{"id":56375,"date":"2020-03-26T09:38:25","date_gmt":"2020-03-26T09:38:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=56375"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:57:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:57:39","slug":"sei-diventato-un-estraneo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sei-diventato-un-estraneo\/","title":{"rendered":"Eravamo cos\u00ec vicini ma all'improvviso sei diventato un estraneo e questo fa pi\u00f9 male"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ripensandoci ora, non posso fare a meno di chiedermi: c'era qualcosa di vero?<\/p>\n

Life went on as if nothing had happened and maybe it didn\u2019t. How else could I explain the fact that you became a stranger so easily?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t believe what they say about staying friends with your past lovers. Who on earth would be happy to see someone they once called theirs be with someone else?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Not many people, don\u2019t you agree? I\u2019d rather call you what you are, a estraneo<\/em>Non importa quanto faccia male.<\/p>\n

Quello che credo \u00e8 che quando si dice che l'amore \u00e8 strano<\/em>. Because it is. You never know when it\u2019s coming and worst of all, you never know how long it stays.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a certain mystery when it comes to love and now, I realize we don\u2019t choose who we love and some relationships are not destined to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I wish to believe in happily ever afters but I\u2019m not a little girl anymore.<\/p>\n

I wish this life hadn\u2019t made me forget about a love that lasts forever but it did. It\u2019s just a happy thought in the back of my mind, carefully put away with the rest of my daydreams.<\/p>\n

Il problema \u00e8 quando una persona mette sottosopra tutto ci\u00f2 che conoscevi, come un tornado, e alla fine ti lascia senza niente, confuso, ferito e solo.<\/p>\n

They make you believe they\u2019re the one and that a fairy tale love is possible. What a cruel joke.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I know for a fact that for something to work out, you need to put effort in and effort is a reflection of someone\u2019s love for you. If there\u2019s no effort, there\u2019s no love.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a simple truth with the most complicated feelings.<\/p>\n

When you love someone, you don\u2019t just give up. When you love someone, you care to understand them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando si ama qualcuno, si cerca di avvicinarlo.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how I knew you had stopped loving me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Continuavi ad allontanarti sempre di pi\u00f9. Per quanto mi sforzassi di tenerci vicini, trovavi sempre un modo per allontanarci.<\/p>\n

Il mio mondo si \u00e8 schiantato in un attimo. L'uomo che conoscevo un tempo non c'era pi\u00f9. Ho dovuto lasciarti andare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E l'ho fatto. Ho lasciato andare l'uomo che pensavo di conoscere. L'uomo che pensavo fosse quello giusto per me.<\/p>\n

Non eravamo altro che estranei con qualche ricordo.<\/em><\/p>\n

Il pensiero mi terrorizza ancora oggi.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ricordo il periodo in cui ero tutto ci\u00f2 a cui pensavi, quando mi scrivevi infinite volte. messaggi d'amore<\/span><\/a> and now, I\u2019m scared to catch your eye if we ever run into each other.<\/p>\n

Sembra quasi bizzarro quando guardo le cose che mi hai regalato sedute sullo scaffale e inizio a ricordare quei piccoli momenti che abbiamo condiviso. Momenti in cui mi conoscevi.<\/p>\n

Me lo ricordo fin troppo bene. Come mi dicevi che ero la tua persona. Di come cucinavi cene orrende di cui ridevamo.<\/p>\n

Abbiamo parlato tutta la notte delle nostre paure pi\u00f9 profonde, abbiamo guardato i nostri film preferiti.<\/p>\n

I vostri dolci abbracci nei momenti perfetti e baci sulla fronte<\/span><\/a>, tutti i Ti amo, buonanotte<\/em> e buongiorno amore<\/em>. Ora \u00e8 tutto finito.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Sometimes I wish I hadn\u2019t met you at all. You would be a stranger like you are now but I wouldn\u2019t be haunted with memories of love that had died.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not mad at you anymore. There\u2019s a part of me that believes one day I will be able to make sense of this. I hope that one day I will feel thankful for the fact that you happened to me.<\/p>\n

Until then, I wish you one last goodbye and pray that when we meet, you won\u2019t look away.<\/p>\n

\"Eravamo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Looking back at it now I cannot help but ask myself the question\u2014was any of it real? Life went on as if nothing had happened and maybe it didn\u2019t. How else could I explain the fact that you became a stranger so easily? I don\u2019t believe what they say about staying friends with your past…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":56382,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56375","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/We-Were-So-Close-But-Suddenly-You-Became-A-Stranger-And-That-Hurts-The-Most.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56375","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=56375"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56375\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/56382"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=56375"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=56375"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=56375"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}