I diversi tipi di persone nelle mie amicizie e relazioni sentimentali mi hanno portato a molti fallimenti emotivi.<\/p>\n
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One by one, each sphere of my life gave me plenty of reasons to start to define who I actually am. I made it a mission to become a person I\u2019m going to like, no matter what.<\/p>\n
I decided that those things that make me proud of myself would be the ones I\u2019d be doing from that point on.<\/p>\n
Ho scelto di non dedicare pi\u00f9 il mio tempo e le mie energie a relazioni e cose decisamente tossiche e terribili.<\/strong><\/p>\n Anche se per un po' mi sono divertita e mi ha reso la vita eccitante avere relazioni con ragazzacci e fare cose selvagge, mi ha fatto sentire solo pi\u00f9 disperata. Mi ha fatto mettere in discussione pi\u00f9 che mai.<\/p>\n What I did was make a decision to think about everything that made me who I am\u2014my parents, my childhood, my other experiences.<\/p>\n Ho usato il trucco di pensare a me stessa come se fossi un'altra persona, in modo da essere pi\u00f9 obiettiva.<\/p>\n Una volta accettata la mia persona, senza rancore verso le persone del mio passato, sono stata libera di costruirmi come volevo.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019ve created rituals of telling myself each morning what I think I should do that day and how I think I should behave.<\/p>\n Visualizzo l'intera giornata con tutto ci\u00f2 che penso possa portare. Se dovessi avere dei disaccordi con amici o colleghi di lavoro, nella mia mente penso molto attentamente a ci\u00f2 che direi loro.<\/p>\n Pensare in anticipo mi ha dato il tempo di pensare chiaramente e di decidere cosa fare senza cadere nelle trappole delle mie emozioni.<\/p>\n Inoltre, ogni sera riflettevo e pensavo a tutto ci\u00f2 che era successo quel giorno. Valutavo i miei progressi nel diventare chi volevo essere.<\/p>\n I can tell you now that I\u2019ve learned many things about myself and also about others. I became a person I can say I\u2019d admire if I met them.<\/strong><\/p>\n Scelgo sempre di fare le cose che amo piuttosto che quelle che la societ\u00e0 mi impone di fare. Seguo il mio istinto.<\/p>\n Scelgo assolutamente sempre di trattare gli altri con gentilezza e rispetto rispetto a qualsiasi tipo di profitto o interesse che possa portarmi a trattarli male.<\/p>\n I spend time with people who care about me and who show their appreciation for everything I do for them. I\u2019m over wasting my time on people who don\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n I don\u2019t have a problem with loving myself and taking care of myself but also loving other people and wanting to make both me and others happy.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve thoroughly analyzed each one of my flaws. Some of them I\u2019m accepted as I think they bring some charm to my character.<\/p>\n Those that have been bad for me, I\u2019ve done everything to change and I\u2019ve put great effort into doing this.<\/p>\n One thing that I\u2019ve realized is even though some people may not like who I am or what I\u2019m doing with my life, that\u2019s completely fine.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m not living my life for them, I\u2019m living it for myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n I know I\u2019m not done evolving and there are still many things to do and many things to change but I\u2019m very happy with who I\u2019m becoming. The path I\u2019ve chosen to live is making me very excited and proud of myself.<\/p>\n I\u2019m aware that many people would find this kind of life of constantly searching for a better self difficult but I love it.<\/p>\n One thing I can promise to those people is that even though it is hard, it\u2019s also very rewarding.<\/p>\n It gives me great confidence to be able to admit who I am and what I\u2019ve done and truly love myself for what I\u2019m becoming.<\/p>\n For most of my life, I\u2019ve been struggling with my own personality. Who am I? Why am I this way? Am I a good person? What is the definition of a good person? I expected to be able to differentiate between what\u2019s right and wrong by the time I was an adult but boy was…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":60314,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60306","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Like-Who-I\u2019m-Becoming.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60306","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60306"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60306\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60314"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60306"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60306"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60306"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/calm-woman-in-red-hoodie.jpg\")
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