{"id":5825,"date":"2019-09-29T12:17:26","date_gmt":"2019-09-29T12:17:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5825"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:05:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:05:54","slug":"luomo-giusto-al-momento-sbagliato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/luomo-giusto-al-momento-sbagliato\/","title":{"rendered":"Eri il ragazzo giusto al momento sbagliato"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 risaputo che il tempismo \u00e8 qualcosa che nessuno di noi pu\u00f2 influenzare. Scommetto che a tutti voi \u00e8 capitato di incontrare un ragazzo fantastico, ma era gi\u00e0 impegnato. Oppure vi siete avvicinate alla persona che \u00e8 diventata vostra amica in pochissimo tempo, ma ha dovuto trasferirsi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cose del genere accadono sempre e siamo noi a dover decidere se vale la pena rischiare.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am writing all this because I once fell for the wrong guy. I mean he was the right one but at the wrong time. Which means we didn\u2019t make our dreams come true.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Eravamo entrambi senza speranza a causa della situazione in cui ci trovavamo. Volevamo stare insieme, ma entrambi eravamo sposati. Lui viveva in un matrimonio infelice proprio come me. <\/span><\/p>\n

When I think twice, now I finally understand that all those mysterious looks between the two of us were signs that we understood each other even if we didn\u2019t say anything.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> Ecco come ho sposato il mio ex<\/a><\/p>\n

Era facile vedersi tutti i giorni, visto che lavoravamo nella stessa azienda. Ricordo ancora come mi guardasti quel giorno, quando ti dissi che mio marito mi aveva picchiato. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il livido era ancora sul mio viso, ma in qualche modo riuscii a coprirlo con l'aiuto di un po' di fondotinta. Potevo vedere la rabbia nei tuoi occhi perch\u00e9 qualcuno mi aveva fatto sentire cos\u00ec. <\/span><\/p>\n

For you, I was a woman to love. And I must admit that I felt the same for you. But the circumstances weren\u2019t in our favor.<\/span><\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t leave my husband because I was feeling sorry for my kids and you felt the same way about yours. I always wanted my kids to have a good home and loving parents, and I knew that a divorce would ruin them.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s Perch\u00e9 sono rimasto in una relazione tossica<\/a> like that. I wanted my kids to feel safe and good and I wasn\u2019t thinking about myself at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ora, vorrei essere riuscita a fuggire dall'uomo violento che era mio marito. Avrei potuto avere una vita straordinaria con l'uomo che avevo scelto. E avrei scelto lui ogni singola volta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma la vita ha scritto una storia diversa per noi due. Tu sei rimasto con tua moglie e io con mio marito. E lo abbiamo fatto anche se i nostri mondi stavano andando in pezzi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sai, non \u00e8 cos\u00ec facile lasciare la persona che ami e sapere che non sarai mai con lui. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because that\u2019s what the two of us did. We stayed in unhappy relationships to make others happy while we were sad. We sacrificed our lives to make our kids feel good. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe we shouldn\u2019t have done that. Maybe our kids would have been happier in a different family. Maybe it would be better for them not to look their parents argue every single day.<\/span><\/p>\n

Just maybe\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ma abbiamo scelto una strada diversa. E forse le cose sarebbero state molto diverse se entrambi avessimo fatto uno sforzo. Perch\u00e9 quando si incontra la persona giusta, non \u00e8 mai un brutto momento. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will do anything to make it work, right? Unfortunately, you and I weren\u2019t so brave and we went with the flow.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, this story is for all of you out there who think that they met the right guy at the wrong time. If you let go a person you love the most, you can\u2019t blame timing. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can only blame yourself because you weren\u2019t into them enough to make it work.<\/span><\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t a magical time when all the things will fit into their places. But there is maybe a person in your life who will make timing unessential.<\/span><\/p>\n

E quando quella persona entra a far parte della vostra vita, troverete un modo per restarle attaccati, perch\u00e9 questo tipo di tempismo \u00e8 <\/span>sempre <\/i><\/b>Giusto!<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It is a well-known fact that timing is something that none of us can affect. I bet all of you had a situation in your lives when you met an amazing guy but he was already taken. Or you got close to the person who became your friend in a very short time but he…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":5826,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/StockSnap_EPF8FMHVS5.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5825"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5825\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5826"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}