{"id":57564,"date":"2020-03-30T10:28:46","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T10:28:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=57564"},"modified":"2022-02-23T00:30:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T00:30:11","slug":"decidete-di-guarire-la-vostra-anima-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/decidete-di-guarire-la-vostra-anima-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Dovete prendere la decisione di guarire la vostra anima anche se questo fa male al vostro cuore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pensavate di aver trovato il vostro amore per sempre. Era l'unico uomo che avessi mai amato.<\/p>\n<p>Il vostro amore per lui era puro e profondo come un oceano. I tuoi sentimenti erano sinceri e forti.<\/p>\n<p>You thought that your love was one of a kind and that you wouldn\u2019t love anyone as much as you loved him.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, you couldn&#8217;t see the other side of that love story. Your love made you blind.<\/p>\n<p>Hai chiuso un occhio sui suoi difetti fatali e sul fatto che era sbagliato per te.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57568 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna con i capelli scuri in piedi all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-with-dark-hair-standing-outside-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>In realt\u00e0, vi siete innamorati della versione di lui che avete creato nella vostra testa. La realt\u00e0 era cos\u00ec diversa, incasinata e cattiva.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After some time, you realized that your honest love didn&#8217;t let you see the real him, the man who took your love for granted.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/quando-il-tuo-uomo-non-ti-apprezza-merita-di-perdere\/\">The man who didn&#8217;t deserve you<\/a>. The man who wouldn&#8217;t shed a single tear for you.&nbsp; The man who only used your naivety and your sincere love.<\/p>\n<p>Avete sempre trovato delle scuse per il suo comportamento. Giustificavate qualsiasi cosa vi facesse perch\u00e9 pensavate che avesse solo una brutta giornata.<\/p>\n<p>Avevi paura di dire ci\u00f2 che ti infastidiva perch\u00e9 lui ti faceva credere che la tua opinione fosse sbagliata.<\/p>\n<p>You didn&#8217;t want to stand up to his criticism or to ask him for things you needed because you were afraid of his rejection or that he\u2019d leave you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57569 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che si abbraccia nella natura\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You hoped that he\u2019d change. You prayed every day for that moment to happen. And it never did. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You should know that you can&#8217;t change a man who never wanted to change.<\/p>\n<p>Your soul was exhausted. The damage that his so-called \u2018love\u2019 left on your soul was almost irreparable.<\/p>\n<p>Cap\u00ec subito che guarire da tutto ci\u00f2 sarebbe stato uno dei compiti pi\u00f9 difficili da svolgere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your only mistake was believing in love that didn&#8217;t exist.<\/strong> Oh, mi dispiace, esisteva, ma solo dalla vostra parte.<\/p>\n<p>E questo lo rende ancora peggiore. Un amore unilaterale \u00e8 il dolore pi\u00f9 grande che una persona possa provare.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57570 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia in riva al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-standing-by-the-lake-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>One day, you woke up and finally realized that he wasn&#8217;t worth it and it made you feel ready for everything that was coming.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/la-donna-tradita-deve-andare-avanti\/\">Il suo tradimento \u00e8 stato la goccia che ha fatto traboccare il vaso<\/a> the camel&#8217;s back. You decided that it was enough, you couldn&#8217;t put up with him anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Ha rovinato la vostra autostima. Quando lo hai lasciato, hai capito che non c'era pi\u00f9 nessuno a ostacolarti.<\/p>\n<p>Volevate lavorare su voi stessi. Dimostrare il tuo valore a te stesso e al resto del mondo.<\/p>\n<p>Siete giunti alla conclusione che l'amore non \u00e8 sufficiente, soprattutto se \u00e8 unilaterale. Una relazione sana ha bisogno di molto pi\u00f9 dell'amore.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 necessario nutrirlo ogni giorno per farlo durare.  Ha bisogno di tutto ci\u00f2 che l'uomo non \u00e8 mai stato in grado di darle.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57571 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che guarda pensierosa e guarda fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-look-thoughtful-and-looking-outside-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>In order to find true happiness, you had to make the right decision\u2014to let go. Let go of him and move the hell on.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I won&#8217;t lie to you. It always hurts. Your heart will now be broken into pieces.<\/p>\n<p>Penserete di non poter mai <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/guarire-completamente-accogliendo-il-pensiero-consapevole-e-il-riposo\/\">guarire completamente<\/a> o essere in grado di trovare un nuovo amore.<\/p>\n<p>Leaving him was one of the most courageous decisions you\u2019ll ever make. Believe me and don&#8217;t give up.<\/p>\n<p>You will collect all the broken pieces of your heart and glue them together again. You&#8217;ll gather the strength to move on.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll survive and it will all be just one bad dream for you. A dream you left where it belongs\u2014in the past.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57572 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta in riva al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vi porrete nuovi obiettivi e sogni. E ogni giorno lavorerete per realizzarli e per essere una versione migliore di voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Datevi il tempo di guarire. Incontrerai la persona che ti amer\u00e0 come meriti. Come tu hai amato lui.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cercate di trovare la forza nel vostro dolore. Cercate di rimettervi insieme e scoprirete di essere pi\u00f9 forti di prima.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He was meant to be a part of your journey but obviously, he wasn&#8217;t meant to stay until the end.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time for you to be happy again and that&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/e-ora-che-io-chiuda-finalmente-il-capitolo-di-te-e-vada-avanti\/\">perch\u00e9 \u00e8 necessario andare avanti<\/a>. Close that chapter.&nbsp; Don&#8217;t let one bad experience make you afraid to live your life.<\/p>\n<p>God sends us some people as a blessing to our life but he also sends us some people to teach us a lesson.&nbsp; He was your lesson BUT you&#8217;ll find your blessing one day.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-57574 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Dovete prendere la decisione di guarire la vostra anima anche se questo fa male al vostro cuore\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/YOU-HAVE-TO-MAKE-A-DECISION-TO-HEAL-YOUR-SOUL-EVEN-IF-IT-HURTS-YOUR-HEART-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You thought that you\u2019d found your forever love. He was the only man you ever loved. Your love for him was pure and deep like an ocean itself. Your feelings were sincere and strong. You thought that your love was one of a kind and that you wouldn\u2019t love anyone as much as you loved&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":57573,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-57564","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/You-Have-To-Make-A-Decision-To-Heal-Your-Soul-Even-If-It-Hurts-Your-Heart.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57564","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=57564"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57564\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/57573"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=57564"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=57564"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=57564"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}