{"id":55007,"date":"2020-03-16T11:33:12","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T11:33:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55007"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:59:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:59:48","slug":"sto-meglio-senza-di-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sto-meglio-senza-di-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ho bisogno di abbassare la mia luce a causa tua, sto meglio senza di te"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vi siete mai sentiti come se aveste bisogno di <em>tonificare se stessi<\/em> to make sure your partner doesn\u2019t feel uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>Vestire di pi\u00f9 <em>di conseguenza<\/em>, truccarsi di meno, non parlare dei propri successi?<\/p>\n<p>E nemmeno mostrare quanto siete felici?! Questo \u00e8 davvero sbagliato.<\/p>\n<p>Cosa dice di voi e cosa dice di lui?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55011 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che giace in salotto e pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-lying-in-living-room-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It certainly says you\u2019re holding back your true potential \u2013 and because of who?<\/p>\n<p>A man who\u2019s not ready to face his own BS. And that is the whole truth.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s sad, because there\u2019s a difference between being sympathetic and understanding someone is not feeling their best, and a man who is pulling you down because of his unresolved issues.<\/p>\n<p>So, I\u2019m here to tell you to<\/p>\n<h2>Siate orgogliosi di ci\u00f2 che siete<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55013 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blonde-smiling-woman-lying-on-cereal-field.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda sorridente sdraiata su un campo di cereali\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blonde-smiling-woman-lying-on-cereal-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blonde-smiling-woman-lying-on-cereal-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blonde-smiling-woman-lying-on-cereal-field-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Never let anyone, let alone your significant other, decide how you\u2019re going to act, talk, dress, love, think.<\/p>\n<p>Dovrebbe incoraggiarvi a essere la versione migliore di voi stessi e a fare il tifo per voi, non a soffocarvi.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s 7.8 billion people on this planet and you happen to be one of them \u2013 completely unique, with your own set of skills, your own reasoning, aspirations, and all the little things that make you &#8211; you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hai tutto il diritto di essere sempre te stessa. E lui dovrebbe essere felice di averti trovata tra tutte le altre.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ognuno \u00e8 diverso e ognuno \u00e8 prezioso. Voi siete preziosi. E solo per questo motivo dovreste essere orgogliosi.<\/p>\n<h2>Sei tu il motivo per cui lui dovrebbe migliorare il suo gioco, non sentirsi insicuro.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55014 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-smiling-girl-holding-hat-and-winking-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"giovane ragazza sorridente che tiene il cappello e fa l&#039;occhiolino sulla spiaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-smiling-girl-holding-hat-and-winking-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-smiling-girl-holding-hat-and-winking-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-smiling-girl-holding-hat-and-winking-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Why would a man feel&nbsp;threatened by you? Because he feels like he\u2019s not good enough on his own.<\/p>\n<p>He obviously doesn\u2019t appreciate himself in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s true that everyone has their insecurities, but the question is how willing is he to commute them into their strengths?<\/p>\n<p>Tutti possono migliorarsi se lo vogliono e ci vogliono determinazione e coraggio per farlo. Invece di sentirsi paranoico, potrebbe imparare da voi.<\/p>\n<p>Ammettere il problema \u00e8 il primo passo.<\/p>\n<h2>Meriti di stare con un uomo che ti ispiri<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55015 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-on-stairs-face-to-face.jpg\" alt=\"coppia romantica seduta sulle scale faccia a faccia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-on-stairs-face-to-face.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-on-stairs-face-to-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-on-stairs-face-to-face-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un uomo sano comprende le proprie capacit\u00e0 e i propri limiti.<\/p>\n<p>E si sente a posto con loro perch\u00e9 sa che ognuno ha uno scopo diverso nella vita.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo stimolante nella vostra vita vuole vedervi felici e di successo, assicurandosi che vi sostenga nel vostro percorso di vita.<\/p>\n<p>He has his own ambitions and life goals that always include you. That&#8217;s the kind of man you want to spend your life with.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo solidale e amorevole che ti capisca e ti aiuti a crescere e a essere la tua parte pi\u00f9 vera.<\/p>\n<h2>La fiducia \u00e8 silenziosa, le insicurezze sono rumorose<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55017 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-relaxing-on-her-sofa-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna che si rilassa sul suo divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-relaxing-on-her-sofa-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-relaxing-on-her-sofa-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-relaxing-on-her-sofa-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably heard this quote many times, but what does it really mean?<\/p>\n<p>Avete mai incontrato qualcuno che ha sempre una storia migliore da raccontare? Se voi avete scalato la collina, loro hanno scalato la montagna.<\/p>\n<p>Se tu hai conosciuto Ariana, loro hanno conosciuto Mariah. E cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n<p>O qualcuno che ha costantemente un comportamento passivo-aggressivo nei vostri confronti?<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a good chance those people and the people who are jealous of other people\u2019s achievements <em>sono le stesse persone<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55021 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-in-fields-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna felice nei campi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-in-fields-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-in-fields-outdoors-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-young-woman-in-fields-outdoors-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no need to boast if you\u2019re confident in what you know and do. Everything has its time and place.<\/p>\n<p>And there\u2019s no need to downplay other people\u2019s emotions and achievements.<\/p>\n<p>Questo include soprattutto il vostro partner.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, si <em>dovrebbe<\/em> speak about the things you\u2019re proud of with confidence and he should make damn sure he\u2019s proud of you too.<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t be afraid to say goodbye to a man who doesn\u2019t appreciate you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55016 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussiness-woman-leaving-house-and-locking-door.jpg\" alt=\"donna d&#039;affari che esce di casa e chiude la porta a chiave\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussiness-woman-leaving-house-and-locking-door.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussiness-woman-leaving-house-and-locking-door-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/bussiness-woman-leaving-house-and-locking-door-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s sad to think that anyone we feel close to, or even just an acquaintance, could feel threatened by us.<\/p>\n<p>And it hurts like hell when it\u2019s your partner.<\/p>\n<p>You can try to explain that you have no ill intentions, but sometimes that\u2019s just not enough. And when it\u2019s not enough \u2013 it\u2019s time to leave.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t put up with a man who&#8217;s not willing to work on himself because that means he will never change.<\/p>\n<p>La vita \u00e8 troppo breve per sprecarla giocando in piccolo quando si ha cos\u00ec tanto da dare.<\/p>\n<p>And if your light is bothering him \u2013 good. It\u2019s a reminder he has been in the dark for too long.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you can\u2019t tell the sun to stop shining.<\/p>\n<p>E perch\u00e9 dovreste farlo quando potete semplicemente godervi le sue benedizioni?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-55009 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se ho bisogno di abbassare la mia luce a causa tua, sto meglio senza di te\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IF-I-NEED-TO-DIM-MY-LIGHT-BECAUSE-OF-YOU-I\u2019M-BETTER-OFF-WITHOUT-YOU-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever felt like you need to tone yourself down to make sure your partner doesn\u2019t feel uncomfortable. Dress more accordingly, wear less makeup, not mention your accomplishments? Heck, not even show how happy you are?! That is seriously wrong. What does it say about you and what does it say about him? It&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":55008,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55007","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/If-I-Need-To-Dim-My-Light-Because-Of-You-I\u2019m-Better-Off-Without-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55007","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55007"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55007\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55008"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55007"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55007"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55007"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}