{"id":54840,"date":"2020-03-14T22:47:55","date_gmt":"2020-03-14T22:47:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54840"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:17:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:17:51","slug":"non-vedrete-il-vero-me-perche-sono-stato-ferito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-vedrete-il-vero-me-perche-sono-stato-ferito\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi dispiace che non vediate subito il vero me stesso perch\u00e9 sono stato ferito in precedenza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A volte le cose brutte che ci accadono cambiano la nostra vita per sempre e va bene cos\u00ec, perch\u00e9 impariamo a viverle e a trasformarle in forza.<\/p>\n<p>Still, from time to time, it\u2019s hard to be comfortable doing things like you did before, especially when it comes to close relationships\u2014especially with your significant other.<\/p>\n<p>You can feel out of place and insecure because you\u2019re left with triggers you didn\u2019t have before your trauma.<\/p>\n<p>You can feel like you\u2019re putting on a mask so you can feel protected.<\/p>\n<p>Potreste essere eccessivamente sospettosi o timorosi, oppure non avere fiducia o addirittura non essere motivati a fare le cose che facevate prima.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m here to tell you that\u2019s okay and you shouldn\u2019t worry and here\u2019s why.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54879\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/careless-girl-driving-car.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza imprudente alla guida dell&#039;auto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/careless-girl-driving-car.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/careless-girl-driving-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/careless-girl-driving-car-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vi meritate qualcuno che capisca completamente voi e i vostri sentimenti.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve someone who will treat you like he gives a damn, who won\u2019t make fake promises or pretend to care for you and send you mixed signals.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t feel like you\u2019re a burden.<\/p>\n<p>Somebody who truly loves you will never make you feel like you\u2019re difficult to deal with.<\/p>\n<p>Al contrario, mostreranno comprensione, troveranno il tempo di ascoltare e si impegneranno per farvi sentire al sicuro e compresi.<\/p>\n<p>Una persona che vi ama veramente vi accetter\u00e0 cos\u00ec come siete in quel momento.<\/p>\n<p>Love shouldn\u2019t be restrictive or make ultimatums.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54878\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-sitting-on-windowsill.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta sul davanzale\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-sitting-on-windowsill.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-sitting-on-windowsill-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-sitting-on-windowsill-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It shouldn\u2019t bring you to tears. Love should feel free and make you happy.<\/p>\n<p>If it doesn\u2019t make you happy, it\u2019s not love.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s something else you already learned about and don\u2019t want to recall.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re with the right person, life becomes easier.<\/p>\n<p>Ha ancora i suoi alti e bassi, ma non vi rende mai infelici.<\/p>\n<p>Smettete di nascondervi dietro maschere che avete dovuto mettere in piedi per paura di essere feriti di nuovo.<\/p>\n<p>Smettete di vivere la vita di una vittima e iniziate invece a creare la vita alle vostre condizioni.<\/p>\n<p>Everything is easier when you have a person you can be yourself with\u2014completely and utterly yourself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54877\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-free-time-together.jpg\" alt=\"coppia tempo libero insieme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-free-time-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-free-time-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-free-time-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Con tutta la vostra goffaggine o ansia, tristezza o eccitazione, giocosit\u00e0 o seriet\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Infatti, una persona che \u00e8 veramente destinata a voi pu\u00f2 vedere attraverso le vostre maschere e il vostro dolore.<\/p>\n<p>They can recognize when you\u2019re putting up a front and when you&#8217;re being yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t underestimate the powerful sight of love.<\/p>\n<p>Vi tratter\u00e0 con rispetto nei momenti belli e in quelli brutti.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need to agree on everything but you have to respect each other and that includes times when you find it difficult to let go of certain things, like fears.<\/p>\n<p>La persona a voi destinata sapr\u00e0 come farvi sentire di nuovo a vostro agio e felici.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54876\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-in-white-room.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice in camera bianca\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-in-white-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-in-white-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-couple-in-white-room-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si sentir\u00e0 come a casa.<\/p>\n<p>Vi metter\u00e0 sempre al primo posto e vi protegger\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Esprime i propri sentimenti liberamente e senza esitazioni.<\/p>\n<p>Le sue intenzioni con voi saranno sempre chiare e si assicurer\u00e0 che sappiate quanto siete speciali, nonostante il vostro lato difficile.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t be stressed about his perception of you because deep down, you know he sees you for who you are.<\/p>\n<p>La vostra vera persona non avr\u00e0 paura delle sfide.<\/p>\n<p>Riconoscer\u00e0 il vostro potenziale e aspetter\u00e0 che vi apriate senza farvi pressione.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54881\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-spend-time-together.jpg\" alt=\"coppia romantica trascorre del tempo insieme\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-spend-time-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-spend-time-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-spend-time-together-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s when you are going to know you\u2019re loved like you deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re loved like you deserve to be loved, you will throw away your masks and heal your wounds.<\/p>\n<p>Tutto ci\u00f2 che un tempo vi faceva nascondere voi stessi e i vostri sentimenti si dissolver\u00e0 nella beatitudine del vero amore.<\/p>\n<p>You will learn that love isn\u2019t about making constant sacrifices just to maintain the peace or crying through sleepless nights because he didn\u2019t call and then pretending the next day that it\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n<p>L'amore \u00e8 un impegno a vivere la propria vita insieme e per l'altro.<\/p>\n<p>L'amore consiste nell'essere il meglio che si possa essere e la persona che si ha accanto fa il tifo per la propria felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Love is about feeling safe in his arms and falling asleep peacefully, knowing you\u2019re exactly where you need to be, the way that you are.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-54872\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/im-sorry-you-wont-see-the-real-me-right-away-because-i-was-hurt-before-pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Mi dispiace che non vediate subito il vero me stesso perch\u00e9 sono stato ferito in precedenza\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/im-sorry-you-wont-see-the-real-me-right-away-because-i-was-hurt-before-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/im-sorry-you-wont-see-the-real-me-right-away-because-i-was-hurt-before-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/im-sorry-you-wont-see-the-real-me-right-away-because-i-was-hurt-before-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/im-sorry-you-wont-see-the-real-me-right-away-because-i-was-hurt-before-pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" 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Still, from time to time, it\u2019s hard to be comfortable doing things like you did before, especially when it comes to close relationships\u2014especially with your significant other. You&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":54873,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54840","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/im-sorry-you-wont-see-the-real-me-right-away-because-i-was-hurt-before.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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