{"id":56100,"date":"2020-03-24T22:49:42","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T22:49:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56100"},"modified":"2022-03-04T10:55:58","modified_gmt":"2022-03-04T10:55:58","slug":"non-destinati-a-stare-insieme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-destinati-a-stare-insieme\/","title":{"rendered":"Eravamo destinati a innamorarci ma non a stare insieme"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando penso a noi, la mia mente riproduce solo i nostri ricordi pi\u00f9 felici. \u00c8 come se volesse ferirmi ancora di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to admit but you were everything I knew about love. It sounds so dramatic, I know, and it\u2019s even scarier knowing how deeply I feel those words even now.<\/p>\n<p>At first, I didn\u2019t think of you as the love of my life. You were so silly trying to get my attention in such unnecessary ways.<\/p>\n<p>Ero leggermente infastidito, ma allo stesso tempo affascinato dalla sua spontaneit\u00e0.  Siamo stati entrambi troppo onesti fin dall'inizio.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56109 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-kissing-on-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si bacia al tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-kissing-on-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-kissing-on-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-kissing-on-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t exactly the most romantic love but it was for sure a passionate one and soon, through you, I learned that passion isn\u2019t always short-lived; sometimes from passion arises maturity, something I never would\u2019ve guessed.<\/p>\n<p>Ma questo era il caso di noi. Ci lasciavamo e poi facevamo pace, piangevamo disperati e poi ci ridevamo sopra.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Nothing in the world could stop us. Maybe we didn\u2019t have the most perfect relationship ever but deep down, we knew we had found each other to heal each other in the most unusual ways.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s probably why we had so much respect for each other.<\/p>\n<p>We played it cool until we couldn\u2019t. Our scars intertwined like our hearts and our hands.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56111 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-relaxin-on-the-river-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si rilassa sul fiume\" width=\"800\" height=\"546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-relaxin-on-the-river-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-relaxin-on-the-river-1-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-relaxin-on-the-river-1-768x524.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tu hai iniziato a sentirti a casa per me e io ho iniziato a sentirmi a casa per te. \u00c8 strano come siamo diventati inseparabili.<\/p>\n<p>Ci siamo lasciati andare, abbiamo fatto qualsiasi cosa, abbiamo detto qualsiasi cosa. Per la prima volta in tanti anni, ho provato qualcosa ed era con te.<\/p>\n<p>Ho provato come si fa a essere amati nonostante ci\u00f2 che penso di me stesso.  Ho provato come si fa ad essere accettati per quello che sono.<\/p>\n<p>Ho imparato come ci si sente quando una persona vede te e solo te; ad essere follemente innamorati.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I didn\u2019t tell you as many times as I should have but you were the first person I let in after being hurt so badly, the first person to climb the walls I built around myself.<\/p>\n<p>La nostra sincerit\u00e0 ci legava cos\u00ec tanto. Eravamo pazzi l'uno dell'altro. Non un giorno della nostra vita era noioso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56112 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lovely-couple-watching-night-city-from-hill-1.jpg\" alt=\"bella coppia che osserva la citt\u00e0 notturna dalla collina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lovely-couple-watching-night-city-from-hill-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lovely-couple-watching-night-city-from-hill-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lovely-couple-watching-night-city-from-hill-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ci-amiamo-ma-non-possiamo-stare-insieme\/\">Ci amiamo ma non possiamo stare insieme: Cosa fare<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eravamo estasiati, disperati, arrabbiati, ma mai indifferenti.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s how my heart got broken.&nbsp; Who knew that silence could be so lethal?<\/p>\n<p>Chi poteva immaginare che colui che mi amava cos\u00ec profondamente sarebbe diventato nient'altro che un estraneo?<\/p>\n<p>You stopped asking about my life and you couldn\u2019t understand me anymore.<\/p>\n<p>All'inizio pensavo di aver fatto qualcosa di sbagliato. Pensavo di aver fatto qualcosa che ti avesse allontanato.<\/p>\n<p>I tried to change myself and that went against everything we said we would never do. Soon, despair came over me and I couldn\u2019t deal anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56113 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che abbraccia il suo ragazzo all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-2-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-2-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I felt alone and abandoned and I couldn\u2019t take it; not while you were with me whereas in actuality, you were far gone.<\/p>\n<p>My soul couldn\u2019t take it. I was so angry at life for giving me something so perfect only to take it away so ruthlessly.<\/p>\n<p>Ho iniziato a capire che, dopo aver curato le nostre ferite, siamo diventati persone diverse.<\/p>\n<p>No man is the same when he\u2019s in pain and when he\u2019s not. Finally, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-tua-partenza-non-mi-ha-ucciso\/\">ci siamo separati e quel giorno qualcosa se n'\u00e8 andato per sempre<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Looking back at it, I still don\u2019t regret anything. It\u2019s just the way it was meant to be.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes people come into your life to show you everything you forgot about yourself\u2014and then they sometimes leave.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56114 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia preoccupata che si guarda al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nonostante tutto, non smetter\u00f2 mai di volerti bene.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sarai sempre la prima persona a cui penser\u00f2 quando sentir\u00f2 una canzone d'amore al terzo bicchiere di vino.<\/p>\n<p>Ti amer\u00f2 sempre. Spero che un giorno trover\u00f2 conforto nella nostra storia.<\/p>\n<p>Fino ad allora vi auguro un arrivederci. La fiamma che brucia due volte pi\u00f9 luminosa brucia la met\u00e0 pi\u00f9 a lungo.<\/p>\n<p>We fell hard and we loved hard. And that\u2019s how we ended too.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes love isn\u2019t enough despite what they say. You and I are the living proof.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56104 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Eravamo destinati a innamorarci ma non a stare insieme\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I think of us, my mind plays only our happiest memories. It\u2019s like it wants to hurt me even more. It\u2019s hard to admit but you were everything I knew about love. It sounds so dramatic, I know, and it\u2019s even scarier knowing how deeply I feel those words even now. At first, I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":56106,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56100","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-Meant-To-Fall-In-Love-But-Not-Meant-To-Be-Together.jpg",800,549,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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