{"id":5532,"date":"2019-09-22T08:50:43","date_gmt":"2019-09-22T08:50:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5532"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:20:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:20:07","slug":"lettera-ragazza-solo-opzione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-ragazza-solo-opzione\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera alla ragazza che era solo un'opzione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ehi tu,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I know that I am probably not the only one who sees that sorrow in your eyes. And I know someone\u2019s eyes can be so sad and tortured only because of love. In your case, it was a lack of love unfortunately. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know you couldn\u2019t listen to your friends while they were telling you that he doesn\u2019t deserve you. I know it was difficult to trust them because your heart kept telling you something that was totally the opposite of what your head was telling you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you won\u2019t listen to me, I will repeat my words again<\/span>: \u201cHe doesn\u2019t deserve you!\u201d<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

So, please burn the bridges between the two of before it is too late. Don\u2019t let him break your heart into pieces, and leave you broken and emotionally damaged. No man has the right to do something like that. And he is not an exception.<\/span><\/p>\n

Can\u2019t you see that he comes only when it is convenient to be with you\u2014he gets what he wants and then leaves you? Without even saying goodbye. <\/span><\/p>\n

Can\u2019t you see that he is hiding you from his friends? If a man loves a woman, he would show off in front of everyone with her. <\/span><\/p>\n

But no, this guy hides you from the rest of the world and tends to see you only in dark hotel rooms. Where nobody knows you\u2014where he can keep you as his secret. Because that\u2019s what you are\u2014just a secret. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quello che arriva quando la vita si fa dura, per dirgli che tutto andr\u00e0 bene. Quello che rimane sveglio tutta la notte ad ascoltare i suoi problemi, mentre si addormenta nel momento stesso in cui tu inizi a parlare dei tuoi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please, listen to me because I\u2019ve been there.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I was also a woman who was just an option and never a priority. I was the one who was trapped in his net of lies. I was the one who was blindly in love, but unfortunately, he didn\u2019t feel the same. <\/span><\/p>\n

What you have now is just an almost relationship. And darling, you don\u2019t deserve such a thing. You don\u2019t deserve a half man. You deserve it all or nothing at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensateci: Se ti amasse davvero, ti avrebbe presentato alla sua famiglia e ai suoi amici. Se ti ama, avrebbe messo un'etichetta alla vostra relazione. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he cares, he wouldn\u2019t let you cry thinking about the words he said just to get rid of you that day.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t overanalyze his messages because there is nothing clever you can figure out there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t trust him when he says he loves you because he had said that before and then didn\u2019t show up for days. Don\u2019t believe in his sweet talk or kisses because it is all fake. And that is not something you deserve.<\/span><\/p>\n

You aren\u2019t the second option! <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You are a beautiful, smart, successful and easygoing young lady. So, don\u2019t let him lead on you. You deserve better. You deserve a man who will love you to the moon and back and always be there when you need him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non quando \u00e8 conveniente per lui, ma quando \u00e8 conveniente per entrambi. Vi meritate qualcuno che vi chiami solo per sapere come \u00e8 andata la giornata. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ti meriti qualcuno<\/a> who will buy you flowers just like that, without any reason. But the biggest reason will be that he loves you\u2014and that is more than enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

Meritate qualcuno che vi ami incondizionatamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ti meriti un uomo che faccia di te la sua priorit\u00e0<\/i><\/b>!<\/span><\/p>\n

Bear in mind that that day will come. Maybe not today or tomorrow, but it will come eventually. And when that happens, you will finally see what it feels like to be someone\u2019s first choice\u2014every single time!<\/span><\/p>\n

Amore,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Una ragazza che era la seconda opzione<\/i><\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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