{"id":54905,"date":"2020-03-15T09:01:39","date_gmt":"2020-03-15T09:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=54905"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","slug":"qualcosa-che-e-destinato-a-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/qualcosa-che-e-destinato-a-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Non si pu\u00f2 rovinare qualcosa che \u00e8 destinato a noi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vi capita mai di pensare alle vostre relazioni passate e di sentirvi come se aveste sprecato la vostra preziosa vita per qualcuno che non la meritava?<\/p>\n<p>Forse pensare di aver fatto qualcosa di sbagliato \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che vi impedisce di avere ci\u00f2 che volete ora.<\/p>\n<p>If that one man didn\u2019t recognize your worth right away, it might not mean you did something wrong, but perhaps that he simply wasn\u2019t someone you needed.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it means there&#8217;s a greater plan ahead.<\/p>\n<h2>If he criticizes you often, he\u2019s not the one<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54906\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-criticize-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo critica una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-criticize-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-criticize-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-man-criticize-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If a man keeps telling you you\u2019re not doing something right or keeps downplaying your emotions, I\u2019m sorry, but that means he isn\u2019t the one.<\/p>\n<p>What he\u2019s doing is <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-segnali-allarmanti-che-indicano-che-siete-vittime-di-abusi-emotivi\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abuso emotivo<\/span><\/a>. Nessuno merita di essere trattato cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important you recognize the signs on time. Emotional abuse is a real thing that happens to many women who don\u2019t even realize it.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need your partner to put so much unneeded pressure on you.<\/p>\n<p>Ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno \u00e8 un sostegno infinito. Un luogo sicuro dove tornare.<\/p>\n<p>Qualcuno che ti guarda sempre le spalle, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n<p>Avete bisogno che lui sia il vostro pi\u00f9 grande sostegno. Qualsiasi cosa meno di questo \u00e8 inaccettabile.<\/p>\n<h2>He must accept you as you are \u2013 no more, no less<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54907\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-sand-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sulla sabbia in riva al mare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-sand-by-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-sand-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-sand-by-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If the love is real, you can\u2019t really mess up. So-called mess ups are just an opportunity for more understanding and strengthening your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>And if your partner\u2019s the right one, he will know that better than anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Understanding your partner\u2019s flaws is the best way to show them you accept them fully.<\/p>\n<p>Solo quando saprete che vi accetta nella sua interezza potrete sentirvi al sicuro e iniziare a costruire una vita con lui senza paura di fallire di nuovo.<\/p>\n<p>If he constantly makes you feel like you need to be somehow better, he\u2019s got a problem, and that problem isn\u2019t you.<\/p>\n<h2>Prendete il fallimento come una rassicurazione, non come una tragedia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54908\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-riding-a-bike.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice in bicicletta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-riding-a-bike.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-riding-a-bike-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-riding-a-bike-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Instead of believing your fears and thinking you\u2019re doing something wrong, try seeing failures as a sign telling you something\u2019s not good for you.<\/p>\n<p>O meglio ancora:<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>A sign telling you there is something else waiting for you and when the time comes, you\u2019re going to know that\u2019s it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Every cloud has a silver lining. Nothing is lost. You\u2019re not there yet.<\/p>\n<p>But you\u2019re not late. There\u2019s time.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no plan you should follow. Nobody can control life.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re allowed to have your own life\u2019s rhythm. And dance how you want to.<\/p>\n<h2>Credere al proprio intuito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54909\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-woman-on-the-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna al tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-woman-on-the-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-woman-on-the-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/nice-woman-on-the-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is the thing most people seem to forget about or simply dismiss because they think somebody else knows better what&#8217;s good for them.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t make sense. How can someone else know what you\u2019ve been through and what you\u2019ve been feeling better than you?<\/p>\n<p>No one else can know it more intensely than yourself! That\u2019s the truth of life.<\/p>\n<p>The sooner you realize it, the sooner your life starts to change. Rapidly. You\u2019ll start trusting yourself more and more.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Basta avere fiducia in se stessi e il resto verr\u00e0 da s\u00e9.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/10-motivi-per-mettere-sempre-al-primo-posto\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Smettete di mettere tutto il resto davanti a voi.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you needed a sign to tell you it\u2019s time to take your life into your own hands and start trusting your inner voice, this is it.<\/p>\n<p>Vi incoraggio a eliminare tutti i dubbi e a fare con coraggio il primo passo verso la vostra nuova vita.<\/p>\n<p>A new life where you\u2019re always sure your decisions are what leads you right there where you need to be.<\/p>\n<p>And remember:&nbsp; You can\u2019t mess up something that\u2019s meant for you. So, keep your head up and start being brave again.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-54911\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non si pu\u00f2 rovinare qualcosa che \u00e8 destinato a noi\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you ever think about your past relationships and feel like you\u2019ve been wasting your precious life on someone who didn\u2019t deserve it? Maybe thinking you were doing something wrong is what keeps you from having what you want now. If that one man didn\u2019t recognize your worth right away, it might not mean you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":54910,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Can\u2019t-Mess-Up-Something-That\u2019s-Meant-For-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54905"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54905\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/54910"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}