Love isn\u2019t what you think it is<\/strong>. I\u2019m sorry, but sometimes that\u2019s the truth.<\/p>\nSometimes love isn\u2019t true, unconditional, all-conquering love. Sometimes it\u2019s weak, fake, scared, indecisive, quiet, demanding \u2013 not what they teach you when you\u2019re growing up.<\/p>\n
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So che alla fine niente di meno che l'incondizionato dovrebbe essere considerato amore, ma la realt\u00e0 \u00e8 che noi accettiamo l'amore che pensiamo di meritare e su quello diamo la nostra definizione di amore.<\/p>\n
You can\u2019t predict love<\/strong>. You can\u2019t be sure of anything in life.<\/p>\nNot after abuse. It\u2019s scary to think something that once meant comfort and happiness turned out to be everything but that. It\u2019s hard to relax and not to question every love that comes after that.<\/p>\n
Vi mantiene in uno stato di tensione costante.<\/p>\n
L'amore rende ciechi<\/strong>. You heard this many times but didn\u2019t know what it meant. Now you know.<\/p>\n![\"donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-field.jpg\")
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Quando siamo innamorati, facciamo cose inimmaginabili. Permettiamo a un'altra persona di controllare completamente la nostra vita.<\/p>\n
Facciamo compromessi che poi diventano rimpianti e perdiamo totalmente noi stessi.<\/p>\n
Love shouldn\u2019t be painful<\/strong>. Alcuni di noi sono cresciuti pensando che l'amore sia doloroso e pieno di sacrifici.<\/p>\nMaybe that\u2019s why some of us attract toxic partners. Maybe we subconsciously search for love as we know it.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s why we need to work on changing our own perception of love.<\/p>\n
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L'amore \u00e8 sempre un rischio<\/strong>. Non importa quanto siamo spaventati e feriti, desideriamo ancora l'amore. Vogliamo ancora essere al sicuro e amati.<\/p>\nIt\u2019s almost contradictory to think of love as something that makes you safe while knowing you can\u2019t predict what will happen when you let it into your life. You\u2019re always taking a risk.<\/p>\n
Il rischio di essere feriti. Il rischio che il cuore e la vita vadano in frantumi.<\/p>\n
There\u2019s no fear in love<\/strong>. If love is as it should be \u2013 there should be no place for fear.<\/p>\nIf someone is making you feel scared, they don\u2019t love you \u2013 they want to control you. Don\u2019t let that happen. Don\u2019t let them win.<\/p>\n
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Amare se stessi \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 importante<\/strong>. Questo \u00e8 fondamentale. Quando impariamo ad amare veramente noi stessi, diventiamo meno propensi ad avere paura e a controllarci.<\/p>\nThe best thing, though, is that you can always decide to start practicing self-love. It\u2019s not always easy, but everyone can do it.<\/p>\n
When you start loving yourself, that\u2019s when you start getting your life back. You start living fully.<\/p>\n
No one who truly loves you will make you feel like you\u2019re not good enough. You are always good enough.<\/p>\n
Ogni volta che si inizia a chiedersi perch\u00e9<\/em> e se<\/em>, remember that your past doesn\u2019t define you. You\u2019re the one who gets to decide.<\/p>\n![\"bella](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg\")
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You\u2019re the one who lived through all of the struggles. You can do it.<\/p>\n
Decidere di uscire. Decidere di ricominciare.<\/p>\n
Decidete di abbracciare tutto ci\u00f2 che siete e di imparare cos'\u00e8 l'amore ancora e ancora finch\u00e9 non troverete quello vero.<\/p>\n
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