{"id":5909,"date":"2020-08-02T07:38:09","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T07:38:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5909"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:29:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:29:13","slug":"il-ragazzo-della-lettera-non-riusciva-a-decidere-voleva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-ragazzo-della-lettera-non-riusciva-a-decidere-voleva\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera al ragazzo che non riusciva a decidere cosa voleva"},"content":{"rendered":"

Forse non leggerai mai questa lettera, ma volevo solo dirti quello che ho in mente.<\/p>\n

Ho bisogno di mettere le mie emozioni su un pezzo di carta e, una volta letto tutto, forse sar\u00f2 abbastanza forte da chiudere questo capitolo della mia vita.<\/p>\n

Voglio solo che tu sappia che non \u00e8 facile per me farlo e che, mentre scrivo questa lettera, nel mio cuore ci sono sentimenti contrastanti nei tuoi confronti.<\/p>\n

Alcuni mi dicono che meriti una seconda possibilit\u00e0, ma dall'altro lato ci sono quei brutti sentimenti che si sono sviluppati a causa di tutte le cose brutte che mi hai fatto.<\/p>\n

I want you to know one thing\u2014you were the man I loved the most but you hurt me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Hai significato il mondo per me e ho visto in te tutto ci\u00f2 che sognavo.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Sapevi come conquistarmi. Sapevi come entrare nel mio cuore. Ed eri l\u00ec anche prima che me ne rendessi conto.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 difficile cacciare qualcuno dal proprio cuore.<\/a> Insomma, c'era un motivo per cui eri l\u00ec.<\/p>\n

I must have felt something for you, right? But you didn\u2019t care about it. And honestly, I don\u2019t know if your purpose was to hurt me or you did that accidentally.<\/p>\n

I just know that after our breakup I am still broken. I can\u2019t shake this feeling of sorrow off. I am trying so hard to be the old me. The one who is always cheerful and the one who never gives up.<\/p>\n

Ora sto pensando se avrei dovuto lottare di pi\u00f9 per te. . <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Maybe you were calling me to help you but I didn\u2019t know to recognize your voice.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t see that you needed me. But when I think twice, it wasn\u2019t all my fault.<\/p>\n

If you need someone, you come and say it. You don\u2019t hurt people just to get their attention. I guess you chose the wrong way.<\/p>\n

I just want to tell you that I couldn\u2019t stand your moody behavior anymore.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t stand that you said that you loved me one day and I would catch you with another girl the next one.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t be in that magic circle anymore. I needed the truth from you.<\/p>\n

I needed you to admit either that you love me and want to stay with me or that you don\u2019t want me to be a part of your life anymore.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ma non ho mai sentito quelle parole uscire dalla sua bocca.<\/p>\n

E poi, in un batter d'occhio, mi sono reso conto che Dovrei smettere di aspettarti.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 la vostra indecisione \u00e8 stata una decisione.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

A decision that you don\u2019t love me enough to provide me with all the love I need. You couldn\u2019t have loved me with the same amount of love and passion that I felt for you.<\/p>\n

Ma sei stato un codardo ad ammetterlo.<\/p>\n

Era pi\u00f9 facile girarmi intorno al tuo dito e stare con me quando ti faceva comodo.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Because that was something I always was\u2014your second choice, a girl you always crawled to when others abandoned you.<\/p>\n

Ma ora basta. Ho smesso con te.<\/p>\n

Lascio il nostro amore e tutto ci\u00f2 che avremmo potuto avere se tu fossi stato solo un po' pi\u00f9 disposto a provarci.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to fight for someone who doesn\u2019t fight for me. I don\u2019t need an almost relationship.<\/p>\n

Mi merito tutto o niente. E credo di aver sperimentato la seconda ipotesi con te.<\/p>\n

Quindi, ascolta questo: Aspetter\u00f2 un ragazzo che sa quello che vuole<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Aspetter\u00f2 colui che si dedicher\u00e0 ad una relazione e non sparir\u00e0 per 2 mesi per poi ricomparire all'improvviso.<\/p>\n

I want someone who will always be there. Because that is what people in love do\u2014they can rely on each other.<\/p>\n

Alla fine, voglio che ricordiate una cosa: non uscite mai con un'altra ragazza se non siete disposti a dare tutto voi stessi.<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let another one suffer like I did. Make sure that you can handle everything before you even start it. Or don\u2019t start it at all.<\/p>\n

Con zero amore,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Colui che era pi\u00f9 che sufficiente per te<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Maybe you will never read this letter, but I just wanted to say what is on my mind. I need to put my emotions on a piece of paper and once I read it all, maybe I will be strong enough to close this chapter of my life. I just want you to know that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":102588,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5909","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Couldnt-Decide-What-He-Wanted.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5909","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5909"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5909\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102588"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5909"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5909"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5909"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}