1. Non vedete un futuro insieme<\/h2>\n
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One of the first bad signs that you ought to end your relationship is the fact that it isn\u2019t going anywhere, as much as you hate to admit it.<\/p>\n
You and your partner can\u2019t seem to agree about your life goals and this is not someone you see yourself growing old next to.<\/p>\n
This is especially the case if, for example, you want to start a family and have kids while they wouldn\u2019t mind dating for a couple more years and can\u2019t make you any promises regarding your future together.<\/p>\n
You’ll have to agree that these are some serious rompiscatole<\/a>s you won’t be able to surpass.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that every relationship has to last a lifetime but what\u2019s the point of being with someone you know you won\u2019t end up with?<\/p>\n Le cose potrebbero andare benissimo in questo momento, ma se sapete che la vostra fine \u00e8 inevitabile, perch\u00e9 perdere altro tempo in una relazione destinata a fallire?<\/p>\n Instead, end everything in time because you\u2019ll have to do it sooner or later.<\/p>\n Come capire quando \u00e8 il momento di lasciarsi? Una delle risposte \u00e8: quando si inizia a pensare ad altre persone.<\/p>\n There is absolutely nothing wrong if you see a girl or a guy you find objectively attractive even though you\u2019re in a happy relationship.<\/p>\n After all, you\u2019re not blind and you can\u2019t help but notice when someone is good-looking.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, quando si ama veramente il proprio partner, non si farebbe mai una mossa con lui.<\/p>\n You may see the most beautiful woman or the most handsome man but you will forget all about them as soon as they\u2019re gone from your sight.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, this is not what\u2019s happening with you. In fact, you keep thinking about other people in a romantic way.<\/p>\n You continuously picture yourself next to someone who is not your partner and you can\u2019t help but imagine how your life would look next to another person.<\/p>\n Not only that\u2014there is probably someone specific you can\u2019t get out of your mind.<\/p>\n If this is something you can relate to, your relationship is already over; you\u2019re just still unaware of that fact.<\/p>\n Even though you haven\u2019t done anything just yet and you haven\u2019t physically cheated on your significant other, having someone else in your thoughts is a reason enough to break up with them.<\/p>\n A relazione sana<\/a> dovrebbe farvi progredire e dovrebbe essere utile per il vostro benessere come persona.<\/p>\n Dovrebbe spingervi ad andare avanti e ispirarvi a diventare la migliore versione possibile di voi stessi.<\/p>\n However, you feel like you can\u2019t move an inch next to your partner. You feel like they\u2019re holding you back and as if your romance leaves you no room for progress.<\/p>\n The same is happening with your entire relationship; it isn\u2019t going anywhere and you are both stuck in exactly the same places you were when you just started dating and there has been no improvement whatsoever.<\/p>\n Nothing is going on and you haven\u2019t evolved as a couple.<\/p>\n It is one thing if we\u2019re talking about a relationship that lasts only a few months because in that case, you should give it a little more time to see whether you and your partner will start moving forward.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you feel trapped in a long term relationship that hasn\u2019t moved forward in years, it is a good sign that nothing will change in the future either.<\/p>\n Tra gli altri fattori, perch\u00e9 la relazione abbia successo, \u00e8 fondamentale essere compatibili con la propria met\u00e0.<\/p>\n You two don\u2019t have to literally be the same people but you should definitely have similar desires, ambitions and goals.<\/p>\n After all, this is someone you\u2019re planning your life next to and you can expect a lot of fighting in the future unless you two have similar worldviews on the important things in life.<\/p>\n When you and your boyfriend want completely opposite things and have different attitudes in life but can\u2019t seem to find a middle ground, some serious problems will arise sooner or later.<\/p>\n In questo scenario, a volte \u00e8 meglio chiudere le cose in tempo prima che sia troppo tardi. La dura realt\u00e0 \u00e8 che nessuno dei due cambier\u00e0 (n\u00e9 dovreste farlo) ed \u00e8 impossibile vivere accanto a una persona che ha poco in comune con voi.<\/p>\n Opposites do attract\u2014that is why you and your significant other started your relationship but they rarely last and that is why you two can\u2019t manage to make your lavoro di relazione<\/a> ora.<\/p>\n Non importa quanto sia bollente la vostra azione sotto le lenzuola, non \u00e8 mai abbastanza per il successo della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n D'altra parte, ironia della sorte, un cattivo vita sessuale<\/a> (or when you can’t remember the last time you had sex) is more than a good reason for it to go downhill and eventually break down completely.<\/p>\n And that is exactly what\u2019s been going on with you and your partner lately.<\/p>\n Somehow, you two stopped having sex and even when you do sleep together, there is absolutely no passion involved and you feel like you\u2019re performing a task that needs to be done.<\/p>\n Naturalmente, in questo scenario, dovreste provare a parlare con la vostra met\u00e0 prima di fare qualsiasi mossa.<\/p>\n Forse state solo attraversando una fase negativa o potreste migliorare le cose con un po' di fantasia.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, if the situation continues in this manner after you\u2019ve tried everything, it is more than clear that your chemistry is long gone.<\/p>\n They don\u2019t find you attractive anymore (or vice versa) and this lack of sex will bring problems to other parts of your relationship sooner or later.<\/p>\n Che piaccia o meno ammetterlo, tutte le coppie litigano di tanto in tanto.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, se voi e il vostro partner litigate per ogni minima cosa e se tutta la vostra comunicazione si basa su qualche tipo di litigio, \u00e8 un buon segno che qualcosa non va nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n Another red flag that the question \u201cHow to know when to break up?\u201d is appearing in your head with a reason is the fact that your arguments are not productive.<\/p>\n Litigate senza un motivo specifico, solo per liberarvi dell'energia negativa accumulata l'uno verso l'altro.<\/p>\n Inoltre, vi insultate e umiliate a vicenda ogni volta che avete un disaccordo.<\/p>\n It is like you\u2019re incapable of having a healthy discussion where your opinions oppose without turning it into a bigger issue.<\/p>\n The problem is also that you repeat your arguments. You don\u2019t learn from them and you never once resolve them.<\/p>\n So, why do you keep staying in this kind of unhealthy environment? Why do you keep ruining your mental health by remaining next to someone you clearly can\u2019t get along with?<\/p>\n Secondo gli esperti di appuntamenti, la maggior parte delle coppie si lascia per qualcosa che si pensava di aver dimenticato da tempo.<\/p>\n Sometimes, you think you forgave and forgot about your significant other\u2019s infidelity, lying or abuse and you continue living with them for a certain period of time as if everything is behind you and in perfect order.<\/p>\n Poi, dopo qualche anno, dal nulla, i traumi del passato cominciano a perseguitarci.<\/p>\n Vi accorgete che in realt\u00e0 state ancora serbando rancore e che il risentimento vi sta mangiando vivi.<\/p>\n Mi dispiace dirtelo, ma non hai mai perdonato o dimenticato le cose che hai vissuto.<\/p>\n E probabilmente non lo far\u00e0 mai. Pertanto, l'unica possibilit\u00e0 che avete \u00e8 quella di andarvene.<\/p>\n Sapete che avete fatto del vostro meglio per superare questo problema e per avere un cuore aperto, ma il vostro risentimento \u00e8 semplicemente pi\u00f9 forte della vostra ragione e non potete farci nulla.<\/p>\n Non \u00e8 possibile fissare un relazione unilaterale<\/a>. You\u2019re the only one trying, so what\u2019s the point of investing more of yourself in a relationship you\u2019re only interested in building?<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that you and your partner have put exactly the same amount of effort into your romance.<\/p>\n There will be days when you\u2019ll be giving your entire self, while they won\u2019t try at all and vice versa. Nobody can measure or weigh the effort you\u2019re both putting in.<\/p>\n However, if you feel like you\u2019re alone in this relationship, why don\u2019t you change your status and become officially single?<\/p>\n Molte coppie si attaccano l'una all'altra a causa del loro passato comune.<\/p>\n This is especially the case when you\u2019re still involved with your high school or college sweetheart; you two have been together for a lot of time, you\u2019re part of each other\u2019s families, you have a lot of mutual friends and you\u2019ve grown up together.<\/p>\n Con il tempo, questa persona \u00e8 diventata la vostra zona di comfort. Sapete cosa aspettarvi da lui in ogni momento e rappresenta la familiarit\u00e0 e la sicurezza.<\/p>\n Even though this is all nice, it shouldn\u2019t be the only reason you stay next to someone.<\/p>\n If you feel like you\u2019ve superato questa persona<\/a> and like your history together is the only thing that connects you, maybe it\u2019s time to part ways.<\/p>\n Please, don\u2019t feel guilty for choosing your future and present over your past. Don\u2019t let your memories hold you back and prevent you from moving on with your life.<\/p>\n A common reason why people stay in a relationship that doesn\u2019t make them happy is guilt.<\/p>\n You have no doubt that you want out but you know that your decision would break your partner\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n So you stay right where you are because you don\u2019t want to destroy them emotionally or hurt their feelings.<\/p>\n Well, let me tell you that this is one of the worst things you can do. First and foremost, by doing this, you\u2019re torturing yourself.<\/p>\n No matter how much you owe this person, you don\u2019t have the duty to be in this relationship if that is not something you want.<\/p>\n Secondly, you\u2019re hurting your partner even more by staying next to them, despite your desire to leave.<\/p>\n How do you think they would feel if they ever found out that you wanted to break up with them but didn\u2019t have the courage to do so?<\/p>\n Dopo tutto, vorreste che la persona amata stesse con voi per piet\u00e0? O preferireste che vi lasciasse?<\/p>\n Quando si ama qualcuno, tutto ci\u00f2 che fa \u00e8 carino. Ma quando si smette di amarla, ogni piccola cosa che la riguarda inizia a infastidirci.<\/p>\n This is exactly what\u2019s going on with your relationship; it seems that you\u2019re even bothered by the way your significant other inhales and exhales air.<\/p>\n You\u2019re irritated by the way they talk, eat and behave in every possible situation.<\/p>\n Most of all\u2014you\u2019re annoyed by their presence and touch. You can\u2019t stand this person hugging or kissing you, nor can you put up with them sleeping next to you anymore.<\/p>\n Sounds familiar, right? Well, it is a clear sign that it\u2019s time to consider a breakup.<\/p>\n Yes, there is a possibility of this being just a phase. Maybe you\u2019re easily agitated in general and involuntarily direct all of your negative energy toward the person you love the most.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you can\u2019t get rid of this feeling after some time has passed, it is a clear sign that it\u2019s time to consider breaking up.<\/p>\n Have you ever gotten yourself into a relationship with a person whose personality traits and habits you don\u2019t like?<\/p>\n Have you ever fallen in love with someone\u2019s potential instead of their true self? From day one, you expected them to change.<\/p>\n Speravi che il tuo amore<\/a> li avrebbe ispirati a diventare diversi e migliori e a rendersi finalmente conto dei loro errori. Tuttavia, questo cambiamento non \u00e8 mai arrivato.<\/p>\n You\u2019re both the same people you were at the beginning of your relationship and the truth is that those people are not compatible and can\u2019t function together.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t feel bad about this situation because it is one of the common reasons people part ways.<\/p>\n Instead, get to terms with the fact that your significant other will never change for real (because they don’t want to do so in the first place) and if you can\u2019t accept their true personality, stop trying to modify them and end things in a healthy way.<\/p>\n You\u2019re a mature adult who doesn\u2019t need anyone else\u2019s guidance through life.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t need people telling you what to do or who to date. Despite all of this, you know very well that your best friends and family members wish you all the best.<\/p>\n E la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che in molti casi possono vedere la vostra relazione sentimentale in modo pi\u00f9 chiaro e obiettivo.<\/p>\n Dopo tutto, le loro emozioni non sono investite nella vostra relazione e notano le bandiere rosse prima di voi.<\/p>\n Pertanto, se le persone pi\u00f9 care continuano a consigliarvi di prendere un nuova relazione<\/a> and end this one, maybe they\u2019re right.<\/p>\n Of course, this shouldn\u2019t be the only reason for you to break things off. However, if you\u2019re in doubt and aren\u2019t sure whether there are enough warning signs that you should walk away, take their opinions into consideration.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t have a good relationship without healthy communication. You and your partner shouldn\u2019t be just lovers\u2014you should be best friends as well.<\/p>\n Dovrebbe essere la prima persona a cui raccontare tutto, il vostro confidente e consigliere.<\/p>\n Qualcuno che sai che ti dir\u00e0 sempre la verit\u00e0, anche se dura, ma che allo stesso tempo non ti giudicher\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n Sadly, you and your partner stopped communicating in the healthiest ways. All you do is argue, you don\u2019t share secrets anymore and you would rather talk to anyone besides them.<\/p>\n Anzi, a volte sembra che abbiate smesso di parlare completamente. S\u00ec, parlate di cose quotidiane e poco importanti, ma non c'\u00e8 traccia delle conversazioni significative e profonde che facevate prima.<\/p>\n Il silenzio che vi circonda \u00e8 tutt'altro che piacevole o confortante; \u00e8 imbarazzante e pieno di tensione.<\/p>\n Another warning sign that it\u2019s time to end your relationship is the lack of trust you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n \u00c8 probabile che sia successo qualcosa che vi ha fatto smettere di fidarvi dell'altro o viceversa, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la vostra relazione attuale non si avvicina neanche lontanamente alla storia d'amore che avevate in passato.<\/p>\n You see, your partner should be someone who would never betray you, the person you know you can always rely on and someone you know wouldn\u2019t abandon you just because you\u2019re going through some rough patch.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, ultimamente non vi sentite cos\u00ec. Al contrario, sprecate un sacco di tempo ed energie per controllarli.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t get yourself to believe a word this person tells you and as much as you try, you don\u2019t consider them to be trustworthy.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s face it\u2014you would ditch your current relationship if it weren\u2019t for one thing\u2014your fear of being alone.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t stand your single life and you feel lonely and deserted when you\u2019re not a part of a couple and that is the only reason why you haven\u2019t gotten out of this romance.<\/p>\n Se questo \u00e8 il caso, \u00e8 un segnale di avvertimento che la rottura \u00e8 la cosa migliore da fare in questo momento.<\/p>\n Ricordate che essere single<\/a> in a healthy way beats being in a relationship that doesn\u2019t make you happy anytime.<\/p>\n After all, there is nothing wrong with not having a romantic partner and it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re alone in this world.<\/p>\n Avete ancora il vostro lavoro, i vostri amici, la vostra famiglia e, soprattutto, avete ancora voi stessi.<\/p>\n Despite what you might think, you don\u2019t need someone to complete you or to give your life meaning. Trust me\u2014you\u2019ll be perfectly fine on your own.<\/p>\n A prima vista, le relazioni on e off sembrano eccitanti e appassionanti.<\/p>\n When you keep on breaking up and getting back together with someone, you see it as a clear sign that you two can\u2019t live without each other and that you\u2019re destinati a finire insieme<\/a>.<\/p>\n Well, it\u2019s time to take off your rose-tinted glasses and see this practice as a red flag that this is not the person for you.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t care who is responsible for these behavior patterns\u2014la vostra relazione \u00e8 tossica<\/a> e sta rovinando la vostra salute mentale ed emotiva.<\/p>\n What exactly don\u2019t you understand? If you and your partner could function together and if you had the ability to build a good relationship, you wouldn\u2019t have been parting way every few weeks or months.<\/p>\n It is more than obvious that things aren\u2019t working, never did and, sadly, never will.<\/p>\n Break this relationship off once for all and give yourself space to find a new relationship that won\u2019t bring along all of this drama.<\/p>\n L'amore non \u00e8 un accordo commerciale. Tuttavia, ci sono momenti in cui bisogna seguire la ragione e non solo il cuore.<\/p>\n Ci sono momenti in cui non si ha altra scelta che soppesare le cose e decidere quale sia la mossa giusta.<\/p>\n And that is exactly what you did\u2014you asked yourself how to know when to rottura<\/a>Avete scritto su un foglio di carta tutti i vantaggi e gli svantaggi della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n Avete elencato tutti i momenti felici e quelli tristi e siete giunti alla conclusione che ci sono molti pi\u00f9 contro che pro.<\/p>\n So, what more evidence do you need? Aren’t all those dealbreakers reason enough to leave your partner and to stop torturing yourself and ruining your emotional health?<\/p>\n Your romantic relationship should make you happy\u2014there is no arguing with that.<\/p>\n Of course, it shouldn\u2019t be the only source of your happiness but it should bring joy and satisfaction to your life.<\/p>\n That\u2019s the entire point of having a partner, right? To make your life a little bit better because you can be perfectly unhappy on your own.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that there should be rainbows and unicorns all the time and that healthy relationships don\u2019t have situations in which both of the people involved are sad or feel bad but if your relationship is making you miserable most of the time, it is not the real deal.<\/p>\n Smettete di sprecare il vostro tempo con una persona e una relazione che vi fanno sentire nervosi, negativi, pessimisti o che vi fanno sentire in colpa. insoddisfatti della propria vita sentimentale<\/a>.<\/p>\n Anche se l'amore non \u00e8 sufficiente a far funzionare una relazione, \u00e8 una delle condizioni pi\u00f9 importanti per una storia d'amore di successo.<\/p>\n You can have the best relationship ever on paper but if you and your partner stopped loving each other (or if one of you doesn\u2019t have any emotions left), I\u2019m sorry but there is probably nothing you can do.<\/p>\n2. Pensate alle altre persone<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. You aren\u2019t making any progress<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Volete cose diverse<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. You\u2019ve stopped having sex<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Si combatte sempre<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. You can\u2019t forgive something from the past<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. You feel like you\u2019re alone in the relationship<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. You\u2019re only together because of your history<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n10. You stay because you don\u2019t want to hurt your partner<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n11. Cominciano a irritarvi<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n12. Vi aspettate che cambino<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n13. Tutti intorno a voi sono favorevoli a una rottura<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n14. Non avete comunicazione<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n15. La fiducia \u00e8 venuta meno<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n16. You\u2019re in a relationship out of fear of being alone<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n17. Continuate a lasciarvi e a tornare insieme<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n18. Ci sono pi\u00f9 contro che pro<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n19. You aren\u2019t happy<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n20. You don\u2019t love each other anymore<\/h2>\n
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