{"id":55422,"date":"2020-03-19T21:17:36","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T21:17:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55422"},"modified":"2022-02-10T13:06:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T13:06:52","slug":"grandi-ostacoli-per-luomo-giusto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/grandi-ostacoli-per-luomo-giusto\/","title":{"rendered":"10 grandi difetti per trovare l'uomo giusto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ovunque si guardi, ci sono consigli su come trovare l'amore.<\/p>\n

Tutti continuano a dirvi cosa dovreste fare per attrarre gli uomini e come dovreste comportarvi per trattenerli.<\/p>\n

However, nobody focuses on the moves you shouldn\u2019t make during your pursuit for Mr. Right.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s about the change. We\u2019re bringing you some of the most common mistakes many women make while dating.<\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t seem desperate<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The first thing on the list of things you shouldn\u2019t think of doing while looking for your match made in heaven is being too desperate.<\/p>\n

I know that you want to find love but please, don\u2019t go after it at all costs.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing being available and putting yourself out there, but chasing guys at all costs is a big no-no. Besides, trust me when I tell you that guys smell desperation a mile away.<\/p>\n

E scappano via il pi\u00f9 velocemente possibile.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Vedete, quando un ragazzo vede che una ragazza \u00e8 troppo desiderosa di avere una relazione, la classificher\u00e0 come una persona che non ha mai avuto una relazione. troppo bisognoso<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ha paura che lei voglia limitare la sua libert\u00e0 e metterlo in gabbia, cos\u00ec gli viene un impulso immediato a salvarsi.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely normal that you want to commit and settle down but don\u2019t let your entire life revolve around it. Don\u2019t turn your pursuit for love into the only thing that matters.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t expect someone to complete you<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

If you expect your boyfriend to make you happy while you feel miserable and to turn your life the right way up again, think again because it\u2019s unlikely to happen.<\/p>\n

Yes, the right man can make your days more beautiful and interesting, but it\u2019s not his job to give your meaning to your existence.<\/p>\n

Prima di tutto devi essere soddisfatta e felice della tua vita cos\u00ec com'\u00e8 adesso. Devi amare te stessa prima che un ragazzo si butti a capofitto.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Remember: You\u2019re not looking for another half; you\u2019re a complete individual with or without a man by your side.<\/p>\n

Besides, you\u2019ll be much more attractive to the opposite sex once they see that you don\u2019t need them.<\/p>\n

Dimostrate a un ragazzo che scegliete di stare con lui, ma che potreste fare a meno di lui in qualsiasi momento, e vi assicuro che ognuno di loro vi cercher\u00e0.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t get yourself involved with men who are taken<\/h2>\n

\"moglie<\/p>\n

So, I can\u2019t stress this enough: Stay away from uomini sposati<\/span><\/a> o ragazzi che hanno una relazione.<\/p>\n

The hell with it, stay away from those who have unresolved situationships going on as well. They don\u2019t have to be in a labelled relationship to mean trouble.<\/p>\n

First of all, a man who cheats on his girl with you will never change. Even if you manage to get him to leave her and be all yours, he\u2019ll do the same thing to you sooner or later.<\/p>\n

Also, do you really want to be someone\u2019s second choice?<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Vi sentite davvero a vostro agio nel fare da terzo incomodo in una relazione e nell'essere l'altra donna, quando meritate molto di pi\u00f9?<\/p>\n

Finally, don\u2019t do it for the sheer sake of this girl who sits comfortably at home, thinking that her life is in perfect order while this douchebag is fooling around behind her back.<\/p>\n

You can be her in no time and trust me, it wouldn\u2019t be pretty.<\/p>\n

I know that you can fall for a taken man before you realize what hit you. However, even when that happens, don\u2019t go after your primary instincts. Let your reason take over.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t repeat your mistakes<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I bet you have some relationship experience by now. And if you\u2019re smart, you could have revised your behavior and come up with some kind of conclusion.<\/p>\n

Reconsider your mistakes up till now and don\u2019t repeat them.<\/p>\n

Per cominciare, smettete di farvi coinvolgere dallo stesso tipo di ragazzi<\/a> \u2013 they\u2019re clearly not cut out for you.<\/p>\n

Ad esempio, se avete l'abitudine di uscire con giocatori che finiscono per farvi del male, passate a ragazzi con meno esperienza.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

After that, change your dating game because everything you\u2019ve been doing in the past clearly hasn\u2019t worked.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been jumping into new relationships too fast, this time, give yourself time to think things through before acting on them.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, se il pensiero eccessivo vi ha impedito di rilassarvi e vi ha fatto perdere delle occasioni, per cambiare, seguite la corrente e siate spontanei.<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t give too many second chances<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Another major \u201cdon\u2019t\u201d of finding love is not going back to your previous relationships.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing if you and your ex had a small inconvenience that led to your breakup. In that case, there is nothing wrong in giving your relationship another try.<\/p>\n

However, if this is the man you keep breaking up with and coming back to, someone you\u2019ve given more seconde opportunit\u00e0<\/span><\/a> di quanto si possa contare, siate onesti con voi stessi e ammettete che la vostra relazione si \u00e8 rotta in modo irreparabile.<\/p>\n

Things with some people simply don\u2019t work, as much as you try. There is no point in wasting anymore of your time on an ex you\u2019ll never be happy with, so it\u2019s better to say your final goodbye right now.<\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t expect him to change<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Quando si incontra un uomo a un livello pi\u00f9 profondo e ci si rende conto di chi \u00e8 veramente, si hanno due possibilit\u00e0: accettarlo o allontanarsi all'istante.<\/p>\n

Tutto il resto \u00e8 inutile e si trasformer\u00e0 in una tortura per entrambi, prima o poi.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che il vostro  <\/span>love can\u2019t change a man<\/span><\/a> che si rifiuta di farlo lui stesso.<\/p>\n

Even if you succeed in making some modifications, this man\u2019s true temper and personality will swim up to surface after some time.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

In the meantime, you\u2019ll both be miserable \u2013 him because he has to pretend to be something he\u2019s not to please you, and you because you can\u2019t get him to become the man you want him to be, as much as you try.<\/p>\n

In fondo, questo tipo di accordo \u00e8 tutto fuorch\u00e9 equo. Vi piacerebbe che il vostro partner cercasse di uccidere il vostro spirito e vi modellasse secondo i suoi standard immaginari?<\/p>\n

I bet not. Well, don\u2019t try doing it to others either.<\/p>\n

7. Don\u2019t look for perfection\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If you think these points are going to help you find your Prince Charming on a white horse, I have to break your bubble and tell you that ain\u2019t happening.<\/p>\n

And you know why? Because there is no such thing as a perfect man and you shouldn\u2019t be looking for one either.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re not perfect either. Every guy you meet will have his set of flaws that you\u2019ll just have to deal with.<\/p>\n

Besides, a real life relationship is not a fairytale. The goal is to get yourself a man who\u2019ll make an imperfectly perfect match with you.<\/p>\n

8. \u2026but don\u2019t lower your standards either<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should accept whatever is served to you. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not allowed to have standards or that you should settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

You see, it\u2019s perfectly normal if the guy you\u2019re dating has some imperfections and character flaws.<\/p>\n

However, if he is an abuser or a cheater, doesn\u2019t want to commit, or has some other personality traits you consider to be deal breakers, leave him without thinking twice.<\/p>\n

One of the biggest mistakes you can make is lowering your standards because someone told you that you\u2019re too picky.<\/p>\n

Invece di farlo, siate orgogliosi del fatto che sapete cosa e chi volete e restate fedeli alle vostre idee.<\/p>\n

9. Don\u2019t think that love is enough\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a romantic soul who believes in romance and there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, it\u2019s nice for a change to see a girl who follows her heart in today\u2019s world.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, se volete trovare il vostro Mr. Right, dovete diventare un po' pi\u00f9 realistiche. Non vorrei essere io a dirvelo, ma a volte..,  <\/span>love isn\u2019t enough<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

You can love a man with your entire heart but if there is no compromise, understanding, trust, and respect between you two, it is quite unlikely that you\u2019ll succeed.<\/p>\n

Besides, there is a thing called compatibility. If you don\u2019t get along with your partner and have completely different goals and views on life, love won\u2019t be able to save your relationship.<\/p>\n

10. \u2026but don\u2019t get into loveless relationships<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, anche se l'amore da solo non basta, \u00e8 comunque fondamentale.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t allow yourself to waste time on a bunch of loveless relationships in your search for the right guy.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you can\u2019t grow feelings for a man the moment you start dating him.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if some time goes by and you see that he hasn\u2019t entered your heart, don\u2019t be scared to walk away, no matter how great this guy might be.<\/p>\n

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Wherever you look, there\u2019s advice on how to find love. Everyone keeps telling you what things you should do to attract men and how you should behave to keep them. However, nobody focuses on the moves you shouldn\u2019t make during your pursuit for Mr. Right. Well, that\u2019s about the change. We\u2019re bringing you some of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":55486,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/10-Major-Donts-Of-Finding-The-Right-Guy.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55422"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55422\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55486"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}