{"id":59087,"date":"2020-04-03T11:40:22","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T11:40:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59087"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:27:20","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:27:20","slug":"anche-quando-sei-single-queste-cose-fanno-schifo-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/anche-quando-sei-single-queste-cose-fanno-schifo-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Anche quando sarai single e favolosa, queste 6 cose faranno schifo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non siete single perch\u00e9 nessuno vi vuole o perch\u00e9 non siete fatti per essere amati. Al contrario, siete single per vostra scelta.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you need some extra time to heal from a devastating heartbreak from the past, decided to take some time off from relationships, or simply don\u2019t feel ready for anything serious right now.<\/p>\n

The important thing is that you\u2019re making the best out of your vita da single<\/a>. Most of the time, you\u2019re not even lonely.<\/p>\n

You know you don\u2019t need a man to complete you and you\u2019re using this time to get your life in order.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, per quanto sia favoloso essere single, ci sono alcune cose che fanno schifo. Eccone 6.<\/p>\n

1. Altre persone<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it. The biggest problem about being single is not the feelings and thoughts you have, it\u2019s the society around you.<\/p>\n

The truth is that, if you\u2019re in your twenties and have been single for a while, most people in your surroundings act like they feel sorry for you.<\/p>\n

They treat you like you\u2019re a second class citizen \u2013 that since you haven\u2019t been able to find a romantic partner, you\u2019re obviously not good enough for anything else either.<\/p>\n

Even your closest friends and family members think that you\u2019re miserable on your own.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re aware that they mean well, but after a while, them looking down on you just because of your relationship status becomes tiring.<\/p>\n

\"gruppo<\/p>\n

In fact, you feel like they\u2019d rather see you in an unhealthy, toxic relationship than strong enough to go through life by yourself.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, secondo loro, rispettereste alcuni standard sociali immaginari, ma naturalmente a nessuno importerebbe nulla di come vi sentite.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why you shouldn\u2019t care about other people\u2019s opinion.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need their pity and you certainly shouldn\u2019t feel like they\u2019re better than you just for being romantically involved.<\/p>\n

2. Avere solo se stessi su cui contare<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a strong, independent, and powerful woman who has the capacity to go through life by herself.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need anyone pushing you forward, holding your hand through the hard times, or anyone resolving your problems.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 una cosa di cui essere estremamente orgogliosi. Credetemi, non molti ce l'hanno fatta.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ad essere onesti, a volte il fatto di non avere nessuno su cui contare se non se stessi fa un po' schifo.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you are not capable of being your biggest support.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that it would be nice to have someone you can count on every once in a while. Of course, you have your friends, family, and even coworkers.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you don\u2019t have a life partner \u2013 a man to be your teammate through thick and thin.<\/p>\n

Even though this is the last thing you would ever admit, the truth is that there are times when you wish to have a man who will be there to have your back. You don\u2019t need him to guide you or be your savior.<\/p>\n

Ti servirebbe qualcuno che affronti la vita al tuo fianco, spalla a spalla.<\/p>\n

3. Non avere un accompagnatore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

E tutti quei matrimoni, feste di compleanno e altre celebrazioni a cui dovete sempre andare da soli? \u00c8 uno schifo non avere un accompagnatore, vero?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a pain having to choose whether you\u2019ll go alone, look for a date months ahead just so you don\u2019t have to go through those series of boring questions regarding your love life, or ask a amico ragazzo<\/a> to tag along just so you don\u2019t look desperate.<\/p>\n

4. Mancanza di intimit\u00e0 fisica<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you say that you\u2019re tired of sleeping alone, most assume that you\u2019re just horny and that one raunchy night would solve all of your problems.<\/p>\n

Ebbene, il problema dell'essere single \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 un po' pi\u00f9 profondo di un desiderio carnale.<\/p>\n

In fact, what you miss is physical intimacy. Whether you like to admit it or not, it\u2019s not always easy going home to a cold, empty bed with nobody waiting for you.<\/p>\n

Not only that, you also can\u2019t remember the last time you kissed or hugged someone.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Vi mancano pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa le coccole e il risveglio accanto alla persona amata.<\/p>\n

Of course, you could be sleeping around to have the physical satisfaction, but that\u2019s simply not your cup of tea.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, anche in questo caso, si sentirebbe comunque l'assenza di un vero legame fisico con un altro essere umano.<\/p>\n

5. Non essere innamorati<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Per quanto vi piaccia la vostra vita da single e la stiate vivendo al meglio, dovete ammettere che la sensazione di essere innamorati \u00e8 altrettanto forte.<\/p>\n

Vi ricordate il tipo di nervosismo buono, quello farfalle<\/a> in your stomach, the sweating of your palms, and the sensation you get when you know you\u2019re about to see your crush?<\/p>\n

Well, sometimes you can\u2019t help but miss all those feelings. You miss liking a man, being attracted to him, and wanting him to become yours.<\/p>\n

However, just because nostalgia hits you from time to time, it doesn\u2019t mean that it should serve as an excuse to jump into a new relationship.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 indovinate un po': essere infelicemente innamorati \u00e8 molto peggio che non esserlo affatto.<\/p>\n

6. Il mercato degli incontri<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Among other things that are a drag when you\u2019re single \u2013 even though you\u2019re killing it \u2013 is the dating market.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you\u2019re obsessed with the idea of finding a boyfriend, but you didn\u2019t shut your door to love forever either.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, di tanto in tanto, uscite per un paio di appuntamenti. Tuttavia, ogni volta tornate pi\u00f9 delusi di prima.<\/p>\n

Everyone around you keeps setting you up on blind dates and men hit on you. But, not one has what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you\u2019re too picky. You just have i vostri standard<\/a> e si rifiutano di accontentarsi di meno, il che \u00e8 fantastico.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, a volte si desidera semplicemente non andare mai pi\u00f9 a un altro appuntamento di merda.<\/p>\n

\"Anche <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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