{"id":55856,"date":"2020-03-24T09:35:05","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T09:35:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55856"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:22:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:22:59","slug":"non-si-puo-cambiare-luomo-amando-di-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-si-puo-cambiare-luomo-amando-di-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non si pu\u00f2 cambiare un uomo amandolo pi\u00f9 intensamente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dicono che l'amore vince su tutto<\/em>. Ma \u00e8 proprio vero?<\/p>\n

Quando ci innamoriamo per la prima volta, tendiamo a vedere il mondo e la persona che amiamo attraverso occhiali rosa.<\/p>\n

We do things we usually don\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s scientifically proven that a person in love literally feels like they\u2019re high (yes, drug high) and don\u2019t feel physical pain as strongly.<\/p>\n

So, basically, when we\u2019re in love, we\u2019re out of our mind. And that explains a lot.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Soprattutto la nostra tendenza a vedere il nostro partner in modo idealistico.<\/p>\n

Quando amiamo qualcuno, facciamo finta di non vedere i suoi difetti.<\/p>\n

This is partly because we are infatuated and partly because we consciously or subconsciously know we are investing our time and love and making an effort to be with that person and we don\u2019t want to admit to ourselves that maybe we made a mistake.<\/p>\n

We don\u2019t want to face reality because the truth is too painful for us.<\/p>\n

Abbiamo paura di cambiare, di soffrire o di tornare single.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s when we start making excuses for our partner and that\u2019s the moment our relationship becomes doomed.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re thinking: \u2018Stanno attraversando momenti difficili<\/em>,\u2019 which in reality probably means they\u2019re not investing in the relationship as much as you do.<\/p>\n

The truth is that everyone is going through a tough time sometimes but it\u2019s no excuse to stop making an effort.<\/p>\n

Oltre a questo, ci sono altre scuse pi\u00f9 comuni che adduciamo nella nostra relazione a causa dell'amore, come ad esempio:<\/p>\n

Gli crediamo quando dice che cambier\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Molti di noi sono caduti in questa tana del coniglio. Dare una seconda possibilit\u00e0 \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che facciamo per amore.<\/p>\n

Vogliamo davvero credere che cambier\u00e0 magicamente, nonostante vediamo le sue azioni che formano uno schema inequivocabile, ancora e ancora.<\/p>\n

Abbandonate le convinzioni e iniziate a vedere i modelli.<\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

In fondo, sapete che le azioni significano molto pi\u00f9 delle parole.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t practice what he says, he simply doesn\u2019t care enough.<\/p>\n

Ha problemi irrisolti legati a relazioni passate.<\/p>\n

This one is so easy to believe. We\u2019ve been there too.<\/p>\n

Someone has hurt us before and we need time to heal properly and that’s the obvious truth.<\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019re not healed properly, maybe you shouldn\u2019t enter a new relationship because you\u2019re not ready to face your fears and pain.<\/p>\n

Not until you\u2019re ready to make decisions despite your previous experiences are you prepared to be in a healthy relationship and that goes for other types of relationships too, not only romantic ones\u2014relationships with parents, friends and even yourself.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Il problema non sono i problemi, ma evitare di affrontarli.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t really mean what he says when he says something mean.<\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 una delle peggiori scuse che si possano dare a un uomo.<\/p>\n

Questo tipo di comportamento non mostra altro che pura mancanza di rispetto.<\/p>\n

No one should tolerate insults, especially not from their loved one. It doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n

If someone loves us, they care for our well-being, they don\u2019t make our life miserable.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not just something said in moments of rage or annoyance.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It’s a conscious decision to make us feel smaller. He\u2019s just a man<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Accettare stereotipi come questo non fa altro che aumentare le loro conseguenze dannose.<\/p>\n

Being a man isn’t an excuse and certainly not an excuse to be disrespectful.<\/p>\n

Ha una personalit\u00e0 unica, la volont\u00e0 di cambiare o non cambiare, il potere di scegliere tra le opzioni e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n

He is not programmed to behave a certain way as long as he has his free will\u2014and he does.<\/p>\n

Tutto il resto \u00e8 solo pigrizia e noncuranza.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not making an effort, you\u2019re not just a man, you\u2019re simply a jerk.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Do yourself a favor and quit working harder at love if there\u2019s no mutual exchange.<\/p>\n

The fact is, you can\u2019t change a man by loving him harder.<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t change anyone if they don\u2019t want to change in the first place. It\u2019s sad, but it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

Prima abbandoniamo i \"se solo\", prima saremo sulla strada per trovare qualcuno a cui importi davvero qualcosa.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, forse il nostro addio \u00e8 proprio quello che potrebbe fargli aprire gli occhi sui suoi difetti.<\/p>\n

Maybe that\u2019s something that will teach him something you already know: self-awareness is the most powerful and profound way to end suffering.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

They say that love conquers all. But is it really true? When we first fall in love, we tend to see the world and the person we love through rose-colored glasses. We do things we usually don\u2019t do. It\u2019s scientifically proven that a person in love literally feels like they\u2019re high (yes, drug high) and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":55632,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55856","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/The-Truth-Is-You-Cannot-Change-A-Man-By-Loving-Him-Harder.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55856","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55856"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55856\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55632"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55856"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55856"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55856"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}