{"id":55128,"date":"2020-03-17T17:36:53","date_gmt":"2020-03-17T17:36:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55128"},"modified":"2022-02-10T12:19:03","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:19:03","slug":"meglio-essere-single","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/meglio-essere-single\/","title":{"rendered":"Essere single \u00e8 sempre meglio che lottare per la relazione sbagliata"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Avete paura di<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ricominciare-e-amare-se-stessi\/\"><b>ricominciare<\/b><\/a><strong>?<\/strong> Pensi che sia inutile cercare qualcun altro, quando tutti gli uomini l\u00e0 fuori sono proprio come il tuo ex?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vi ha reso emotivamente dipendenti da lui?<\/strong> Has he managed to brainwash and manipulate you into thinking you can\u2019t survive without his presence in your life?<\/p>\n<p>Oppure <strong>\u00e8 la vostra storia insieme?<\/strong> Si sente triste per il tempo e l'impegno che ha dedicato a questa storia?<\/p>\n<p>Siete ancora aggrappati a questa farsa di relazione a causa degli anni che avete investito in essa?<\/p>\n<p>Because you\u2019ll see it as a waste of time the moment you admit that your romance has failed?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-55129\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blond-woman-holding-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda che si tiene la testa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blond-woman-holding-her-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blond-woman-holding-her-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/blond-woman-holding-her-head-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Is it because you can\u2019t stand losing? Do you consider the breakdown of your relationship to be a personal defeat?<\/p>\n<p><strong>O avete paura di quello che la gente potrebbe dire?<\/strong> Are you afraid that you\u2019ll be seen as an outcast just because you don\u2019t have your plus one?<\/p>\n<p>Are you still in this relationship because it\u2019s become your comfort zone? Because you\u2019re terrified to step out of it, even though you\u2019re anything but happy.<\/p>\n<p>Cosa la spaventa cos\u00ec tanto di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-vita-da-single-non-ha-scelto-ha-scelto-la-vita-da-single\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vita da single<\/span><\/a>? Why exactly do you think that you can\u2019t make it without a man by your side?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-55130\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t you see yourself as whole? Do you think you need an emotional partner to complete you and to give your life meaning?<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, the answers to these questions aren\u2019t important. What matters is that either way, you\u2019re fighting a battle you know you\u2019ll lose.<\/p>\n<p>Sooner or later, you\u2019ll have to admit that it\u2019s time for you and this guy to part ways.<\/p>\n<p>One of these days, you\u2019ll have to accept that the relationship isn\u2019t right for you and that it\u2019s time to say your final goodbye.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Allora, cosa state aspettando?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-55131\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-walking-away.jpg\" alt=\"donna che si allontana\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-walking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-walking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/woman-walking-away-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lasciate che vi dica che non c'\u00e8 assolutamente nulla di sbagliato nell'essere single. Anzi, pu\u00f2 essere il periodo migliore della vostra vita se decidete di viverlo nel modo giusto.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you &#8211; getting used to a new scenario in your life won\u2019t be easy at first. There will be times when you\u2019ll feel alone, abandoned, and heartbroken.<\/p>\n<p>Times when you\u2019ll regret your choice and moments when you\u2019ll feel like giving everything you have just to become a part of a couple once more.<\/p>\n<p>However, these crises will pass. And once they do, you\u2019ll be more than happy for making the best decision of your life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-55132\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/calm-woman-standing-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"donna tranquilla in piedi sulla spiaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/calm-woman-standing-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/calm-woman-standing-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/calm-woman-standing-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando succede, <strong>you\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re much<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/romantic-love\/being-single\/5-ottime-ragioni-per-cui-le-donne-stanno-meglio-in-una-relazione-da-single\/\"><b>meglio se single<\/b><\/a> <strong>di aver vissuto una relazione sbagliata.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll see that you\u2019re way happier laying in a cold, empty bed than spending the entire night looking at your boyfriend\u2019s back and wondering where things went wrong.<\/p>\n<p>That it\u2019s much better <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-giorno-di-san-valentino-da-single-e-il-migliore\/\">spending a Valentine\u2019s Day alone<\/a> che addormentarsi vestiti di tutto punto, aspettandosi che si presenti, come avevate concordato.<\/p>\n<p>After the initial trauma fades away, you\u2019ll realize it\u2019s much better having your phone silent all the time than spending the entire day arguing over a text, or desperately waiting for a phone call that should but will not come.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-55133\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/relaxed-woman-sitting-on-the-chair.jpg\" alt=\"donna rilassata seduta sulla sedia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/relaxed-woman-sitting-on-the-chair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/relaxed-woman-sitting-on-the-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/relaxed-woman-sitting-on-the-chair-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That you\u2019re way happier without anyone waiting for you to come home than you were with a possessive jealous psycho who tried to follow your every move.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly &#8211; you\u2019ll understand that fighting for your own future beats <strong>combattere per qualcosa che \u00e8 destinato a fallire.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Che \u00e8 molto meglio investire tempo ed energie nella propria vita piuttosto che sprecarli in battaglie inutili.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-55134\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-walking-on-the-grass.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice che cammina sull&#039;erba\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-walking-on-the-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-walking-on-the-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/happy-woman-walking-on-the-grass-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>All'inizio sar\u00e0 dura, ma con il passare del tempo vi renderete conto che non avere affatto l'amore \u00e8 meglio che doverlo elemosinare e che sentirsi soli \u00e8 sempre meglio che sentirsi soli in una relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you least expect it, you\u2019ll realize that it\u2019s way better to give yourself a chance to be happy on your own than to settle for being unhappy with to the wrong person.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-55136\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Being-Single-Always-Beats-Fighting-For-The-Wrong-Relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 sempre meglio che lottare per la relazione sbagliata\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Being-Single-Always-Beats-Fighting-For-The-Wrong-Relationship-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Being-Single-Always-Beats-Fighting-For-The-Wrong-Relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Being-Single-Always-Beats-Fighting-For-The-Wrong-Relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Being-Single-Always-Beats-Fighting-For-The-Wrong-Relationship-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you afraid to start over? Do you think that it is pointless to look for someone else, when all the men out there are just like your ex? Has he made you emotionally dependent on him? Has he managed to brainwash and manipulate you into thinking you can\u2019t survive without his presence in your&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":55135,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55128","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Being-Single-Always-Beats-Fighting-For-The-Wrong-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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