{"id":58809,"date":"2020-04-02T21:28:06","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T21:28:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=58809"},"modified":"2022-01-28T00:02:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T00:02:23","slug":"11-modi-per-perdere-se-stessi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/11-modi-per-perdere-se-stessi\/","title":{"rendered":"11 modi per perdere se stessi quando si \u00e8 innamorati"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Le relazioni possono essere dinamiche e cambiare spesso. Per questo motivo, \u00e8 normale che cambiate alcune cose per il vostro partner.<\/p>\n<p>However, you shouldn\u2019t change everything about yourself for the sake of the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s nice to change some little things that your partner doesn\u2019t like, but even those changes shouldn\u2019t be made too often.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Change is part of our growth process but constant adjustment will make you into a whole new person, and that\u2019s not healthy for your relationship<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><strong> You can\u2019t force someone to be with you, but<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/un-uomo-che-vuole-rimanere-nella-tua-vita-trovera-sempre-un-modo-per-farlo\/\"><b>un uomo che ti ama rester\u00e0 con te<\/b><\/a> <strong>a prescindere da tutto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se volete scoprire se siete cambiati negativamente nella vostra relazione, chiedetevi se vi relazionate con qualcuno dei seguenti aspetti:<\/p>\n<h2>1. You ALWAYS put your partner\u2019s needs ahead of yours<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58811\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-hugging-man-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che abbraccia un uomo all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-hugging-man-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-hugging-man-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-hugging-man-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you want to show your man how much you appreciate him, of course you\u2019ll put him ahead of your own needs sometimes.<\/p>\n<p>You want to make him happy so you\u2019ll do something that he likes, even if you don\u2019t like it.<\/p>\n<p>But if you always do that, it means that you\u2019re not caring for yourself the way you used to.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner has become the center of your universe (that\u2019s nice, don\u2019t get me wrong) and you have forgotten about all your own needs and wishes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Attenzione, il vostro uomo potrebbe abituarsi e potrebbe anche piacergli. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If he realizes what\u2019s happening, he may appreciate you less because he\u2019ll see that you don\u2019t appreciate yourself enough to stay true to yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>2. Cercate l'approvazione del vostro uomo per tutto ci\u00f2 che volete fare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58813\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-talking-with-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Donna preoccupata che parla con il suo fidanzato\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-talking-with-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-talking-with-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-talking-with-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You want to know your partner\u2019s opinion about everything you do, and you\u2019ll change your mind if he is not okay with it.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll even ask him his opinion about what clothes to wear and if he says that your choice isn\u2019t the best, you\u2019ll immediately change your clothes.<\/p>\n<p>Questo potrebbe diventare molto pericoloso perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/smettete-di-scendere-a-compromessi-per-farli-restare\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">potrebbe abituarsi ad approvare<\/span><\/a> tutte le vostre azioni e il vostro aspetto.<\/p>\n<p>Una situazione del genere pu\u00f2 far s\u00ec che la relazione diventi tossica e che si finisca per incolpare se stessi di non essere abbastanza bravi.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Tradite la vostra morale a causa sua<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58814\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-with-blue-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"donna attenta con gli occhi azzurri\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-with-blue-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-with-blue-eyes-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-with-blue-eyes-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>La vostra morale \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che vi definisce. Cosa sareste senza di essi, o se cambiassero continuamente? Sareste davvero la stessa persona?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You think it\u2019s okay to neglect and change your beliefs and morals because of the man you love.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll do everything necessary to be with him, even if it means that you have to change the most important thing about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>If you lose yourself this way, you won\u2019t be able to fully enjoy your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>A volte pensate di cambiare la vostra morale solo per evitare di litigare con lui. Hai paura di entrare in conflitto con lui nel caso in cui ti lasci.<\/p>\n<p>Se lo fa, significa che<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/sto-meglio-senza-di-te\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">he doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/span><\/a> because he thinks that your opinion doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Si tace su ci\u00f2 che si prova<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58816\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-floor-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul pavimento a pensare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-floor-and-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-floor-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-floor-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve always talked about your feelings and you don\u2019t regret it. You\u2019ve even encouraged others to do the same.<\/p>\n<p>So, what\u2019s happened? Why are you keeping quiet now?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll tell you what\u2019s happened: Your fear of losing the man you love. You are afraid that if you talk with him about what\u2019s bothering you, he won\u2019t understand or he\u2019ll be angry.<\/p>\n<p>Esprimere i sentimenti \u00e8 la parte pi\u00f9 importante di ogni relazione. Aiuta ad affrontare i problemi.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you\u2019ve chosen to bury your feelings. Like that will make them go away.<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t. You\u2019ll feel stressed and uncomfortable, but you\u2019ll deal with all the negative emotions because you think that opening up to your partner could be risky for your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Ignorate il vostro intuito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58818\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta in riva al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Anche in questo caso, si tratta di una delle cose da fare perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/qualcosa-che-e-destinato-a-te\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you are afraid he\u2019ll leave<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Cominciate a dubitare della sua lealt\u00e0. Trovate anche qualche piccola prova e il vostro istinto vi dice che c'\u00e8 qualcosa che non va.<\/p>\n<p>Lui inizia a tornare a casa tardi e voi iniziate a dubitare ancora di pi\u00f9 che non sia fedele a voi.<\/p>\n<p>But somehow, you\u2019ll choose to ignore all of the signs and to mute your intuition because you don\u2019t want to argue with him. You want to believe that he loves you the same way you love him.<\/p>\n<h2>6. La vostra fiducia \u00e8 scossa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58820\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your self-esteem is compromised by everything you let your partner do for you. You don\u2019t see yourself the way you used to. Now, the feeling of not being good enough is always with you.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve become totally dependent on your partner because you are not sure that you\u2019ll do anything well by yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Your self-love is also compromised by lots of new changes. You don\u2019t feel comfortable in your own skin anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Questi nuovi sentimenti sono spiacevoli per voi e potrebbero volerci mesi per innamorarvi di nuovo di voi stessi.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Si dimenticano i vecchi amici<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58822\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-blond-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda triste seduta in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-blond-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-blond-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-blond-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You are in a relationship, not in a prison. So, why don\u2019t you continue to hang out with your friends? Remember, they #were there for you before your boyfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>People grow up and drift apart &#8211; that\u2019s normal. But if you are able to keep your friendships you really should.<\/p>\n<p>Dovreste essere grati ai vostri amici per tutto quello che avete passato insieme, per tutti i bei ricordi d'infanzia che avete creato insieme.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Si mettono da parte i propri sogni e i propri obiettivi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58831\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/cute-afro-woman-looking-at-sky.jpg\" alt=\"donna afro carina che guarda il cielo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/cute-afro-woman-looking-at-sky.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/cute-afro-woman-looking-at-sky-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/cute-afro-woman-looking-at-sky-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ricordate quando eravate pieni di sogni e passioni per il futuro? Ora che<\/p>\n<p>has all changed. You\u2019ve put it all on hold because you want him to succeed first. You can wait a few years.<\/p>\n<p>Chiedetevi: la persona di 16 anni fa sarebbe soddisfatta di voi ora? Se la risposta \u00e8 NO, allora iniziate a cambiare il vostro comportamento.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete lavorare per realizzare i vostri sogni. Lo dovete a voi stessi. Lo dovete a quella ragazzina che ha studiato duramente perch\u00e9 voleva finire la scuola e diventare una donna di successo.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Si rinuncia a opportunit\u00e0 di lavoro per lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58824\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-thinking-next-to-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna che pensa accanto alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-thinking-next-to-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-thinking-next-to-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-thinking-next-to-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nYou\u2019ve finally gotten a good job offer but decided that you won\u2019t accept it because you\u2019ll be miles away from your significant other.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s your choice but remember how long you have waited for a good opportunity like this. If it really is true love, a long-distance relationship shouldn\u2019t be a threat.<\/p>\n<p>Il vecchio utente accetterebbe volentieri questa fantastica opportunit\u00e0, senza pensarci due volte.<\/p>\n<h2>10. You can\u2019t stand it when you argue with your man<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58825\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"coppia infelice seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As we\u2019ve already said, you\u2019ll do whatever you can to avoid conflict. Most of the time you just shut up and let him say what he wants.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you have an argument with your man, you immediately start crying. All you can think about is how he\u2019ll leave you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to argue with him because you are <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-avere-paura-di-perdere-qualcuno-che-non-si-sente-fortunato-ad-averti\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">paura di come finir\u00e0 l'incontro<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>11. Parli sempre di lui e della vostra relazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58830\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-wearing-sunglasses-and-cup-of-coffee-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice con occhiali da sole e tazza di caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-wearing-sunglasses-and-cup-of-coffee-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-wearing-sunglasses-and-cup-of-coffee-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-wearing-sunglasses-and-cup-of-coffee-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you are hanging out with your besties, don\u2019t talk about your man all the time. They\u2019ll think that you are too clingy and that you can\u2019t be without him for even a minute.<\/p>\n<p>It will seem like you don\u2019t have any other things in life except him. And that\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n<p>You still have many interesting things in your life to talk about with your friends, you\u2019ve just forgotten about all of them because you\u2019ve put your SO at the center of your universe.<\/p>\n<h2>Per concludere<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58834\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-sand.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna seduta sulla sabbia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-sand.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-sand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-sand-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nSe vi riconoscete in uno di questi segnali, allora questo \u00e8 il vostro campanello d'allarme.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-donna-che-ha-perso-se-stessa-per-amore\/\">Perdere se stessi quando si ha una relazione<\/a> non far\u00e0 altro che renderlo disfunzionale e malsano.<\/p>\n<p>Then, when it ends &#8211; and it will because your partner will become bored with you &#8211; you\u2019ll have nothing left to give to your next love. You\u2019ll feel empty inside.<\/p>\n<p>Dare priorit\u00e0. Il rapporto con se stessi deve essere sempre al primo posto.<\/p>\n<p>L'amore per se stessi \u00e8 il fondamento di ogni altro amore. Come si pu\u00f2 amare qualcun altro se non si \u00e8 in grado di amare se stessi?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non cambiate mai per un uomo. Sappiate chi siete e quanto valete. Rimanete sempre fedeli a voi stesse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Ricorda<\/strong>, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/luomo-giusto-ti-amera\/\"><b>se un uomo ti ama veramente,<\/b><\/a> <strong>he\u2019ll accept you for who you are.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-58842\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pinterest-11-Ways-You-Lose-Yourself-When-You\u2019re-In-Love.jpg\" alt=\"11 modi per perdere se stessi quando si \u00e8 innamorati\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pinterest-11-Ways-You-Lose-Yourself-When-You\u2019re-In-Love.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pinterest-11-Ways-You-Lose-Yourself-When-You\u2019re-In-Love-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pinterest-11-Ways-You-Lose-Yourself-When-You\u2019re-In-Love-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pinterest-11-Ways-You-Lose-Yourself-When-You\u2019re-In-Love-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Relationships can be dynamic and change often. Because of this, it is normal that you\u2019ll change some things for your significant other. However, you shouldn\u2019t change everything about yourself for the sake of the relationship. It\u2019s nice to change some little things that your partner doesn\u2019t like, but even those changes shouldn\u2019t be made too&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":58836,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-58809","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/11-Ways-You-Lose-Yourself-When-You\u2019re-In-Love.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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