{"id":55862,"date":"2020-03-24T10:16:45","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T10:16:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=55862"},"modified":"2022-02-28T11:29:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T11:29:44","slug":"bandiere-che-soffrono-di-disturbo-ossessivo-compulsivo-da-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/bandiere-che-soffrono-di-disturbo-ossessivo-compulsivo-da-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"5 bandiere rosse che indicano che soffrite di disturbo ossessivo-compulsivo relazionale"},"content":{"rendered":"

In sostanza, il disturbo ossessivo-compulsivo \u00e8 uno stato in cui si hanno pensieri indesiderati che non si riescono a controllare o a scacciare, per quanto ci si sforzi.<\/p>\n

It is a type of anxiety disorder that makes you feel like you\u2019re not in charge of your brain and which makes your life much harder than it should be.<\/p>\n

Il disturbo ossessivo compulsivo da relazione si verifica quando tutti questi pensieri intrusivi sono legati solo alla relazione sentimentale, dalla quale si diventa ossessionati.<\/p>\n

E il fatto \u00e8 che molte persone ne soffrono, senza nemmeno esserne consapevoli.<\/p>\n

Here are the signs that you\u2019re one of them as well.<\/p>\n

1. Mettete continuamente in discussione la vostra relazione<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The first sign that you\u2019re dealing with relationship OCD is the fact that you keep on questioning your relationship.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 un vero affare? \u00c8 l'uno<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Siete davvero destinati a stare insieme?<\/p>\n

Avreste dovuto iniziare questa storia d'amore?<\/p>\n

Queste sono tutte le domande che ti passano per la testa.<\/p>\n

Not only that\u2014they are burdening you to a level where you can\u2019t even function properly and most importantly, where you can\u2019t enjoy your relationship with your boyfriend the way you should.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Instead of being concerned with the present moment, you\u2019re obsessing about the past and the future.<\/p>\n

Si analizza tutto quello che \u00e8 successo tra voi due in passato, comprese le cose che presumibilmente siete riusciti a superare.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you hold grudges or that you\u2019re directly resentful toward your partner\u2014you just replay all the situations back and forth in your head, as if you\u2019ll magically get a different outcome.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, \u00e8 del tutto naturale che vogliate sapere dove sta andando la vostra relazione, ma la differenza tra voi e le altre persone \u00e8 che avete un bisogno incontrollabile di conoscere ogni dettaglio in anticipo e che dovete essere positivi al cento per cento sul risultato, il che \u00e8, ovviamente, impossibile.<\/p>\n

2. Cercate rassicurazioni dagli altri<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, il vostro ansia<\/a> doesn\u2019t end there.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t only have these internal monologues regarding your relationship; you also use every possible opportunity to talk it through with everyone around you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like your only subject of conversation with your loved ones has become your romance and you can\u2019t get yourself to talk about anything else besides that.<\/p>\n

In effetti, si va in giro a chiedere agli amici pi\u00f9 stretti, alla famiglia e persino ai colleghi di lavoro e ai conoscenti la loro opinione sulla vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

It is more than obvious that you\u2019re actually looking for reassurance; you want them to confirm that things are exactly how they should be and that there is nothing to worry about, as if they know what\u2019s going on with you and your boyfriend in detail.<\/p>\n

\"amico<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure that all of these people love you from the bottom of their heart but if you continue doing this, you won\u2019t lose only your partner\u2014you\u2019ll chase them away too.<\/p>\n

Nobody likes being the third wheel to someone else\u2019s relationship, nor can they make some important decisions regarding your life.<\/p>\n

Whether you want to hear this or not, the truth is that you\u2019re boring and overwhelming them.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure that they\u2019ve told you nothing is wrong like a million times and the last thing they want to do is repeat themselves once more.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, che cosa possono dirvi in primo luogo?<\/p>\n

Yes, you can take advice from the people whose opinions you appreciate but that doesn\u2019t mean that they can rule your relationship.<\/p>\n

3. Passate troppo tempo a controllare i vostri sentimenti<\/h2>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

Un'altra pericolosa bandiera rossa che indica che si soffre di disturbo ossessivo compulsivo da relazione \u00e8 legata alle emozioni.<\/p>\n

You can spend years next to one man but you still won\u2019t be sure whether you love him for real.<\/p>\n

Is this true love that you\u2019re feeling or is it actually some kind of obsession?<\/p>\n

Sei innamorata di lui, lo ami davvero? \u00c8 cos\u00ec che una donna innamorata dovrebbe sentirsi?<\/p>\n

Come vi sentireste se doveste perdere questo ragazzo? Avreste il cuore spezzato o la vostra vita continuerebbe come se nulla fosse?<\/p>\n

Vi sentireste feriti perch\u00e9 il vostro ego \u00e8 stato danneggiato o vi sentireste feriti perch\u00e9 il vostro ego \u00e8 stato danneggiato? manca a lui<\/a> Davvero?<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

\u00c8 solo un'abitudine? Questa relazione \u00e8 diventata nient'altro che la vostra zona di comfort?<\/p>\n

Stai con lui perch\u00e9 vuoi esserci o hai solo paura di rimanere single?<\/p>\n

You see, asking yourself these questions is nothing unusual when you\u2019re just starting a new relationship.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, si vuole sapere a che punto si \u00e8 con se stessi e si cerca di esaminare la profondit\u00e0 dei propri sentimenti.<\/p>\n

Con te, per\u00f2, \u00e8 diverso, perch\u00e9 questi dubbi sembrano non scomparire mai.<\/p>\n

No matter how long you have been this man\u2019s girlfriend, you keep on having these thoughts.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Not only that\u2014you also compare the feelings you have now with the ones you had yesterday, last month, last year or at the beginning of your relationship.<\/p>\n

You wonder if anything has changed, whether you\u2019re starting to fall out of love with him or you love him more than before.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, ci\u00f2 accade soprattutto nelle relazioni di lunga durata.<\/p>\n

Your butterflies are probably long gone and maybe you two have gotten into a rut so you can\u2019t help but wonder if this is how things should be.<\/p>\n

State entrando in una nuova fase della vostra relazione o le vostre emozioni stanno svanendo?<\/p>\n

4. Confrontate la vostra relazione con quella di altre coppie<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Quando si soffre di disturbo ossessivo-compulsivo da relazione, si ha l'abitudine di confrontare le cose.<\/p>\n

You compare your feelings but you also compare your romance with other people\u2019s relationships.<\/p>\n

You keep asking yourself if someone else is happier than you, whether they\u2019re more in love and if they made greater progress than you two.<\/p>\n

Not only that\u2014you also compare your current boyfriend with every other man in your life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you would do something about it or actually cheat on him, even if you realized that someone else is better than him in some way;you just have these obsessive thoughts you can\u2019t control, as much as you try.<\/p>\n

Basta che vediate un ragazzo sexy che vi passa accanto e il circolo infinito ha inizio.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Iniziate a chiedervi se questo tizio sia pi\u00f9 bello del vostro uomo, se sia pi\u00f9 intelligente, pi\u00f9 interessante, se abbia un miglior senso dell'umorismo o se possa trattarvi meglio<\/a> e vi render\u00e0 pi\u00f9 felici.<\/p>\n

Questo vale soprattutto per i vostri ex e per le vostre relazioni precedenti.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you try to put the emotions you have for your current boyfriend and the feelings you had for your exes on a scale.<\/p>\n

Chi hai amato di pi\u00f9? Avete sbagliato a chiudere con qualcuno del vostro passato e a intraprendere questa relazione?<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 qualcun altro l\u00e0 fuori pi\u00f9 adatto a voi?<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re non \u00e8 felice nella sua relazione<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Con tutte queste cose in testa, non c'\u00e8 assolutamente modo di essere felici.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che il tuo disturbo ossessivo compulsivo<\/a> manages to ruin every beautiful moment of your relationship because it simply doesn\u2019t let you enjoy yourself.<\/p>\n

Invece di provare una sensazione di appagamento ogni volta che il vostro partner vi abbraccia o vi bacia, ignorate completamente la realt\u00e0 e iniziate a porvi tutte queste domande.<\/p>\n

Sfruttate questa opportunit\u00e0 per controllare i vostri sentimenti e il suo comportamento e il momento passa prima che ve ne accorgiate.<\/p>\n

Lo stesso vale per le attivit\u00e0 in camera da letto.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re never completely pleased because you can\u2019t shut your mind off and relax the way you should.<\/p>\n

\"Moglie<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014it is great that you don\u2019t follow your heart blindly and that you think things through before acting on them.<\/p>\n

However, if you really do have relationship OCD, it will prevent you from being happy and from reaching your relationship\u2019s full potential, which is a real shame.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, chiedete aiuto e iniziate a lavorare per controllare ed eventualmente scacciare questi pensieri ossessivi, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 improbabile che scompaiano cos\u00ec, su due piedi.<\/p>\n

Have faith that you\u2019ll succeed and once you do, you\u2019ll see it\u2019s way easier to live OCD-free.<\/p>\n

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