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<\/p>\nLe donne non sanno gestire la verit\u00e0. Romanticizzano troppo. Guardano troppi film.<\/p>\n
Hanno la testa tra le nuvole e si aspettano l'impossibile da uomini che cercano semplicemente di essere realistici.<\/p>\n
O forse \u00e8 cos\u00ec?!<\/p>\n
Gli uomini dipingono come realt\u00e0 le loro patetiche intenzioni nei confronti delle donne.<\/p>\n
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The \u201cglass is neither half-full nor half-empty\u2019\u2019 side of life.<\/p>\n
In this story, a woman\u2019s need to be loved and cared for fully and honestly is a glass so full, it\u2019s overflowing.<\/p>\n
L'unico modo ragionevole in cui le cose possono funzionare secondo gli uomini \u00e8 che abbiano tutto il potere, che facciano tutto a modo loro e che non prestino mai attenzione a ci\u00f2 che prova una donna.<\/p>\n
He\u2019s sick. You bring home cooked soup, rub his chest, and play his favorite shows for him while you gently massage his back.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re sick. He sends a message asking if you\u2019re okay.<\/p>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy-1.jpg\")
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Nella migliore delle ipotesi ne invia due.<\/p>\n
You feel happy that he remembered to check how you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n
You cooked for him and he\u2019s late for dinner. He says he couldn\u2019t make it on time, you say it\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n
He cooked (like that ever happens, right?), and you\u2019re late for dinner (no way, you\u2019d be too grateful he\u2019s doing something for you).<\/p>\n
Voi avete una grande spiegazione e lui fa una scenata.<\/p>\n
Qualsiasi cosa faccia per voi, dovete lodarlo per questo, mentre voi vi prendete cura di lui \u00e8 solo logico.<\/p>\n
![\"giovane](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-man-cooking-and-talking-on-the-phone.jpg\")
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If you really think about it, you\u2019ll see that you are the one considering his needs and wishes while he never actually thinks about yours.<\/p>\n
La cosa da chiedersi \u00e8: la vostra relazione funzionerebbe ancora se fosse il contrario.<\/p>\n
Potrebbe mai essere quello che sta sullo sfondo mentre tu sei sotto i riflettori?<\/p>\n
Potrebbe mai sopportare di tornare a casa dal lavoro, voler parlare di qualcosa di fastidioso o brutto che gli \u00e8 successo, e che tu faccia finta di ascoltare mentre guardi una partita?<\/p>\n
No.<\/p>\n
Riuscirebbe a gestire il fatto di averti mandato dieci messaggi e che tu non abbia risposto a nessuno, per poi trovare una scusa banale una volta che ti ha affrontato?<\/p>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-look-bored-while-waiting-for-dinner-from-wife.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
No.<\/p>\n
Could he deal with not knowing where you are all night or who are you spending your time with, and you telling him that it\u2019s none of his business where, how, and with whom you spend your time?<\/p>\n
Non c'\u00e8 alcuna possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n
La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che un uomo non pu\u00f2 gestire la stessa realt\u00e0 che deve affrontare una donna.<\/p>\n
He pretends he\u2019s strong and dominant. He pretends he could never be needy or whiney.<\/p>\n
He makes sure he lets you know that you\u2019re overly emotional, overly controlling, and overly everything while he\u2019s just the right measure.<\/p>\n
Non potrebbe mai e poi mai comportarsi come voi.<\/p>\n
![\"coppia](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/unhappy-couple-lying-on-bed-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
You\u2019re the one expecting too much from him.<\/p>\n
The whole situation couldn\u2019t be more absurd if it tried.<\/p>\n
Onestamente, se lo trattassi anche solo lontanamente come lui tratta te, sarebbe molto, molto peggio di come lui pensa che tu sia.<\/p>\n
He thinks he\u2019s so perfect, while the truth is that with everything you do for him it\u2019s easy to be content.<\/p>\n
You\u2019d feel much better about things if he was more kind, nurturing, and caring.<\/p>\n
If he respected what you say and do the way you respect everything he does, you\u2019d be blossoming and he\u2019d be the one broken.<\/p>\n
![\"coppia](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/upset-couple-sitting-in-living-room-no-talking-3.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
It\u2019s a generally accepted opinion that women can\u2019t deal with the truth.<\/p>\n
Mi domando: se la verit\u00e0 che hai dato a un uomo fosse cos\u00ec brutta come quella che lui d\u00e0 a te, quanto sarebbe in grado di affrontarla?!<\/p>\n
I promise you, he\u2019d be so much worse at it than you are.<\/p>\n
Tutte le regole sarebbero ancora valide se per un giorno fingeste di essere un uomo e lo trattaste come lui tratta voi?<\/p>\n
I guarantee they wouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
![\"un](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-hugged-his-sad-girlfriend-2.jpg\")
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I guess it\u2019s simple to deal with an easy truth, but dealing with the truths men serve women would be impossible for them.<\/p>\n
Tenetelo a mente la prossima volta che vi chiamer\u00e0 bisognosi.<\/p>\n
Keep that in mind next time he doesn\u2019t even try to fulfill any of your needs.<\/p>\n
Keep that in mind and you\u2019ll finally realize that he can but he won\u2019t, ever be as strong as you are.<\/p>\n
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