{"id":6044,"date":"2020-04-03T10:54:01","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T10:54:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6044"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:42:27","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:42:27","slug":"innamorarsi-di-una-ragazza-sopravvissuta-ad-un-abuso-emotivo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/innamorarsi-di-una-ragazza-sopravvissuta-ad-un-abuso-emotivo\/","title":{"rendered":"Prima di innamorarvi di una ragazza che \u00e8 sopravvissuta a un abuso emotivo, sappiate questo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014love is an amazing thing! But some of us once fell so hard for a guy, that we were blind to see that he was taking advantage of us and kept hurting us purposely.<\/p>\n<p>The right one will never abuse his lady emotionally. In fact, he won\u2019t abuse her in any way.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t like something, he will try to talk, but if things don\u2019t function, he will rather leave her than do some harm.<\/p>\n<p>Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che oggi ci sono molte donne che hanno subito abusi emotivi e per tutti gli uomini che vogliono uscire con una ragazza di questo tipo, ecco cosa dovrebbero tenere a mente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ha bisogno di sentirsi dire che \u00e8 degna<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si sorride e si guarda all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside-768x516.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se vi mettete nei suoi panni, capirete perch\u00e9 ve ne parlo.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta si \u00e8 innamorata dell'uomo sbagliato, quello che le ha reso la vita infelice e che le ha fatto credere di non essere abbastanza.<\/p>\n<p>And now, she doesn\u2019t want the same things to happen again. So, don\u2019t be too harsh on her.<\/p>\n<p>Datele il tempo di guarire e insegnatele ad amare di nuovo se stessa.<\/p>\n<p>Tell her that she is beautiful and special just the way she is and that you don\u2019t want her to change unless she wants it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c8 molto attenta&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94069\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside.jpg\" alt=\"vista laterale di coppia sorridente che si abbraccia e si guarda all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando si passa un po' di tempo con un maltrattatore, si impara a camminare su gusci d'uovo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-ragazza-che-ha-confuso-labuso-con-lamore\/\">Ogni ragazza maltrattata emotivamente<\/a> sa questo.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that her man can be moody and that she is the one who will pay for all that in the end. That\u2019s why she will always be careful.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t let you walk into her life easily if you don\u2019t show to her how much you care about her.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 normale e spero solo che ci siano dei bravi ragazzi l\u00e0 fuori che sappiano trattarla con rispetto. Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 quello che ogni donna si merita.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A volte \u00e8 confusa&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94070\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che consola la sua donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Avere una relazione violenta ha sicuramente lasciato delle cicatrici nel profondo.<\/p>\n<p>Just because of this, she will sometimes be confused about things that she wants or doesn\u2019t want.<\/p>\n<p>Ha passato le pene dell'inferno e ha bisogno di un po' di tempo in pi\u00f9 per capire chi \u00e8 la sua priorit\u00e0 e chi \u00e8 la sua opzione.<\/p>\n<p>Once she finishes doing this, she will let you know. So if you really care about her, give her time to decide. And remember, big things just don\u2019t happen overnight!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c8 estremamente emotiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94067\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna sdraiati su una superficie di cemento e che si guardano l&#039;un l&#039;altro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se conoscete la sua storia, sapete anche che ha fatto parte di qualcosa di drammatico e di brutto. A causa di tutte queste cose \u00e8 pi\u00f9 emotiva delle altre ragazze.<\/p>\n<p>Forse pu\u00f2 ferirla il modo in cui dice qualcosa a voce alta.<\/p>\n<p>Or she might be offended if you don\u2019t call her when you said you will.<\/p>\n<p>Piccole cose come queste possono fare o rovinare la sua giornata. Quindi, se volete tenerla, fate attenzione a queste piccole cose perch\u00e9 sono quelle che contano di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c8 una guerriera<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94071\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di una bella donna bruna in un parco autunnale\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ha affrontato tante cose che l'hanno resa pi\u00f9 forte. Non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 la stessa ragazza dell'anno scorso.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t text you every day just to remind you that she exists.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to be a victim anymore and she will do everything in her power for history not to repeat itself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vuole che questa volta sia diverso&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94073\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia sorridente che si guarda mentre \u00e8 seduta su un tavolo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una ragazza come lei ha vissuto un inferno, quindi vuole che questa volta le cose vadano diversamente.<\/p>\n<p>She wants everything that she couldn\u2019t have in the previous relationship and she won\u2019t settle for anything less than she deserves.<\/p>\n<p>La sua storia \u00e8 stata piena di dolore, ma se trover\u00e0 un uomo a cui credere e che la render\u00e0 di nuovo felice, gli rester\u00e0 sicuramente accanto. In fondo, lo desiderava per tutta la vita.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vuole che la accettiate cos\u00ec com'\u00e8.&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94072\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice che si guarda\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 consapevole del fatto che a volte \u00e8 un disastro e che \u00e8 giusto che ve ne andiate. Ma nel profondo, vorrebbe che voi rimaneste e lottaste per lei.<\/p>\n<p>Vuole solo un uomo vero che la accetti con tutte le sue imperfezioni, perch\u00e9 l'hanno resa la donna che \u00e8 oggi!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:&nbsp;<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lettera-uomo-maltrattato-emotivamente\/\">Una lettera all'uomo che mi ha maltrattato emotivamente<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94065\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Prima di innamorarvi di una ragazza che \u00e8 sopravvissuta a un abuso emotivo, sappiate questo\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014love is an amazing thing! But some of us once fell so hard for a guy, that we were blind to see that he was taking advantage of us and kept hurting us purposely. The right one will never abuse his lady emotionally. In fact, he won\u2019t abuse her in any&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":94064,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6044","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6044","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6044"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6044\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94064"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6044"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6044"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6044"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}