{"id":5493,"date":"2019-09-21T09:05:33","date_gmt":"2019-09-21T09:05:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5493"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:22:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:22:35","slug":"la-ragazza-merita-molto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-merita-molto\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla ragazza che merita molto di pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro <\/span>\u201cFuture Me\u201d<\/span><\/i>,<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Ci risiamo. Tutto da capo. Un altro colpo al cuore. Un'altra delusione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ancora dolore. Tanto dolore. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quanti idioti mi separano dalla realt\u00e0? Quanta infelicit\u00e0 posso sopportare?<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done. I really am. I deserve better. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know it is fine to cry your eyes out. I know that no one will blame me if I refuse to get up from bed for a few days. I know that\u2019s all part of the \u2018getting better\u2019 process.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that I decided I won\u2019t be going through that again. I\u2019m done reliving that chapter of the book on my life. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

La realt\u00e0 mi ha schiaffeggiato duramente.<\/a> It showed me that nothing is worth my pain and my suffering. Everything will be pointless if I lose myself\u2014if I give in to defeat.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not a loser. I can admit I\u2019ve been beaten down, but I won\u2019t accept it. I\u2019m a fighter. I know what I deserve, and it\u2019s not heartbreak.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to move on. It\u2019s time to write a new story of my life all by myself. It\u2019s time to forget about that sorry ass of a man who didn\u2019t know how to love and respect me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

One day, he will see what a huge mistake he has made, and he will regret it. He will want me back. But, I will laugh in his face: \u201cGoodbye honey, I\u2019m done.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, it\u2019s time to rebuild myself. I need to find my self-worth and self-confidence again. You made me misplace it. You made me ignore my own well-being. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi hai fatto temere per il mio futuro.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Devo imparare dai miei errori.<\/a> Lo sto gi\u00e0 facendo. Non lascer\u00f2 mai pi\u00f9 che qualcuno prenda il mio cuore e ci giochi fino ad annoiarsi. Mi merito molto di pi\u00f9 di questo. <\/span><\/p>\n

I will go on and live my dreams because I\u2019ve realized that nothing is impossible. It all depends on me. If I decide my dreams and only me is more important than anything else, it\u2019s the first step to success. Things will only become better after that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sure, it takes time for the scars from the past to heal, but with time the scars will fade\u2014they will become almost invisible. Why almost? Because they will always serve as a reminder what I\u2019ve been through and what not to do. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, here\u2019s a reminder to myself\u2014only So cosa mi merito veramente<\/a> e solo io posso farlo accadere.<\/span><\/p>\n

The rest of them can only observe\u2014they cannot participate. I won\u2019t let them.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Cordiali saluti,<\/span><\/p>\n

Me<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear \u201cFuture Me\u201d,   Here we go again. Everything all over again. One more heartbreak. One more disappointment. More pain. So much pain. How many jerks separate me from the real thing? How much misery can I take? I\u2019m done. I really am. I deserve better. I know it is fine to cry your eyes…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":5494,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5493","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/timothy-paul-smith-347021.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5493","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5493"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5493\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5494"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5493"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5493"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5493"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}