{"id":5483,"date":"2020-04-04T08:47:05","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T08:47:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5483"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:14:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:14:51","slug":"la-ragazza-delle-lettere-sempre-lasciata-indietro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-delle-lettere-sempre-lasciata-indietro\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera alla ragazza che viene sempre lasciata indietro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alla ragazza che viene sempre messa da parte, <\/i><\/p>\n

Listen, I know how you\u2019re feeling. I know what it feels like to physically be in a place but yet no one notices you\u2014as if you are invisible.<\/p>\n

So come ci si sente a non essere mai parte dei piani o nel processo di creazione dei piani.<\/p>\n

I know what it feels like when you are with your \u2018friends\u2019 the moment they decide to go somewhere, but no one invited you.<\/p>\n

Usually, someone gets sorry for you and invites you just out of courtesy.  No, thank you. I don\u2019t need your pity invite.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s embarrassing. Like if it\u2019s not painful enough that you don\u2019t want me there, but you have to call me to tag along just to make your conscience clear. I don\u2019t need that.<\/p>\n

And what about when you\u2019re texting one of your best friends to ask her to go out, and she says she doesn\u2019t feel like it \u2026 then you go and text the other one, and in the meantime, you get a text back\u2014a text that was not meant for you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Il testo che recita cos\u00ec: \u201cHey, if she calls you, tell her you\u2019re not up for going out. The two of us will go without her. She is so boring. I don\u2019t want her around.\u201d <\/i><\/p>\n

Come reagireste? E soprattutto, come vi sentireste?<\/p>\n

Mi sentivo come se il mio mondo stesse crollando, ma nonostante ci\u00f2 ho trovato la forza e il coraggio di mandare un messaggio:<\/p>\n

\u201cThanks, but I don\u2019t need that kind of friendship. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Cordiali saluti, <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ms. Boring\u201d    <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

How many weekends have you spent living in a delusion that no one had any plans\u2014oh, but they did? It\u2019s only that you weren\u2019t a part of them.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t invited. Your \u2018friends\u2019 were having fun without you.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Let me tell you something\u2014 Fanculo a quel tipo di amici.<\/i><\/b> Quelli non sono amici.<\/p>\n

Sono persone che avete incontrato per caso in un periodo della vostra vita. Per voi, quelli sono dei NOBODY.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re reading this and if you think that I probably had it coming, then you are one of those people who won\u2019t give anyone the time of day.<\/p>\n

Maybe you are threatened by me. Maybe you just don\u2019t like me. Maybe I\u2019m more beautiful than you are. Maybe I\u2019m in your way.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 sempre una persona che ha l'ultima parola. Una persona che decide tutto.<\/p>\n

And on the other side, there is always that one person who is left out for some reason. Because of something that doesn\u2019t suit you\u2014 cos\u00ec l'hai esclusa.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

After some time, you just give up. You get tired of inviting yourself all the time when it\u2019s crystal clear that you are not welcome.<\/p>\n

E sapete cosa succede?<\/p>\n

No one misses you. No one even notices that you are not there anymore. Maybe someone does\u2014someone who notices you\u2019re not there because she pushed you out herself.<\/p>\n

But, it doesn\u2019t matter. You are never bored. You always have something to do.<\/p>\n

Friends will come\u2014 amici veri,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Fino ad allora, <\/i><\/p>\n

Aspettate! <\/i><\/p>\n

\"Lettera<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

To the girl who is always left aside, Listen, I know how you\u2019re feeling. I know what it feels like to physically be in a place but yet no one notices you\u2014as if you are invisible. I know how it feels to never be a part of plans or in the process of making the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":76915,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5483","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Is-Always-Left-Behind.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5483","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5483"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5483\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76915"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5483"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5483"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5483"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}