{"id":55599,"date":"2020-03-23T09:39:05","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T09:39:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55599"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:57:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:57:33","slug":"con-la-persona-giusta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/con-la-persona-giusta\/","title":{"rendered":"Con la persona giusta, non avrete la sensazione di essere difficili da amare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non descrivereste mai il vostro partner come essere difficile da amare<\/em>Lo faresti anche tu?<\/p>\n

Still, that\u2019s what you believe to be true about yourself and what you think others think of you.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che succede qualcosa di brutto, la prima cosa che si fa \u00e8 incolpare se stessi.<\/p>\n

La mente si fa negativa e ci si sente un fallimento.<\/p>\n

Credere in queste cose \u00e8 una parte importante del problema.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Having low self-esteem is a sign of distrusting your worth. It means you don\u2019t see anything valuable in you and that just isn\u2019t true.<\/p>\n

But first, let\u2019s see what led you to believe in that lie in the first place and how can we change that.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a sensitive person. Being a sensitive person makes you super aware of things other people don\u2019t even notice.<\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 significa anche che si pu\u00f2 essere sopraffatti pi\u00f9 facilmente e che \u00e8 difficile stabilire dei limiti e dire di no.<\/p>\n

You understand everything deeply and sometimes you feel like you\u2019re not doing everything you can.<\/p>\n

You can be harsh on yourself over things you can\u2019t control. You\u2019re an overthinker.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

I sovrappensieri vivono nella loro mente e passano una quantit\u00e0 malsana di tempo a rivivere i loro presunti errori e a desiderare di cambiare qualcosa che \u00e8 gi\u00e0 successo.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s exactly what\u2019s stopping them from giving self-love a chance.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 difficile accettare le imperfezioni.<\/p>\n

Striving for perfection means constantly having to prove your self-worth. And that\u2019s exhausting.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s often mixed up with the fear of disapproval.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need approval to be who you are. You should be loved as you are.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Per smettere di abbattersi, \u00e8 necessario cambiare le convinzioni dannose su se stessi.<\/p>\n

Per cambiare questa immagine distorta di s\u00e9, \u00e8 necessario conoscere l'aspetto di una relazione sana.<\/p>\n

Per riacquistare la fiducia in se stessi con l'aiuto del futuro partner, ecco a cosa dovete prestare attenzione e come dovrebbe essere una relazione:<\/p>\n

La persona giusta gestir\u00e0 i conflitti in modo maturo.<\/p>\n

Non ci saranno commenti meschini e silenzi imbarazzanti, chiamate mancate o aggressivit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Ci saranno molti Dimmi come ti senti e perch\u00e9 e io ti dir\u00f2 lo stesso.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Non ci saranno sensi di colpa.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing worse than manipulating a person who has been hurt before, especially if you use senso di colpa<\/em> per controllarli. Le relazioni felici si basano sulla fiducia e sull'onest\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Avrete la sensazione che tutto sia risolvibile.<\/p>\n

Con la persona giusta che comprende le vostre esigenze, vi sentirete sempre a vostro agio.<\/p>\n

Con la persona giusta, sentirete di appartenere a voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Come se si potesse finalmente abbassare la guardia e rilassarsi in pace sapendo che qualcuno ha a cuore i tuoi interessi nonostante i tuoi difetti.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t see your flaws as a reason to doubt you, but opportunity to understand you better.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

I difetti ci ricordano solo dove abbiamo pi\u00f9 bisogno di amore.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t use your flaws against you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn that real love can\u2019t be hard. There\u2019s no such thing as being hard to love.<\/p>\n

L'amore dovrebbe essere leggero. Pieno di gioia, comprensione e nutrimento.<\/p>\n

Dovrebbe sollevarvi, non abbattervi e farvi mettere in discussione tutto ci\u00f2 che fate.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t see your partner as someone to obey, someone you\u2019re not worthy of, or someone who makes you compare yourself with others to measure your worth.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Dovrebbe essere una persona che cammina al vostro fianco tenendovi per mano e che si assicura di mostrarvi il suo amore in ogni modo possibile.<\/p>\n

When you stop believing you\u2019re hard to love, you will suddenly start noticing love that has been shown to you, not only by your partner but your loved ones.<\/p>\n

Non dovremmo mai dare per scontato l'amore. Nei giorni difficili, quando vi sentite poco amabili, ricordate questo.<\/p>\n

Remember all the people who\u2019ve loved you your whole life and all the things they\u2019ve done for you.<\/p>\n

Remember that regardless of your past, your courage, your fears, your confidence, your age, looks, or accomplishments \u2013 you are always worthy of love.<\/p>\n

\"Con<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You would never describe your significant other as being hard to love, would you? Still, that\u2019s what you believe to be true about yourself and what you think others think of you. Every time something bad happens, the first thing you do is blame yourself. Your mind goes into a negative place and you feel…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":55600,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55599","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/With-The-Right-Person-You-Won\u2019t-Feel-Like-You\u2019re-Hard-To-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55599","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55599"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55599\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55600"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}