/p>\n

Essere soli significa semplicemente stare da soli e non necessariamente sentirsi in colpa per questo.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, la solitudine \u00e8 un forte sentimento di tristezza che si accompagna alla sensazione di non avere compagnia.<\/p>\n

You miss someone to share your life with and that\u2019s a perfectly normal experience.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, il problema \u00e8 quando ci si sente cos\u00ec sopraffatti dalla solitudine che si smette di vedere le cose con obiettivit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

When you welcome someone toxic back into your life, you\u2019re welcoming back the things that made you feel lonely in the first place.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a vicious circle you can\u2019t escape and you need to remind yourself of the real cause of your current sensazione di solitudine<\/a>; it\u2019s the toxic person in your life.<\/p>\n

Un partner tossico pu\u00f2 farci sentire emotivamente abbandonati.<\/p>\n

What that means is we\u2019re stripped of our main emotional needs\u2014for example:<\/p>\n

Essere ascoltati e compresi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Provate a ricordare tutte le volte in cui siete stati messi in cattiva luce, ridicolizzati o semplicemente ignorati.<\/p>\n

Essere apprezzati e valorizzati.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

A healthy partner will always make sure to make you feel worthy and good enough not to question your worth over things that don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

Sentire affetto e nutrimento.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mostrare amore apertamente e fisicamente in modo gentile \u00e8 uno dei modi migliori per rassicurare il partner e non \u00e8 una sorta di obbligo.<\/p>\n

You feel abandoned because of someone\u2019s unresolved resentment, emotional abuse or self-centeredness; everything your toxic ex was guilty of.<\/p>\n

Abuse can make you feel like no one can really understand you, so you don\u2019t even try talking and you keep isolating yourself until you\u2019re left with the feeling of loneliness.<\/p>\n

Invece di riportarlo nella vostra vita, potete invertire la rotta e iniziare ad accettare la vostra solitudine come un segno che avete bisogno di un legame pi\u00f9 forte con la vostra famiglia. te stesso<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a sign that you need to fall in love with yourself first. You need to take time and build confidence and never doubt yourself again.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re not doubting yourself, it\u2019s easy to make the right decisions. It\u2019s easy to cut toxic people out of your life.<\/p>\n

You need to give yourself time to fully acknowledge your self-worth and that’s when you\u2019ll stop being scared.<\/p>\n

La solitudine pu\u00f2 spesso scatenare un senso di panico nelle persone, che si rendono conto di essere le sole responsabili dei loro sentimenti e delle loro decisioni.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let that happen to you.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Ogni giorno potete prendere una piccola decisione che vi porter\u00e0 pi\u00f9 vicino alla felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Take your loneliness as a time to indulge in the things you truly enjoy, things that don\u2019t have to necessarily be useful, just fun.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trattate voi stessi come i vostri migliori amici. Decidete di innamorarvi di nuovo della vita e inizierete a innamorarvi di voi stessi.<\/p>\n

When that happens, the loneliness will start to cease and what\u2019s interesting is that this is usually the point in life when a healthy relationship appears.<\/p>\n

A healthy relationship comes along when we\u2019re at peace with ourself and that\u2019s when your personality fully shines and that\u2019s exactly what brings the right person along.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Finch\u00e9 ci\u00f2 non accade, rimanete single e datevi una possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Datevi la possibilit\u00e0 di scoprire tutte le cose che il vostro partner perfetto adorer\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Datevi la possibilit\u00e0 di vivere la vostra vita in base alle vostre regole e vedete cosa succede.<\/p>\n

Once we start living how we\u2019re supposed to live, feeling comfortable in our own company, things of the past become just distant memories and our pain dissolves in the happy delight of self-love.<\/p>\n

\"Non<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How many times did you ignore that gut feeling telling you that you shouldn\u2019t do something, only to do it anyway? Something like answering back when he texts you or calls you out of the blue? Did you ever ask yourself why? After everything that happened, you keep giving him second chances. Don\u2019t get comfortable…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":54530,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54520","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Dont-Welcome-Someone-Toxic-Back-Into-Your-Life-Just-Because-You-Feel-Lonely.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54520","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54520"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54520\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/54530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54520"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54520"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54520"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}