{"id":59785,"date":"2020-04-06T15:48:12","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T15:48:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59785"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:10:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:10:17","slug":"grato-per-avermi-lasciato-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/grato-per-avermi-lasciato-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"Non avrei mai pensato di essere grato a te per avermi lasciato andare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Who would\u2019ve thought I\u2019d feel this thankful for you and the way you let me go? After all the sleepless nights and tears, it almost seemed impossible, but here we are.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter, now I see the reason why it had to happen. Thank you!<\/p>\n<p>Grazie per avermi reso forte. Quando te ne sei andato, ero distrutta e a pezzi. Non avevo fiducia in me stessa e pensavo di essere inutile e indegna.<\/p>\n<p>Niente e nessuno poteva aiutarmi. Cos\u00ec, ho aiutato me stessa. Ho smesso di dare agli altri il potere su di me. Ho imparato come ci si sente a pensare che io sia sufficiente.<\/p>\n<p>When you know you\u2019re enough \u2013 nothing can move you. You\u2019re determined and capable of accepting all your parts &#8211; your tough side, and your soft side.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-meditates-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna medita sulla spiaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-meditates-on-the-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-meditates-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-meditates-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I stopped seeing myself as someone who should be perfect and instead, I let myself just be what I am \u2013 and the world didn\u2019t stop.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now I know what it means to stand up for yourself. I\u2019m not as naive as I was before. I learned that people can say they love you and lie to your face, say they care for you and then leave you.<\/p>\n<p>Mi sono vergognata, ma ora so che pu\u00f2 succedere a chiunque; siete stati voi, non io. Nessuno dovrebbe vergognarsi di essere aperto e fiducioso.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for letting me go because I never really wanted someone who wouldn\u2019t fight for me. Every day, I\u2019m grateful for not being stuck in an unloving and fake relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Who wants a half-assed love anyway?! Not me!I\u2019d rather be by myself and sleep peacefully knowing I hadn\u2019t strung anyone along. I wasn\u2019t the selfish and attention-seeking one. I wasn\u2019t lying to feed my ego.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59789\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-eyes-closed.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna seduta sul divano con gli occhi chiusi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-eyes-closed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-eyes-closed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-eyes-closed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You taught me that nothing is irreparable \u2013 I can make a mistake and then go back again and turn it into something valuable. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Commettere un errore non \u00e8 la fine del mondo, anche se lo sembra.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You taught me that no matter how good, beautiful, smart, funny, or loving I am \u2013 for some, it won\u2019t be good enough. Now I don\u2019t care \u2013 I look good for myself and I enjoy being good, funny, and smart and that\u2019s all that matters.<\/p>\n<p>Through you, I learned it\u2019s impossible to change another person. The best you can do is love them and sometimes love isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n<p>After being manipulated and lied to, I didn\u2019t give up. I pushed through the hardest times all by myself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59791\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-in-the-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul letto in camera da letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-in-the-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-in-the-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-in-the-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Senza di te, ho capito cosa voglio dalla mia vita e di che tipo di amore ho bisogno. \u00c8 stata come un'epifania.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Finalmente ho smesso di sprecare le mie energie in cose inutili e con persone sbagliate. Invece ho iniziato a fare cose che mi facevano sentire felice e viva.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a life ahead of me and I\u2019m thankful because now I know how to spot people like you. It\u2019s definitely one of the most useful things I know.<\/p>\n<p>Mi avete fatto capire quanto sono preziosa e rara.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for letting me go because now I can find someone that\u2019s perfect for me because I know what I\u2019m looking for.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59793\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-in-red-hoodie-relaxing.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna con felpa rossa che si rilassa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-in-red-hoodie-relaxing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-in-red-hoodie-relaxing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-woman-in-red-hoodie-relaxing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mi hai mostrato l'importanza di lottare per l'amore non facendolo mai. Ho promesso a me stessa che non far\u00f2 mai sentire nessuno cos\u00ec poco importante.<\/p>\n<p>Quando mi hai lasciato andare, mi hai dato una possibilit\u00e0; una possibilit\u00e0 di migliorare tutto nella mia vita. Un'occasione per il vero amore e per stare con qualcuno che mi accetta cos\u00ec come sono.<\/p>\n<p>Ma la cosa pi\u00f9 importante che mi hai dato \u00e8 la possibilit\u00e0 di innamorarmi di nuovo di me stessa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If it wasn\u2019t for you, I would never have said to myself \u201cyou\u2019re enough\u201d and learned to love myself as I am.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59797\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non avrei mai pensato di essere grato a te per avermi lasciato andare\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who would\u2019ve thought I\u2019d feel this thankful for you and the way you let me go? After all the sleepless nights and tears, it almost seemed impossible, but here we are. It doesn\u2019t matter, now I see the reason why it had to happen. Thank you! Thank you for making me strong. When you left,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":59794,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59785","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Never-Thought-I\u2019d-Be-Grateful-To-You-For-Letting-Me-Go.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59785","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59785"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59785\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/59794"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59785"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59785"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59785"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}