{"id":5781,"date":"2020-11-11T13:11:17","date_gmt":"2020-11-11T13:11:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5781"},"modified":"2024-10-24T12:28:29","modified_gmt":"2024-10-24T10:28:29","slug":"non-sono-la-donna-che-ero-lanno-scorso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-sono-la-donna-che-ero-lanno-scorso\/","title":{"rendered":"Non sono la donna che ero l'anno scorso e va pi\u00f9 che bene cos\u00ec"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c8 strano come i giorni passino e non cambi nulla.<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly you turn around, the year passes and everything seems different. Those are all subtle changes, so you can\u2019t even feel them.<\/p>\n<p>Il tempo passa, ci si guarda indietro e non si \u00e8 pi\u00f9 la stessa persona di ieri.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s more than okay. You are not supposed to be the same. You are supposed to evolve.<\/p>\n<p>Lavorare su se stessi, non essere stagnanti e testardi. Se si \u00e8 cos\u00ec, le cose non cambieranno mai.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.realsimple.com\/work-life\/life-strategies\/ways-to-embrace-change\" rel=\"noopener\">Embrace the change\u2014the good and the bad<\/a>. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Quando vi guarderete indietro, vi renderete conto che tutto \u00e8 accaduto proprio come doveva accadere.<\/p>\n<p><i>Things always get worse until they get better. We know that in theory, but in practice, it\u2019s harder to accept.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113694\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-out-of-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa che guarda fuori dalla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-out-of-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-out-of-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-out-of-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-out-of-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-out-of-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-out-of-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-out-of-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/pensive-woman-looking-out-of-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As the time passes unnoticed, it makes slight changes, andall those things that you thought were holding you down finally left you\u2014when you thought there was no way out and the road appeared.<\/p>\n<p>Tutti noi impariamo costantemente in questa vita. C'\u00e8 una vera bellezza in questo.<\/p>\n<p>La cosa che ho imparato e che mi ha aiutato di pi\u00f9 \u00e8 stata quella di esprimere le mie emozioni. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/10-cose-che-le-persone-che-imbottigliano-le-emozioni-capiranno\/\">Non per tenerli imbottigliati dentro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>That bottle is going to explode eventually and it\u2019s not going to be pretty.<\/p>\n<p>Ho imparato a farmi valere. A non abbassare la testa di fronte a nessuno. Ma anche a non tenere la testa troppo alta.<\/p>\n<p>Because something or someone will slap it down. It\u2019s best to be humble, but proud.<\/p>\n<p>Il mio cuore si \u00e8 spezzato ed \u00e8 guarito. Pensavo che non lo avrebbe mai fatto. Credo che i miracoli accadano e che il tempo faccia miracoli.<\/p>\n<p>From this, I learned I still have a lot to learn\u2014about people, about love, about circumstances. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Not everything happened the way I wanted it to. I didn\u2019t want to be heartbroken.<i> Chi lo vorrebbe?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Abbiamo tutti paura di farci male<b><i>. But, sometimes sorrow is the way to happiness. I didn\u2019t know that either. Now I do.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113693\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta in un bar a bere caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tutte le cose che mi sono successe mi hanno reso pi\u00f9 coraggioso, pi\u00f9 forte.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.entrepreneur.com\/article\/269748\" rel=\"noopener\">Ho imparato a rischiare<\/a>. Credo che questa nozione mi abbia dato pi\u00f9 potere. Mi ha fatto crescere.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 l'unico momento in cui si cresce davvero \u00e8 quando si fanno cose che spaventano, che mettono a disagio.<\/p>\n<p>Che le cose da cui si vuole scappare, si dovrebbero raggiungere.<\/p>\n<p>Hanno migliorato la mia vita in ogni suo aspetto.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I fall\u2014I rise. I live\u2014I learn. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>As many times as I need to. It makes me who I am. I like that I\u2019ve changed. I feel more proud of myself now. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Ora mi amo di pi\u00f9.  Tutti i miei alti e bassi rendono gli anni degni di essere vissuti. <\/i><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114084 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Im-Not-The-Woman-I-Was-Last-Year-And-Thats-More-Than-Okay-Pinterest-1.jpg\" alt=\"Non sono la donna che ero l&#039;anno scorso e va pi\u00f9 che bene cos\u00ec\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Im-Not-The-Woman-I-Was-Last-Year-And-Thats-More-Than-Okay-Pinterest-1.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Im-Not-The-Woman-I-Was-Last-Year-And-Thats-More-Than-Okay-Pinterest-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Im-Not-The-Woman-I-Was-Last-Year-And-Thats-More-Than-Okay-Pinterest-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Im-Not-The-Woman-I-Was-Last-Year-And-Thats-More-Than-Okay-Pinterest-1-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Im-Not-The-Woman-I-Was-Last-Year-And-Thats-More-Than-Okay-Pinterest-1-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s funny how days go by and nothing changes. Suddenly you turn around, the year passes and everything seems different. Those are all subtle changes, so you can\u2019t even feel them. Time passes, you look back and you are not the same person you were yesterday. And that\u2019s more than okay. You are not supposed&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":176223,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5781","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Im-Not-The-Woman-I-Was-Last-Year-And-Thats-More-Than-Okay-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":2,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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