Being in an abusive relationship means that somebody next to you is taking advantage of you. Somebody next to you has a personality disorder. Somebody next to you is toxic and is actually so good at being toxic that you don\u2019t even notice it.<\/p>\n
Per capire qual \u00e8 la vostra posizione nella relazione, dovete pensare a come vi fa sentire quella persona. Pensate a quanto siete felici e a quando \u00e8 stata l'ultima volta che avete avuto la libert\u00e0 di fare qualcosa solo per voi stessi. Pensate a quando \u00e8 stata l'ultima volta che vi \u00e8 stato permesso di dare priorit\u00e0 a voi stessi.<\/p>\n
If you had to ask somebody to allow you to put yourself first\u2014your relationship isn\u2019t healthy. If you haven\u2019t been happy in a long time and your partner seems not to care or is fine with it, there is something wrong going on. If your confidence has lowered while you were in a relationship, if you feel insecure about yourself, if your partner is happy to see you miserable or is emotionally manipulating you into doing something for him and making you give up on yourself, I hate to break it to you, you have been part of an abusive relationship for longer than you\u2019d like to admit.<\/p>\n
2. Educare se stessi<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\nOnce you\u2019ve cared enough to take care of yourself and you\u2019ve let the reality of being part of an abusive relationship sink in, you\u2019re going to need to have all the information in order to proceed according to your situation.<\/p>\n
Esistono diverse forme di abuso, esistono diverse classificazioni di chi abusa e c'\u00e8 sempre qualcosa che si pu\u00f2 fare. Utilizzate tutte le risorse a vostra disposizione per scoprire quanto pi\u00f9 possibile su ci\u00f2 che vi \u00e8 accaduto. Scoprite con cosa avete a che fare e agite di conseguenza.<\/p>\n
3. Svegliarsi<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\nOnce you know what you\u2019ve been a part of, don\u2019t trick yourself into thinking that you can just continue to have that kind of relationship or that everything is going to be fine if you just give it time. Because it won\u2019t.<\/p>\n
You need to wake up and for once in life, put yourself first because your abusive partner isn\u2019t going to do that. You need to get your life back into your hands and do whatever you were brought to this world to do\u2014and I can bet it wasn\u2019t to be somebody\u2019s victim or a good soul that some parasite could feed on.<\/p>\n
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4. Creare confini<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\nPutting your walls up is definitely something unhealthy, but having no boundaries at all means you are a well that anybody can drink from, and people will take advantage of it. People will drink your soul dry if you don\u2019t set up some borders.<\/p>\n
Once you know what you\u2019ve been a part of, don\u2019t trick yourself into thinking that you can just continue to have that kind of relationship or that everything is going to be fine if you just give it time. Because it won\u2019t.<\/p>\n
You need to wake up and for once in life, put yourself first because your abusive partner isn\u2019t going to do that. You need to get your life back into your hands and do whatever you were brought to this world to do\u2014and I can bet it wasn\u2019t to be somebody\u2019s victim or a good soul that some parasite could feed on.<\/p>\n
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