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<\/p>\nHave you ever found yourself running after a man who clearly doesn\u2019t want you? After a man who can never give you what you want and who will never love you enough?<\/p>\n
If you have, you\u2019ll be well aware of how painful this situation can be. It\u2019s not that you end up heartbroken\u2013your ego is ruined, as well.<\/p>\n
However, besides this pain, chasing a guy who doesn\u2019t want to get caught brings numerous other long lasting consequences. Here are seven of them.<\/p>\n
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The first consequence of chasing a guy who doesn\u2019t want to be yours, is that you lose all sense of your self value.<\/p>\n
You can\u2019t help but take this man\u2019s rejection personally and after a while, you convince yourself that there is something wrong with you.<\/p>\n
You wonder why the man you are into can\u2019t love you and doesn\u2019t want you. What do you need to change about yourself to become more appealing and attractive to him?<\/p>\n
After all, you\u2019ve done everything in your power to win him over.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ve put in maximum effort and given him your best self but even so, he hasn\u2019t had the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n
So, you come to the conclusion that you\u2019re non sufficiente<\/span><\/a> per lui.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t know whether it\u2019s your looks, your character, or something else but the bottom line is that you\u2019re missing something and all your efforts can\u2019t seem to compensate for it.<\/p>\n Di conseguenza, perdete la vostra autostima e iniziate a trovare difetti nel vostro aspetto e nella vostra personalit\u00e0, cercando di trovare la causa della sua indifferenza.<\/p>\n Not only that\u2013you also go as far as comparing yourself to all the other girls around him. What do they have that you don\u2019t?<\/p>\n RELATIVO: Smettete di inseguirlo e vedete cosa succede (6 cose incredibili)<\/a><\/p>\n Dopo un po' di tempo passato a correre dietro a un uomo che non vi ha mai voluto, \u00e8 naturale sentirsi stanchi ed emotivamente esausti.<\/p>\n It\u2019s like the chase and all of the mind games you\u2019ve been trying to play have gotten the best of you.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve taken away your energy and sucked the life out of you, leaving you completely drained and empty.<\/p>\n You feel like you\u2019ve just gotten out of a war\u2013and this is exactly what this was: a battle which you didn\u2019t have the slightest chance of winning.<\/p>\n Naturally, this experience has changed you. It\u2019s turned you into a negative and bitter person who has lost her optimism and will to live.<\/p>\n La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che tutti questi sforzi sono stati vani. Avete investito cos\u00ec tanto di voi stessi solo per non ottenere nulla.<\/p>\n In realt\u00e0, siete riusciti a perdere voi stessi e la visione positiva che avevate del mondo. E questo non \u00e8 certo ci\u00f2 per cui avete firmato e non \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che vi aspettavate.<\/p>\n Tra le altre cose, la conseguenza pi\u00f9 dannosa \u00e8 senza dubbio l'avere problemi di relazione<\/span><\/a> with someone you\u2019re not in an actual relationship with.<\/p>\n In realt\u00e0, vi trovate in una sorta di situazione indefinita, una quasi relazione, o come diavolo volete chiamarla.<\/p>\n Either way, the point is that you have the arguments, the jealous outbursts, the anxiety when he doesn\u2019t respond to your texts. You have the lack of trust, understanding, and compromise.<\/p>\n I won\u2019t lie to you\u2013some of these things also happen in real relationships. Not all the time, but even if they do, it\u2019s not the end of the world and a couple will work to overcome them.<\/p>\n Every relationship has its negative sides. Nevertheless, sometimes, it\u2019s worth putting up with them because of all the good things your romance brings.<\/p>\n Alla fine della giornata, avete una persona che vi ama e vi rispetta, e una persona che sapete non vi abbandoner\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, quando si tratta della vostra relazione, le cose sono molto diverse. Avete problemi di relazione e tutti i lati negativi di una storia d'amore senza quelli positivi.<\/p>\n E questo \u00e8 uno schifo!<\/p>\n Another dangerous consequence of chasing a guy who doesn\u2019t want to be caught is the insicurezze<\/span><\/a> che provoca.<\/p>\n Without even planning it, you apply your overthinking state of mind to everyone\u2013not just to your almost boyfriend.<\/p>\n It is perfectly normal to have lost your trust in everyone and not believe in anyone\u2019s intentions anymore. You are convinced that everyone is out to get you and wants to hurt you.<\/p>\n Moreover\u2013 you overthink your every move, in constant fear of making a mistake and doing something wrong.<\/p>\n Without even being aware of it, you\u2019ve become a people pleaser and you\u2019ve started walking on eggshells around everyone because you are afraid that they will also think of you as not enough and reject you the same way this guy did.<\/p>\n Naturalmente non c'\u00e8 nulla di male nel riflettere prima di agire.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, c'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza tra l'essere saggi e attenti e l'analizzare e sviscerare ogni vostra mossa prima di farla.<\/p>\n You\u2019re someone who can only focus on one guy at a time.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t give a damn whether he\u2019s worthy of your attention or whether he is giving you any positive feedback\u2013when you love a man, you have eyes only for him.<\/p>\n This is a great quality when you\u2019re in a relationship with someone who is also one hundred percent loyal, faithful, and devoted.<\/p>\n On the other hand, when you\u2019re the solo uno che ci prova<\/span><\/a> Questo tratto pu\u00f2 portare a conseguenze dannose.<\/p>\n Vede, mentre andava dietro a quest'uomo a cui non \u00e8 mai importato nulla di lei, ha perso molte buone opportunit\u00e0.<\/p>\n Ci sono stati numerosi ragazzi simpatici che hanno cercato di provarci con te, ma tu non te ne sei accorta perch\u00e9 eri cieca.<\/p>\n Even though you\u2019re not actually taken, this is exactly how you behave: as if you were in a serious relationship, when you should be putting yourself out there.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not advising you to deliberately enter a rebound relationship, I\u2019m just begging you to at least take into consideration someone who deserves you.<\/p>\n2. Ci si sente svuotati<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. You have relationship problems with someone you\u2019re not in a relationship with<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Si diventa insicuri<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Si perdono molte opportunit\u00e0<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Ansia da relazione<\/h2>\n
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