{"id":56281,"date":"2020-03-25T22:01:20","date_gmt":"2020-03-25T22:01:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56281"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:00:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:00:42","slug":"mi-manca-chi-ero-prima-di-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mi-manca-chi-ero-prima-di-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi mancava la persona che ero prima di te e sono felice che stia tornando"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sei arrivato e hai distrutto la mia vita. Alla fine, non mi \u00e8 rimasto nulla, nessuno a cui rivolgermi, nemmeno io stessa.<\/p>\n<p>I lost myself because of you. You got me so wrapped up in your toxic net and I didn\u2019t even notice.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che ti mettevo davanti a me, perdevo un pezzo di me stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che decidevo che i tuoi bisogni erano pi\u00f9 importanti dei miei, mi deludevo.<\/p>\n<p>Love is about caring, but what to do when it turns into endless giving? Where\u2019s the limit?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56284 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di donna che ascolta il suo uomo all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Alla fine ero cos\u00ec svuotato. Non c'era pi\u00f9 nulla in me, solo un guscio vuoto. Avevo dimenticato chi ero.<\/p>\n<p>This sudden realization left me thinking I\u2019d never be able to recover. You never seemed to notice I changed; that wasn\u2019t a concern of yours.<\/p>\n<p>Finch\u00e9 c'era qualcosa per te, la tua attenzione era rivolta solo a te stesso. Ma la situazione \u00e8 cambiata quando non c'era pi\u00f9 nulla da dare.<\/p>\n<p>All'improvviso, per te ero inutile, sostituibile e messa da parte. Mi hai fatto sentire inutile perch\u00e9 ti ho lasciato decidere il mio valore.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the lesson that came with a price. I learned I should never, ever let someone decide my worth.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When you start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don\u2019t value you, you start doubting yourself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56285 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che abbraccia il suo ragazzo fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-hugging-her-boyfriend-outside-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You should always make sure you know your worth even if they don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, at the time I didn\u2019t know that, so I was left broken and without a clue to who I was.<\/p>\n<p>Sapevo che una volta ero determinata, felice e piena di vita. Ero spontanea, sempre pronta a cambiare le cose.<\/p>\n<p>What happened to that girl? My heart got me in trouble. They don\u2019t say love is blind for no reason.<\/p>\n<p>Why I couldn\u2019t see you were so controlling is beyond me. I was so naive thinking you were the one for me.<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t love me at all. You were using me. It\u2019s so painful to admit, but it is what it is.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56286 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-kissing-her-worried-girlfriedn-outside-3.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che bacia la sua ragazza preoccupata all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-kissing-her-worried-girlfriedn-outside-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-kissing-her-worried-girlfriedn-outside-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-kissing-her-worried-girlfriedn-outside-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Basta con le bugie e con il nascondere le verit\u00e0 agli altri e soprattutto a me stesso.<\/p>\n<p>The only thing I know now is that I want myself back no matter what. I\u2019m done being a victim and letting others decide my fate.&nbsp; It\u2019s time to turn over a new leaf.<\/p>\n<p>I want my passion back. I want to wake up and know exactly what I need to do. And if I can\u2019t find myself, I will create myself!<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m learning to let myself feel all the things I once suppressed. They all make me who I am.<\/p>\n<p>Sopprimere provoca solo altri danni e mi impedisce di esprimere il mio vero io.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56289 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/depressed-woman-looking-at-her-phone-4.jpg\" alt=\"donna depressa che guarda il suo telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/depressed-woman-looking-at-her-phone-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/depressed-woman-looking-at-her-phone-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/depressed-woman-looking-at-her-phone-4-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And if you\u2019re not your true self, then who are you? I refuse to be played and put down. I\u2019m enough just the way I am.&nbsp; No man can tell me otherwise, not anymore.<\/p>\n<p><em>Nessuno pu\u00f2 farvi sentire inferiori senza il vostro consenso. <\/em>D'ora in poi smetter\u00f2 di dirmi di no.<\/p>\n<p>Smetto di circondarmi di persone che mi buttano gi\u00f9. Smetto di dubitare delle mie capacit\u00e0, di parlarmi in modo negativo e di mettermi all'ultimo posto.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, comincio a lasciarmi andare alla libert\u00e0 e all'audacia. Inizio a costruire il mio percorso verso la felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>All the things that once bothered me, I welcome back. I\u2019m giving myself a chance to be who I\u2019m destined to be.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56288 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"vista laterale di una ragazza carina che guarda fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside-1-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m letting myself see my full potential. I missed myself and she\u2019s coming back, only this time she knows her worth.<\/p>\n<p>She knows what love\u2019s really about and isn\u2019t losing herself in the process. She doesn\u2019t need to change for anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Sa cosa si merita e quando le arriver\u00e0, lo riconoscer\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Da qualche parte l\u00e0 fuori c'\u00e8 un uomo che la tratter\u00e0 bene e la incoragger\u00e0 a essere quella che \u00e8.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56287 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/cheerful-couple-hugging-outside-in-nature-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia allegra che si abbraccia all&#039;aperto nella natura\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/cheerful-couple-hugging-outside-in-nature-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/cheerful-couple-hugging-outside-in-nature-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/cheerful-couple-hugging-outside-in-nature-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un uomo che sa che l'amore \u00e8 uno scambio reciproco di valori, comprensione e rispetto e che sa apprezzare la propria compagna per tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8.<\/p>\n<p>Until then, she\u2019s got herself \u2013 a beautiful and compassionate woman who chooses to love life despite everything.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s more than enough. I learned my lesson and I\u2019m grateful to finally see things as they are.<\/p>\n<p>There will always be someone who doesn\u2019t see your worth \u2013 just don\u2019t let it be you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56283 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/I-MISSED-WHO-I-WAS-BEFORE-YOU-AND-IM-GLAD-SHES-COMING-BACK-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Mi mancava la persona che ero prima di te e sono felice che stia tornando\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/I-MISSED-WHO-I-WAS-BEFORE-YOU-AND-IM-GLAD-SHES-COMING-BACK-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/I-MISSED-WHO-I-WAS-BEFORE-YOU-AND-IM-GLAD-SHES-COMING-BACK-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/I-MISSED-WHO-I-WAS-BEFORE-YOU-AND-IM-GLAD-SHES-COMING-BACK-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/I-MISSED-WHO-I-WAS-BEFORE-YOU-AND-IM-GLAD-SHES-COMING-BACK-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/I-MISSED-WHO-I-WAS-BEFORE-YOU-AND-IM-GLAD-SHES-COMING-BACK-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/I-MISSED-WHO-I-WAS-BEFORE-YOU-AND-IM-GLAD-SHES-COMING-BACK-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You came and wrecked up my life. In the end, I was left with nothing \u2013 no one I could go to, not even myself. I lost myself because of you. You got me so wrapped up in your toxic net and I didn\u2019t even notice. Every time I would put you before me, I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":56282,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56281","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/I-Missed-Who-I-Was-Before-You-And-Im-Glad-Shes-Coming-Back.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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