{"id":6028,"date":"2017-10-03T10:11:54","date_gmt":"2017-10-03T10:11:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6028"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:28:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:28:54","slug":"ecco-perche-me-ne-sono-andato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-perche-me-ne-sono-andato\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 me ne sono andato"},"content":{"rendered":"

You know why I left. You may pretend you don\u2019t to make it easier. And you’ve known, all along, I was going to leave. That decision wasn\u2019t made all of a sudden. It took me a long time to take this life-changing step.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m glad I did.<\/span><\/p>\n

It took a lot of sacrifice and courage but somewhere along the line, I found it. Or, maybe you just destroyed me so much that I didn\u2019t care what was going to happen. I only wanted to get out as soon as possible. I wanted to leave. <\/span><\/p>\n

I left because you didn\u2019t try hard enough.\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Una relazione non \u00e8 una strada a senso unico.<\/a> You cannot be in a relationship with someone and think that\u2019s it. You\u2019ve done your part. The rest just goes with the flow. It\u2019s going to be ok. That is not true. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s never going to be ok if you don\u2019t try\u2014if you don\u2019t care. I can\u2019t be the only one who gives a damn. I can\u2019t be the only one who is investing everything I\u2019ve got to make it work. That\u2019s why I left. I was fed up with everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me ne sono andato perch\u00e9 mi hai fatto sentire una nullit\u00e0 inutile.<\/i><\/b> I busted my ass off to make something out of my life\u2014out of our lives. I worked 2 to 3 jobs a day. I tried so hard because I cared. <\/span><\/p>\n

But you were the anchor that was pulling me down to the bottom of the ocean. I felt worthless because you didn\u2019t move a finger to help me\u2014to help us. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing you knew how to do\u2014and you did it perfectly\u2014was sitting on the couch and waiting for me to come back from work, asking what\u2019s for lunch. Pardon my French, but FU.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>\n

Me ne sono andato perch\u00e9 ero stufo di false promesse e parole vuote.<\/i><\/b> I was done listening to your excuses for everything. I refused to believe that you are out of luck\u2014that you couldn\u2019t catch a break. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi sono rifiutata di crederci perch\u00e9 so che siamo tutti artefici della nostra felicit\u00e0. Lo so perch\u00e9 tutto ci\u00f2 che mi \u00e8 successo \u00e8 stato il prodotto del mio duro lavoro e della mia ostinazione nel raggiungere ci\u00f2 che voglio. <\/span><\/p>\n

I tailored my life as best as I could with one flaw in it\u2014you.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

My dear, you can\u2019t sit around the house and wait for good things to fall from the sky. You have to at least try. Try anything. Try something.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Me ne sono andato perch\u00e9 mi hai fatto fare la figura dello stupido. <\/i><\/b>For 4 years, you\u2019ve been dragging me along. For 4 years, you\u2019ve been promising to move mountains for me. You didn\u2019t move mountains. You didn\u2019t even move a tiny rock. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi hai mentito. Hai mentito per tutto il tempo. E io sono stata stupida a crederti. <\/a>I was stupid for giving you chances to prove yourself. And you counted on that. You took advantage of that\u2014of me. You knew I\u2019ll fight for you\u2014I\u2019ll fight for us. You knew I would never give up on us. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 emerso che questa volta avete dato un morso che era pi\u00f9 di quanto potevate masticare. Avete fatto un passo di troppo. Avete calcolato male le cose. Avete fatto un errore.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Me ne sono andato perch\u00e9 mi rendevi infelice. <\/i><\/b>Me ne sono andata perch\u00e9 ero l'unica a fare tutto il lavoro. Me ne sono andata perch\u00e9 mi rendevi triste. Me ne sono andato perch\u00e9 mi hai ferito.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

Me ne sono andata perch\u00e9 ero quella con cui potevi sfogarti. Ero quella che sopportava i tuoi insulti e i tuoi malumori. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ero io a soffrire ogni volta che tu eri nella tua dimensione, completamente distaccato dal mondo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Me ne sono andata perch\u00e9 ho capito di amare me stessa. <\/span><\/i><\/a><\/p>\n

Me ne sono andato perch\u00e9 ho capito che la mia vita non valeva il dolore e la sofferenza che mi avete dato.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Me ne sono andato perch\u00e9 ho capito di meritare tutto.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

E tu non mi hai dato nulla. \u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Addio.<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You know why I left. You may pretend you don\u2019t to make it easier. And you’ve known, all along, I was going to leave. That decision wasn\u2019t made all of a sudden. It took me a long time to take this life-changing step. Now, I\u2019m glad I did. It took a lot of sacrifice and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":6032,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6028","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brooke-cagle-336470.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6028","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6028"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6028\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6028"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6028"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6028"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}