{"id":5971,"date":"2017-10-02T14:33:11","date_gmt":"2017-10-02T14:33:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5971"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:58:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:58:43","slug":"lettera-di-avvertimento-futuro-ex-fidanzato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-di-avvertimento-futuro-ex-fidanzato\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera di avvertimento al mio \"futuro\" ex fidanzato"},"content":{"rendered":"

So che non ci siamo ancora incontrati, ma voglio usare questa lettera per scusarmi in anticipo. Voglio dire che mi dispiace. E spero che dopo aver letto questa lettera, un giorno capirai.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know we will start something amazing and I know one of us is going to have to let go at some point. It\u2019s not pessimism, but it\u2019s my prior bad experiences that have led me to predict this will happen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever think you weren\u2019t enough<\/a>. You were. But you met me when I wasn\u2019t enough, not even for myself. The last relationship made me tired, so tired of feeling. Now I am half of the women that I used to be. <\/span>E sto aspettando che tu mi salvi da me.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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\"Una<\/p>\n

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I know that\u2019s not fair. I know that I am the one who should be saving myself. I know I will hurt you because I don\u2019t have anything else left to give you. I<\/strong><\/em><\/span> know\u2026and I am sorry.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Meritavi di pi\u00f9<\/a> than being my temporary superhero. But, that\u2019s what I need right now\u2014someone to save me from myself, to show me that love can be kind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mi mancavano tutti gli aspetti positivi di una relazione. Mi mancava qualcuno che si prendesse cura di me quando sono troppo stanca per prendermi cura di me stessa. Mi mancava qualcuno che mi stringesse forte e facesse sembrare i miei problemi pi\u00f9 piccoli di quanto non siano. So che tu farai questo per me.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s not fair for you to pay for all the bad things that happened in my past relationships. I don\u2019t want to take it out on you. I don\u2019t want all my insecurities reflected on your skin<\/a>, but it will happen. Cause I don\u2019t know how to survive any other way.<\/span><\/p>\n

There is a slight chance you will tolerate and support me long enough and make me feel again. To make me pick myself back up again because you can’t do it for me. I have to be my own hero. There\u2019s no other way. \u00a0<\/span>Devo trovare il modo di stare da solo per poter stare con te. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Questo sarebbe il mio pi\u00f9 grande desiderio. Spero che si avveri. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If it doesn\u2019t, please forgive me.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s not fair. <\/span><\/i>I know\u2026and I am sorry. <\/i><\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know we haven\u2019t met yet, but I want to use this letter to apologize in advance. I want to say I am sorry. And I hope after reading this, one day you will understand. I know we will start something amazing and I know one of us is going to have to let go…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":5974,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5971","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/camila-damasio-259515-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5971","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5971"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5971\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5974"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5971"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5971"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5971"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}