{"id":5774,"date":"2020-06-15T12:59:30","date_gmt":"2020-06-15T12:59:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5774"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:22:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:22:57","slug":"il-ragazzo-delle-lettere-ha-imbrogliato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-ragazzo-delle-lettere-ha-imbrogliato\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera al ragazzo che mi ha tradito"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro \"amore della mia vita\",<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Scrivo questa lettera per un gran numero di motivi. In primo luogo, la scrivo perch\u00e9 voglio finalmente lasciar andare il dolore che ho dentro.<\/p>\n

Secondly, I am writing it because I want you to have a piece of paper that will be a reminder of all that nasty things you did to me\u2014and we both know that there were many of them.<\/p>\n

Vedete, ho sempre sognato di sposare un solo uomo e che questo sar\u00e0 per sempre.<\/a> I thought to myself that I will experience the kind of love that feels like home\u2014pure, innocent and lovely.<\/p>\n

Avevo dei progetti per la nostra vita. Ho immaginato i nostri figli che correvano per casa mentre tu li inseguivi.<\/p>\n

I imagined our Christmases spent together while we are watching movies under the blanket and drinking hot chocolate. You know, I dreamed about a lot of things\u2014beautiful ones.<\/p>\n

Ma un giorno, all'improvviso, ho scoperto che mi hai tradito.<\/a> Ricordo ancora il giorno in cui sei tornato a casa e hai ammesso che c'era qualcun altro nella tua vita.<\/p>\n

Qualcuno che ti fa battere il cuore pi\u00f9 velocemente. Qualcuno che ti fa smettere di respirare per un secondo. Qualcuno che rappresenta la realizzazione di tutti i tuoi sogni.<\/p>\n

And it was too bad that woman wasn\u2019t me. After you told me everything about her, I thought that you were kidding with me. I thought that you just wanted to see my reaction. But you were dead serious.<\/p>\n

E dal tuo sguardo ho capito che era finita. Tutto quello che avevamo costruito in tutti quegli anni era finito. Ogni sogno, ogni speranza, ogni aspirazione. Era tutto inutile.<\/p>\n

E io?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I just stood there, completely broken, staring at the wall in front of me. I was trying to say something but there wasn\u2019t anything clever coming out of my mouth.<\/p>\n

So, I just left. I packed my bags without a word and I left you. I felt like an injured wolf who needs to be alone to heal his wounds. My ego was shaken. My whole world was falling apart and I didn\u2019t have any common sense.<\/p>\n

\"borsa<\/p>\n

Quel giorno ho passato tanto tempo a pensare a te e alla nostra vita insieme. Ero cos\u00ec arrabbiata con te perch\u00e9 hai preferito lei a me.<\/a> Spero solo che ne valga la pena.<\/p>\n

I hope she is worth all my pain and my tears. And I hope that you will be able to develop a normal and stable relationship with her. Maybe you didn\u2019t love me enough.<\/p>\n

Maybe our relationship already died but we weren\u2019t aware of that fact. Maybe we let our happiness slip away. And just maybe we didn\u2019t put enough effort into our story.<\/p>\n

When I look back, I don\u2019t regret anything. I am a strong woman and I can deal with my pain. Honestly, \u00e8 molto meglio che tu mi abbia lasciato<\/a>, but I would prefer that you hadn\u2019t cheated on me.<\/p>\n

I think I deserved that after all those years we spent together. Unfortunately, you did it on your own. You were selfish and you weren\u2019t thinking about me. What else could I have expected from a man like you?<\/p>\n

You broke me and you didn\u2019t even ask me if I needed any help. We could have talked about it like adults. You could have been sincere with me.<\/p>\n

You could have told me that you don\u2019t feel anything for me and that you want to be with someone else. But you didn\u2019t. And that is breaking my heart.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t just cheat on me, you cheated on us. You didn\u2019t just break my heart, you broke our future. And that is something I will never forgive you.<\/p>\n

And in the end, I have a message for you: \u201cYou can continue cheating yourself, but ME, never again!\u201d<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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