{"id":59067,"date":"2020-04-03T10:47:32","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T10:47:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59067"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:39:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:39:27","slug":"a-ogni-ragazza-che-non-sa-decidere-tra-cuore-e-mente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/a-ogni-ragazza-che-non-sa-decidere-tra-cuore-e-mente\/","title":{"rendered":"A tutte le ragazze che non sanno decidere tra ci\u00f2 che vuole il cuore e ci\u00f2 che dice la mente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Da sempre, la vostra mente e il vostro cuore non sono riusciti a trovare una via di mezzo.<\/p>\n

The two could never reach a compromise and you were left in the middle to try and get them on the same page. Well, you\u2019re not the only one.<\/p>\n

Fin dall'inizio del mondo, le persone hanno lottato con lo stesso dilemma: Devono fare la cosa giusta o vedere dove le emozioni li portano?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been asking yourself this question the most in terms of romantic love.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Chi scegliere per essere il vostro partner di vita<\/a>? Should you be with the man who gives you butterflies or with the one you\u2019re compatible with? Is amore sufficiente<\/a> e ne vale la pena, anche quando vi procura un sacco di mal di testa?<\/strong><\/p>\n

A dire il vero, nessuno ha mai trovato una soluzione perfetta. Some will advise you to go after your heart\u2019s desires, to forget about the rules and to follow your gut<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

They will tell you that it\u2019s the only way not to regret your decisions because even if they\u2019re wrong, at least you\u2019ll always have the satisfaction that at one point, you were brave enough to do what you truly wanted.<\/p>\n

Sounds quite romantic, doesn\u2019t it? From one point of view, this really is the right attitude; after all, you only have one life and you certainly shouldn\u2019t waste it by killing your desires and shutting off your emotions.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, that\u2019s what happens in the movies and novels all the time, right?<\/p>\n

The characters go against all possible laws of logic and society and blindly follow their heart\u2019s desires, even if their lives depended on not doing so.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta finiscono per vivere felici e contenti, ma la vita reale \u00e8 molto diversa dalle favole.<\/p>\n

Cosa succede quando le conseguenze delle vostre azioni bussano alla vostra porta?<\/p>\n

What happens when it turns out that your choices weren\u2019t good for you and when they leave painful traces on your life and future?<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why some people will tell you to always be realistic; after all, that\u2019s the only chance you have to prevent the pain.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

God gave us our reasoning for a reason\u2014to know better than just going after our instincts, to have the capacity to determine what\u2019s right and wrong and to make wise and smart choices.<\/p>\n

So, what\u2019s the answer to this everlasting question: Come si pu\u00f2 smettere di essere cos\u00ec combattuti tra ci\u00f2 che dice la mente e ci\u00f2 che vuole il cuore?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bene, La chiave \u00e8 l'equilibrio<\/strong>. Yes, you heard it right; you\u2019re the one who has to find a compromise between these two things and decide when it\u2019s time to listen to each of them.<\/p>\n

L'esperienza vi insegner\u00e0 che nessuna di queste due pratiche \u00e8 perfetta.<\/p>\n

Per quanto lo si voglia fare, you can\u2019t go through life doing whatever you want to in the moment and you can\u2019t blindly follow your desires<\/strong> unless you\u2019re ready to face severe consequences which will come sooner or later.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, reprimere le emozioni<\/a> e nemmeno trasformarsi in un robot senza cervello \u00e8 la cosa da fare. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Yes, in this case, you might have a bigger chance of saving yourself from a lot of pain but on the other hand, you\u2019re likely to end up breaking your own heart and condemning yourself to a loveless life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lasciate che vi sveli un piccolo segreto sull'amore romantico: It\u2019s not the real deal as long as your mind and heart are fighting about it<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

In effetti, quando incontrerete qualcuno che \u00e8 destinato ad essere, sia il vostro cervello che le vostre emozioni saranno sulla stessa pagina.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Vedete, quando incontrerete l'uomo perfetto, lo amerete con tutto il cuore e con tutta la mente<\/strong> e allo stesso tempo saprete che \u00e8 giusto per voi.<\/p>\n

When this happens, there will be no more dilemmas or doubts; all the pieces of the puzzle called your life will fall into perfect order and you\u2019ll see what true balance really means.<\/p>\n

For the first time ever, you won\u2019t be afraid. You\u2019ll stop wandering between your reasoning and emotions and you\u2019ll stop wondering if you chose wisely.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s how you\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve found both your soulmate and your forever person\u2014all in one.<\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

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