{"id":55776,"date":"2020-03-23T18:25:44","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T18:25:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55776"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:38:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:38:35","slug":"otterrete-la-vostra-scintilla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/otterrete-la-vostra-scintilla\/","title":{"rendered":"Lui ti ha spezzato, ma tu potrai riavere la tua scintilla"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando qualcuno che significava il mondo per te se ne va, tutti pensano che la rottura del tuo cuore sia ci\u00f2 che fa pi\u00f9 male.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014having it crushed into millions of pieces is devastating and painful and often looks like the biggest disaster of all time.<\/p>\n

All'inizio si \u00e8 intorpiditi dallo shock iniziale.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re in denial and refuse to accept that something like this has happened.<\/p>\n

Vi rifiutate di affrontare le parti del vostro cuore che avete bisogno di ricostruire e pensate che reprimere le vostre emozioni vi far\u00e0 sentire meglio.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

However, after a little while, all the pain hits you and to put it mildly, it starts to feel like you\u2019ve been stabbed in the stomach.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s almost like you\u2019re going through physical pain that prevents you from breathing properly and which you can\u2019t explain.<\/p>\n

You know you\u2019re safe and sound but you feel dead on the inside.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente si pensa che questa sensazione non passer\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

You assume that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life walking around with this incredibly heavy rock in your gut and that every morning you wake up will be just a new agony.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, tl dolore prima o poi passa. Si attraversano diverse fasi che si concludono tutte con l'accettazione e, prima o poi, il dolore smette di essere l'unica cosa a cui si pensa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t happen overnight, since it is a process that takes a lot of effort and energy. Nevertheless, eventually, time does its magic and it stitches your broken heart.<\/p>\n

Si fanno piccoli passi e dopo un po' si impara a respirare di nuovo. Ci si sorprende a sorridere e nasce la speranza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You think that this is it\u2014you\u2019re officially saved. Your<\/strong> il cuore spezzato \u00e8 guarito<\/b><\/a> and you\u2019re good to go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, sadly, things don\u2019t work that way. Because what hurts more than a shattered heart is the consequences this awful experience leaves on you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

That is exactly what happened to you. This man didn\u2019t just break your heart\u2014he broke you as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ha cambiato la persona che eri prima di incontrarlo. Ha ucciso la ragazza innocente e ingenua che credeva nelle persone e aveva fiducia nell'amore.<\/p>\n

Ha fatto sparire la vera te stessa e l'ha sostituita con questa donna amara, negativa e cinica che non si fida di nessuno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He erased the girl who followed her heart\u2019s lead no matter what and instead, brought about a disappointed, guarded and overly careful woman who is trying her best to shut off her emotions because she is paura dell'amore<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014vi ha tolto la scintilla. Ha ucciso il vostro spirito e distrutto il vostro ottimismo ed entusiasmo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Quest'uomo ti ha trasformato in un morto che cammina.<\/p>\n

A un certo punto del percorso, si \u00e8 smesso di vivere e si \u00e8 iniziato a esistere, e c'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza tra le due cose.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014when was the last time you caught yourself being truly happy, without any specific reason?<\/p>\n

L'ultima volta che cose semplici come fare un tuffo nell'oceano o vedere un tramonto incredibile vi hanno emozionato?<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t remember, right? Well, that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, even though you accepted the new you, I\u2019m here to tell you that things won\u2019t always be like this.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi prometto che uno di questi giorni, la tua scintilla torner\u00e0<\/strong>. Arriver\u00e0 inaspettatamente, bussando alla vostra porta, e non vi abbandoner\u00e0 mai pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push yourself too hard and give yourself enough time to completely heal but remember that this will pass, the same way your heartbreak did.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t<\/strong>  <\/b>perdere se stessi<\/b><\/a> forever and you\u2019ll get the girl you used to be back. Just be patient and don\u2019t think about giving up just yet.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014the scars on your soul will remain there forever.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Vi serviranno come ricordo delle battaglie che avete affrontato e soprattutto come memoria del modo in cui siete riusciti a sopravvivere.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, you\u2019ll manage to pick up the broken pieces of yourself and glue yourself back together. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll succeed in rebuilding yourself to make an even stronger, updated version of the girl you once were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E sapete perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 no matter what happens, what you go through or what some evil people do to you, you\u2019re never broken beyond repair.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Lui<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When someone who meant the world to you walks away, everyone thinks that the shattering of your heart is what hurts the most. I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014having it crushed into millions of pieces is devastating and painful and often looks like the biggest disaster of all time. At first, you are numbed by the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":55790,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/He-Broke-You-But-You-Will-Get-Your-Spark-Back.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55776\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55790"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}