{"id":57122,"date":"2020-04-04T07:20:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T07:20:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=57122"},"modified":"2021-11-29T21:45:08","modified_gmt":"2021-11-29T21:45:08","slug":"come-chiedere-a-una-ragazza-di-uscire-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-chiedere-a-una-ragazza-di-uscire-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Come chiedere a una ragazza un appuntamento: 13 semplici passi per il successo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Scommetto che non esiste un ragazzo su questo pianeta che non si sia mai chiesto come approcciare una ragazza che gli piace. Come ottenere il numero di una ragazza e come chiedere a una ragazza di uscire? Come si fa a trovare una ragazza<\/a>?<\/span><\/p>\n

Si possono avere tonnellate di esperienza, ma quando ci si ritrova di fronte alla <\/span>la ragazza dei tuoi sogni<\/span><\/a> che ha <\/span>tutto ci\u00f2 che serve<\/span>Tutto questo svanisce e voi diventate completamente insensibili e sprovveduti.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Or maybe you\u2019re an insecure, shy guy who hasn\u2019t had much luck with the opposite sex so far and who sees <\/span>giochi di incontri<\/span> come <\/span>scienza missilistica<\/span> ma spera di cambiare le cose?<\/span><\/p>\n

State cercando di capire <\/span>Come chiedere a una ragazza di uscire con un messaggio<\/span> o con l'aiuto di <\/span>incontri online<\/span> o vuoi farlo di persona? <\/span><\/p>\n

In ogni caso, si tratta senza dubbio di una <\/span>snervante<\/span> processo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, you\u2019ve come to the right place to get rid of your anxiety and insecurities. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ecco una guida passo passo per <\/span>come chiedere a una ragazza di uscire<\/span> per il <\/span>prima volta<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Scoprire la sua vita sentimentale<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Before you get the answer to the long-running question \u2018<\/span>Come chiedere un appuntamento a una ragazza<\/span>?\u2019 firstly, you have to know whether she\u2019s single or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you don\u2019t want to make the situation uncomfortable for both of you and ask a married or taken girl out because she\u2019ll definitely reject you. <\/span><\/p>\n

And even if she doesn\u2019t, do you really want to be someone she cheats on her boyfriend or husband with?<\/span><\/p>\n

Se si tratta di una ragazza che conoscete gi\u00e0 da tempo, curiosate tra le sue <\/span>social media<\/span> profili e cercare tracce di un partner romantico o chiedere ai vostri amici comuni di lei. <\/span>amore vita<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ricordate che una ragazza pu\u00f2 essere ufficialmente single ma ancora coinvolta emotivamente con il suo ex o essere intrappolata in una sorta di quasi relazione. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can use your detective skills to find out whether she\u2019s <\/span>emotivamente disponibile<\/span><\/a> and if she\u2019s not, I suggest you give up on her in time unless you want to deal with loads of her emotional baggage. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

However, figuring out whether a girl you see at a bar and know literally nothing about is taken or not is a little bit harder, even though it\u2019s not impossible. <\/span><\/p>\n

Prima di tutto, cercate una fede nuziale e, in secondo luogo, prestate attenzione al suo comportamento. Sta controllando te o altri ragazzi o \u00e8 guardinga e si comporta come se avesse un muro intorno a s\u00e9?<\/span><\/p>\n

In fin dei conti, se nessuna di queste strategie funziona, non c'\u00e8 nulla di male nel chiederle direttamente se <\/span>she\u2019s single<\/span><\/a> e disponibile. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if a girl is taken, she\u2019ll admire the way you respect her before making a move and if not, better for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Lavorare sulla fiducia in se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Tutti <\/span>consigli per gli incontri<\/span><\/a> will tell you one thing\u2014you could be the best-looking guy in the world, <\/span><\/p>\n

Have a smoking hot body and an amazing personality to go with it but if you get all nervous and shaky when you\u2019re about to approach a girl, <\/span><\/p>\n

The chances that you\u2019ll actually get her number or that she\u2019ll agree to going out with you are low. <\/span><\/p>\n

Che piaccia o meno ammetterlo e che alla maggior parte degli uomini piaccia o meno sentirlo, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la maggior parte delle donne \u00e8 attratta da uomini che si comportano come se fossero i padroni della stanza. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why players get the most luck\u2014because they\u2019ve hit on girls a million times and they have the confidence that they\u2019ll succeed with one as well. <\/span><\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should jump from one girl to another to become more attractive to the opposite sex. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 necessario <\/span>lavorare sulla propria autostima<\/span><\/a> se volete che pi\u00f9 donne si innamorino di voi. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Act like you know what and who you want and show her that you\u2019re not afraid to get it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t think of yourself as the perfect man, pretend that you do and I assure you that she\u2019ll believe you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember\u2014there are no such things as different leagues when it comes to dating. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t devalue yourself by not wanting to approach a girl you think is better than you and trust me that you can knock any woman off her feet if you\u2019re just confident enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you think lowly of yourself, she will share your opinion. However, if you\u2019re convinced that you have a lot to offer, you\u2019ll send a positive <\/span>vibrazione<\/span> and she\u2019ll like you before she even gets to know you. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Aspettare il momento giusto<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you plan to <\/span>mandare un messaggio a una ragazza<\/span> di chiederle di uscire, sia che tu voglia farlo tramite <\/span>Tinder<\/span> o qualche altro <\/span>app per incontri<\/span> o volete farlo di persona; <\/span><\/p>\n

In ogni scenario possibile, dovete trovare il momento perfetto per farlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

If this is a girl you\u2019ve been talking to for a while, you won\u2019t suggest your <\/span>primo appuntamento<\/span><\/a> if you know that she\u2019s in the middle of a family emergency, if she\u2019s overloaded with work or if she has exams. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if we\u2019re talking about a girl you saw in public and know nothing about her, don\u2019t ask her out while she\u2019s in the middle of a conversation or while she\u2019s super busy. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, there is a huge difference between someone you see on a regular basis and a girl you suppose you won\u2019t meet ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If we\u2019re talking about a woman you\u2019ll run into very soon, you have enough time to wait for the perfect moment and to observe the situation carefully before making a move. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you see this as your only chance and have no idea whether you\u2019ll see this girl who charmed you ever again, be brave and go for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ask her out even if she\u2019s in the middle of something or if she\u2019s surrounded by her <\/span>buoni amici<\/span> o della famiglia; dopo tutto, non avete nulla da perdere.<\/span><\/p>\n

Another important thing is to pay more attention to this girl\u2019s mood. <\/span><\/p>\n

If she\u2019s angry, cranky or about to cry, maybe it would be best to leave her alone and wait for another opportunity. <\/span><\/p>\n

In questo caso, \u00e8 probabile che ti rifiuti senza nemmeno degnarti di uno sguardo. \u00c8 chiaro che sta affrontando dei problemi e l'ultima cosa che vuole \u00e8 qualcuno che ci provi con lei. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pertanto, sarebbe perfetto se poteste aspettare che sia di buon umore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Osservate se ha un sorriso sul viso e se sembra felice in generale. In questo modo, avrete pi\u00f9 possibilit\u00e0 che vi dica di s\u00ec. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Apparire al meglio<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You see, girls are quite different from guys when it comes to physical appearance. They\u2019re not obsessed with abs the way men are with boobs or ass. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basically, you don\u2019t have to look like a fitness model to get a girl\u2019s attention (or trovare una ragazza<\/a>) perch\u00e9 il vostro corpo \u00e8 probabilmente l'ultima cosa a cui pensa. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, just because nobody is asking you to be perfect, it doesn\u2019t mean that you can let loose completely and disregard your appearance altogether. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even though most girls won\u2019t be fascinated by your abs or toned shoulders, the truth is that they\u2019re also human beings and can\u2019t help but notice whether you\u2019re attractive or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re just about to approach this girl and you still haven\u2019t had a chance to <\/span>fare colpo su di lei<\/span><\/a> con la vostra personalit\u00e0, quindi il vostro aspetto \u00e8 l'unica cosa che pu\u00f2 spingerla verso di voi. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Pertanto, andare in palestra o praticare qualche tipo di attivit\u00e0 fisica \u00e8 sempre un vantaggio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Oltre ad aiutarvi a conquistare pi\u00f9 ragazze, l'esercizio fisico vi far\u00e0 sentire meglio e pi\u00f9 sicure di voi stesse. <\/span><\/p>\n

Another thing is your clothes. You don\u2019t have to be dressed like you\u2019ve just gotten off a runway but you won\u2019t be wearing shorts or sweatpants in a crowded club on a Saturday night, will you now?<\/span><\/p>\n

The point is to be dressed for the occasion and not to look like you\u2019ve put on the first thing that you found in your closet. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se avete dubbi su cosa indossare, <\/span>Mantenere la semplicit\u00e0<\/span>; wear jeans and neutral-colored shirts and you\u2019re good to go. <\/span><\/p>\n

Inoltre, prestate attenzione alla vostra igiene personale. <\/span><\/p>\n

Make sure you smell good at all times but don\u2019t use too much cologne because you don\u2019t want to make everyone around you noxious. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Inviarle segnali di apprezzamento<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Prima di intraprendere un'azione concreta, sarebbe bello se poteste <\/span>flirt<\/span> con la ragazza che ti piace. Il tuo <\/span>civettuolo<\/span> behavior will prepare her for what\u2019s coming next and you\u2019ll help yourself relax more. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you send a girl you\u2019re into the right amount and type of signals, half of your job is already done. <\/span><\/p>\n

In questo modo, sar\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 facile per voi avvicinarvi a lei e sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 probabile che lei dica di s\u00ec alla vostra proposta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ci sono situazioni nella vita in cui <\/span>gesti non verbali<\/span><\/a> dicono pi\u00f9 delle parole vere e proprie e il flirt \u00e8 una di queste. <\/span><\/p>\n

Iniziate con l'informarvi su di lei. Cercate di fare un'analisi approfondita <\/span>contatto visivo<\/span> and stare directly at her as this is a universal sign that says. \u201cI like you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look away when she stares back at you. Instead, continue maintaining <\/span>contatto visivo<\/span><\/a> e continuare a sedurla. <\/span><\/p>\n

Smile every time you see her and make sure she realizes she\u2019s the reason for your good mood. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se avete un qualche tipo di comunicazione o frequentate lo stesso gruppo di <\/span>buoni amici<\/span>iniziare un contatto fisico. <\/span><\/p>\n

For example, \u2018accidentally\u2019 touch her every time you have the chance to; put your hand on her waist, <\/span><\/p>\n

Touch her shoulder when you\u2019re making a point or grab her hand when you\u2019re in the middle of a conversation. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sit next to her every time you are together, whisper as close as possible to her ear while you\u2019re talking and never forget to hug her or kiss her on the cheek when you two greet or say goodbye. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Controllare il suo feedback<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It would be great if you could accomplish what you want just by sending your non-verbal signals to the girl you\u2019re into. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, sadly, for most men, things don\u2019t actually work in that simple manner.<\/span><\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, you have to follow this girl\u2019s feedback and her <\/span>segni del linguaggio del corpo<\/span><\/a> prima di procedere con qualsiasi azione. <\/span><\/p>\n

The last thing you want is for her to think of you as a creep she can\u2019t get rid of. <\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, it is crucial to respect everyone\u2019s boundaries and personal space. <\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, you won\u2019t continue \u2018accidentally\u2019 touching her if you see that she is moving away every time you approach.<\/span><\/p>\n

La prima cosa a cui prestare attenzione \u00e8 <\/span>contatto visivo<\/span>. La donna ricambia lo sguardo o distoglie l'attenzione?<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be discouraged even if the latter happens; maybe she is just shy and doesn\u2019t want you to notice right away that she is interested. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 possibile che vi stia stuzzicando o che stia facendo il difficile, quindi non \u00e8 assolutamente il caso di arrendersi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sorride involontariamente quando entrate nella stanza? I suoi amici parlano con voi, cercando di saperne di pi\u00f9 sui vostri interessi e sulla vostra situazione sentimentale? <\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Does she bite her lip when she\u2019s talking to you? Or does she roll her eyes every time she sees you nearby?<\/span><\/p>\n

Ride alle vostre battute sciocche? Ti tocca la mano o la spalla quando dici qualcosa di divertente?<\/span><\/p>\n

Sta flirtando o si sta sforzando di <\/span>flirt<\/span> indietro? Tutti questi sono <\/span>buoni segnali<\/span> that she likes you back and that it’s safe for you to make a move. <\/span><\/p>\n

Queste sono tutte le domande che dovete porvi prima di muovervi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Anche se le risposte sono per lo pi\u00f9 negative, non sono automaticamente segnali che vi invitano a tirarvi indietro; forse la ragazza di vostro interesse ha solo bisogno di pi\u00f9 tempo per rilassarsi prima di accettare di uscire con voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re getting <\/span>segnali contrastanti<\/span><\/a> and don\u2019t know what to think regarding this girl\u2019s feelings for you, just rely on your intuition. <\/span><\/p>\n

Try to be realistic but every time you\u2019re in doubt, follow your gut and I can assure you that you won\u2019t be mistaken. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Plan what you\u2019ll say<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

The number one mistake a lot of dudes make when they\u2019re trying to ask a girl on a date is that they get too nervous. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, this is something you can\u2019t control and as much as you try, you can\u2019t help but get tongue-tied, have sweaty palms and let your insecurities get the best of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, this is a girl you\u2019re into and the last thing you want is her rejecting you. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, even if you don\u2019t like her that much, you\u2019re scared that you\u2019ll get embarrassed and that she\u2019ll ruin your self-esteem. <\/span><\/p>\n

In order to avoid all of this from happening and for you to display more confident behavior, the trick is to plan ahead what you\u2019ll say. <\/span><\/p>\n

Naturally, you can never know what her responses will be so you can\u2019t memorize every line by heart, nor can you predict the outcome of the entire situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, potete pensare alle cose che volete dire. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cosa <\/span>frasi per rimorchiare<\/span><\/a> che userete? Quando le farete un complimento, vi concentrerete sul suo aspetto o sulla sua personalit\u00e0?<\/span><\/p>\n

Le chiederai subito un appuntamento o proverai prima a comunicare? <\/span><\/p>\n

Sceglierete un approccio pi\u00f9 serio o romperete il ghiaccio con qualche battuta?<\/span><\/p>\n

Preparate un piano d'azione e, se necessario, scrivete tutte le fasi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Potete anche consultarvi con i vostri amici su questo argomento; chiedete un consiglio ai vostri amici maschi e un feedback alle vostre amiche femmine. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fin dei conti, se avete poca esperienza quando si tratta di provarci con le donne, fate pratica prima di passare all'affare vero e proprio. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not telling you to lead on some innocent girls and use them as your tools <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma non ci sar\u00e0 nulla di male nell'iniziare una conversazione con qualcuno del sesso opposto di tanto in tanto, solo per aiutarvi a rilassarvi. <\/span><\/p>\n

8. Pianificare un'attivit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re asking a girl out, you have to show initiative and decisiveness and the best way to accomplish that is to invite her to a specific activity rather than vaguely propose a <\/span>primo appuntamento<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se si tratta di una donna con cui avete gi\u00e0 avuto un qualche tipo di contatto, impegnatevi a indagare sulle cose che questo <\/span>alla ragazza piace<\/span> facendo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Andate a fondo dei suoi interessi e proponete un'idea di <\/span>idea per il primo appuntamento<\/span><\/a> di conseguenza.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t tell her that you\u2019ve been stalking her. Instead, you\u2019ll make it all look like a coincidence.<\/span><\/p>\n

This way, she\u2019ll think that you like the same things she does and she\u2019ll be more than happy that she found someone so similar and compatible with her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, invece di chiederle se vuole uscire con te, accenna casualmente al fatto che, ad esempio, hai i biglietti per un concerto della sua band preferita e chiedile se vuole unirsi a te. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, make sure she realizes it\u2019s a date and not just a friendly get-together. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Un'altra cosa a cui prestare attenzione nel vostro <\/span>primo appuntamento<\/span> \u00e8 evitare di complicare troppo le cose. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mantenere la semplicit\u00e0<\/span> e questo vi dar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 possibilit\u00e0 che lei dica di s\u00ec. <\/span><\/p>\n

Evitate cose come viaggi in macchina (perch\u00e9 potrebbe sentirsi a disagio a viaggiare con qualcuno che ha appena conosciuto), luoghi troppo avventurosi (perch\u00e9 potrebbe semplicemente non essere interessata a questo genere di cose), <\/span><\/p>\n

Andare in piscina (probabilmente non vuole che la vediate subito in costume da bagno o senza trucco) <\/span><\/p>\n

Or activities which include spending the night (she\u2019ll reject you because she\u2019ll think you expect her to sleep with you). <\/span><\/p>\n

Ricordate che l'obiettivo finale di questo appuntamento \u00e8 che voi due possiate <\/span>conoscersi meglio<\/span><\/a> e di avere la possibilit\u00e0 di parlare, quindi invitarla in un locale rumoroso non \u00e8 la strada giusta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Invece, un semplice pranzo, una cena o un drink saranno pi\u00f9 che sufficienti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Make a plan but don\u2019t stick to it too firmly. The point is for her to like you for you, not because of an amazing, expensive date idea you have figured out. <\/span><\/p>\n

The same applies if we\u2019re talking about a girl you have no clue about. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, in this scenario, you can\u2019t surprise her by proposing something you know she\u2019ll like but keeping things as casual as possible is always the rule. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, when you\u2019re suggesting a date, don\u2019t ask her to go out with you late at night unless you want her to think she\u2019s nothing but a booty call. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ogni ragazza vi prender\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 sul serio se proponete un appuntamento a un'ora ragionevole. <\/span><\/p>\n

9. Avviare una conversazione<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Molti ragazzi commettono l'errore di invitare una ragazza a un appuntamento all'improvviso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si avvicinano a una ragazza in un bar, si presentano e procedono direttamente a chiedere il numero e a chiedere di uscire.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anche se questo <\/span>approccio a freddo<\/span><\/a> \u00e8 audace, purtroppo, \u00e8 improbabile che funzioni, non importa quanto siate sexy e nonostante la <\/span>linea di rimorchio<\/span> si potrebbe utilizzare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Le ragazze vengono continuamente molestate dai ragazzi. Per questo motivo, la maggior parte di loro ha sviluppato una sorta di meccanismo di difesa che le aiuta a difendersi da diversi tipi di maniaci. <\/span><\/p>\n

Consequently, almost every girl\u2019s first reaction is to tell you no. <\/span><\/p>\n

She\u2019ll reject you before she even gives you a chance and before she even takes a good look at you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, you\u2019re a stranger and it is completely natural for this girl to be scared of going out with someone she knows nothing about. <\/span><\/p>\n

This might sound silly to you but trust me\u2014women have different perspectives on these things since they have faced many uncomfortable situations.<\/span><\/p>\n

Knowing all of this, you should realize why it\u2019s important to find a way to start a conversation with this girl before asking her out. <\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014as soon as you approach her, she\u2019ll be aware of your intentions but she\u2019ll find your efforts cute and your conversation will help her relax. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Il tuo <\/span>spunti di conversazione<\/span> dipender\u00e0 dalla situazione; se ci si trova in una <\/span>caffetteria<\/span> o bar, potete offrirle da bere, <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are at a gym, you can compliment her workout routine and if you\u2019re at a club, you can ask her for a dance. <\/span><\/p>\n

In entrambi i casi, la cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 usare il proprio fascino e <\/span>senso dell'umorismo<\/span> a vostro vantaggio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Procedere con alcune tipiche  <\/span>chiacchiere<\/span>Provate a presentarvi a un livello pi\u00f9 profondo del semplice nome e dell'et\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

Finally, when you\u2019re about to part ways, if you see that she is digging your story, ask for her <\/span>numero di telefono<\/span> o proporre di incontrarsi il giorno successivo. <\/span><\/p>\n

 10. Agire<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Some girls need time before agreeing to date a guy, no matter how much they like him, Even though you shouldn\u2019t be too pushy, waiting for too long will get you nowhere either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t beat around the bush and as soon as you see that she is into you, go for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tutti <\/span>consigli per gli incontri<\/span> vi dir\u00e0 di <\/span>agire<\/span>essere diretti e senza paura, a meno che non si voglia finire intrappolati nella <\/span>friendzone<\/span><\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 importante di questa fase \u00e8 che la ragazza capisca che le state chiedendo un vero appuntamento.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going out with a bunch of other people, you\u2019re not using her to kill time and you\u2019re not about to hang out for the sake of hanging out or because you want to be friends\u2014<\/span><\/p>\n

you\u2019re asking her out because you like her and it is your job to make this clear. <\/span><\/p>\n

11. Don\u2019t make a big deal about it<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Okay, so you\u2019re super excited about going out with this girl. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t beat yourself up about this because that\u2019s cute and perfectly normal when it comes to someone you like.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, she shouldn\u2019t notice that this is <\/span>scienza missilistica<\/span> per voi. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, it\u2019s your job to make her think that you\u2019re just casually bringing this date up and that you haven\u2019t spent hours or day and night thinking things through and planning ahead your every move.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedete, anche se dicono di volere ragazzi che diano loro tutte le attenzioni del mondo, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la situazione \u00e8 ben diversa quando si tratta della maggior parte delle ragazze di oggi.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I\u2019m not saying that you should ignore them or play mind games to become more desirable but being too needy or desperate is also not the way to go. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you show this girl that she is so important to you, you\u2019ll scare her off. She\u2019ll be afraid that she won\u2019t be able to meet your expectations and she\u2019ll back out before she even gives it a try. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dimenticatevi di inviarle <\/span>lettere<\/span><\/a> o lunghi paragrafi di messaggi di testo. Dimenticatevi di decine di rose, palloncini o altri gesti romantici. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that you want to leave a good impression and be a gentleman (after all, that is what all girls theoretically ask for, isn\u2019t it?) but trust me\u2014being too formal will only cause a counterproductive effect. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fate invece del vostro meglio per togliere la pressione al vostro potenziale accompagnatore e fate in modo che la vostra proposta risulti il pi\u00f9 naturale e rilassata possibile. <\/span><\/p>\n

12. Parlare con lei in privato<\/h2>\n

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Secondo la maggior parte <\/span>consigli per gli incontri<\/span><\/a>, one of the worst mistakes you could make when asking a girl out is doing so while you\u2019re both surrounded by people. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 imbarazzante, provoca tensioni e pu\u00f2 rendere l'intera situazione ancora pi\u00f9 disordinata. <\/span><\/p>\n

First of all, you\u2019ll make her feel uncomfortable. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never know whether she said yes because she didn\u2019t want to embarrass you in front of your friends or she rejected you because she wanted to appear cool in front of hers.<\/span><\/p>\n

Inoltre, in questo modo \u00e8 pi\u00f9 probabile che si perda la concentrazione. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to perform well in front of her only but also in front of a bunch of other people, which will probably make you forget everything you planned ahead. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se ti rifiuta quando siete soli, le cose saranno meno imbarazzanti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, se lo fa di fronte ad altri, potreste finire per sentirvi umiliati, con la vostra autostima rovinata. <\/span><\/p>\n

Also, another argument in favor of asking a girl out in private is your manners. It is rude to interrupt someone else\u2019s conversation. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is especially the case if she\u2019s out with her girlfriends.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Maybe they decided to have a night for themselves and agreed on ignoring every guy who approaches them, which means you don\u2019t stand a chance right from the start.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pertanto, chiedere a una ragazza di uscire in privato \u00e8, senza dubbio, la cosa da fare se si vuole ottenere una risposta positiva. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, this is more easily done if she is someone you keep on running into but it can be done even if we\u2019re talking about a girl you are scared of never seeing again. <\/span><\/p>\n

In questo caso, aspettate che si diriga verso la toilette o dite al cameriere di mandarle da bere e di chiederle se vi va bene avvicinarvi. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t get your opportunity, wait for her to be headed home and make your move there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just tell her that you\u2019ve been looking at her all night, that she is gorgeous and that you would like to stay in touch. <\/span><\/p>\n

Puoi lasciarle il tuo<\/span> numero di telefono<\/span> o chiedere il suo. <\/span><\/p>\n

13. Accettare la sua risposta con dignit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

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I\u2019ll be honest with you here\u2014when you\u2019re figuring out how to ask a girl out, you can go by the book, <\/span><\/p>\n

follow all the rules and steps but still don\u2019t get a chance with the girl of your interest. <\/span><\/p>\n

There is no perfect recipe for asking a girl out, nor can anyone guarantee with certainty that you\u2019ll succeed and that everything will go as planned. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, anche se ti rifiuta, devi accettarlo con dignit\u00e0.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember that it\u2019s her right; maybe she is interested in so<\/span>meone else, maybe she still hasn\u2019t recovered from her past relationship or hopes to get her ex back,<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe she enjoys her single life and doesn\u2019t want to get into the <\/span>gioco di incontri<\/span><\/a>es<\/span><\/a> or maybe she simply doesn\u2019t like you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tough break, I know. Nevertheless, don\u2019t take it to<\/span>o personally and remember it\u2019s not the end of the world.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'ultima cosa che dovreste pensare di fare \u00e8 chiamare questa ragazza con dei nomi, insultarla o cercare di metterla in difficolt\u00e0, soprattutto se vi ha rifiutato educatamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if she was rude, it\u2019s your job to walk away because her b<\/span>comportamento dice qualcosa di lei.<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, at least you\u2019ll know you\u2019ve tried. You\u2019ve managed to win over your fear and insecurities and you\u2019ve put yourself out there. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve given your best and that is much better than not giving it a shot at all. She just decided not to give you a chance and that has nothing to do with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Anzi, potete considerarla un'esperienza preziosa e un tipo di lavoro pratico che vi torner\u00e0 utile in futuro, con altre ragazze che sicuramente vi daranno una risposta positiva. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t lose hope. <\/span><\/p>\n

When we advised you to take this girl\u2019s answer with dignity, we meant you should do the same if she decides to go out with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ricordate che abbiamo detto di non fare un <\/span>grande affare<\/span> su tutto? <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, it is okay if you smile and show her that you\u2019re glad about getting a chance. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, you shouldn\u2019t jump around and start acting like this is the only time you\u2019ve managed to persuade a girl to go out on a date with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se inizia a pensare di aver realizzato i vostri sogni dandovi un semplice s\u00ec, le dar\u00e0 molto potere su di voi e non \u00e8 quello che volete fin dall'inizio. <\/span><\/p>\n

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