{"id":60450,"date":"2020-04-08T10:23:41","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T10:23:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=60450"},"modified":"2022-01-21T12:01:13","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T12:01:13","slug":"lasciatelo-andare-e-mantenete-voi-stessi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lasciatelo-andare-e-mantenete-voi-stessi\/","title":{"rendered":"Lasciatelo andare e mantenete voi stessi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c8 difficile, ma dovrete farlo. Dovrete lasciarlo andare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I know that the pain of missing someone is sometimes harder than holding onto someone and getting hurt all over again. You\u2019ll have to do it anyway.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no point in holding onto things that keep hurting you. Things that destroy us are not love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Therefore, you have to let it go to save the only person you can save \u2013 yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You have to protect your heart. What you\u2019re missing isn\u2019t him, it\u2019s just your memories of the good days and how it used to be.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60467 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-a-white-long-sleeve-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in manica lunga bianca\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-a-white-long-sleeve-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-a-white-long-sleeve-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-a-white-long-sleeve-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il momento in cui iniziamo a pensare a come erano le cose una volta \u00e8 spesso il momento in cui ammettiamo involontariamente la nostra sconfitta.<\/p>\n<p>Reminiscing on the old days is one of the proofs that something in the relationship isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n<p>We change, and as we get older, we\u2019re less naive. It\u2019s easier to spot toxic patterns when you\u2019re sober from infatuation.<\/p>\n<p>Why would you hold on to someone who\u2019s not worth it \u2013 someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate you or understand you?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Perch\u00e9 mai dovreste aggrapparvi a qualcosa che, nel profondo del vostro cuore, sapete non essere la cosa giusta per voi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes we\u2019re scared to admit that what we once called love isn\u2019t love after all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60468 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-coat.jpg\" alt=\"donna con cappotto nero\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-coat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-coat-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-coat-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We risked all that we are and ended up losing ourselves for something that wasn\u2019t even real.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time for you to put the thing into perspective. Things that happened to you are not curses. They are not tragedies.<\/p>\n<p>Everything bad that happens to us is a learning experience. If we don\u2019t like where we are, we can move on from it. That includes him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Progress is never a result of a perfect life. It\u2019s the result of failures, pain, and our willingness to learn from them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Le cose che vi sono successe spingono in un'altra direzione. Una direzione migliore.<\/p>\n<p>Every so often, life puts an obstacle before us, just to remind where we\u2019re going.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60470 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-hair-against-the-wind.jpg\" alt=\"donna che si tiene i capelli contro il vento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-hair-against-the-wind.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-hair-against-the-wind-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-her-hair-against-the-wind-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Guardatevi intorno. \u00c8 questo che volete? Pensare continuamente a cosa accadrebbe se per una volta vi faceste valere?<\/p>\n<p>Give yourself a chance. You\u2019re a strong woman, even if that\u2019s not how you think of yourself now.<\/p>\n<p>Letting go is an act of courage. That hope you feel inside yourself that won\u2019t let you let go \u2013 save it for yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Smettete di compromettere il vostro valore. Lasciate andare i dubbi. Fidatevi del vostro istinto. Decidete di ascoltarvi e vedete cosa succede.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Admitting the truth to ourselves is always the hardest thing. You have to admit you\u2019re the only person that can save you. And guess what? That means you\u2019re going to make it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60473 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window.jpg\" alt=\"giovane ragazza al bar che guarda la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La stessa passione e determinazione che vi ha fatto lottare per la vostra relazione vi trasformer\u00e0 nella versione migliore di voi stessi. Lasciatevi andare a ci\u00f2 che siete.<\/p>\n<p>Open your eyes and see that you\u2019re enough.<strong> Avoiding pain and unpleasant emotions isn\u2019t courage; facing them is.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Growing isn\u2019t comfortable because it\u2019s new. It\u2019s something you\u2019re yet to explore. It\u2019s not safe. It\u2019s saying no to fear and stepping into something that will better you.<\/p>\n<p>Stop looking for things you need in all the wrong places when you can find it all in yourself. You\u2019re the one you need.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60474 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza seduta in riva al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/girl-sitting-by-the-lake-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you find yourself, that\u2019s when the right person will come. You can\u2019t be completed when you\u2019re lost, and you can\u2019t complete others when there\u2019s no you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When standing proudly in who you are, that\u2019s when the right person can see you.<\/p>\n<p>Keep yourself, for that\u2019s the most precious thing you have. You\u2019re irreplaceable, unique, and good enough as you are.<\/p>\n<p>Neanche in un milione di anni ci sar\u00e0 mai qualcuno come voi. Fate un favore al mondo e fate tesoro di voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure nothing stands in your way. What\u2019s keeping you from having what you want is letting go.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60478 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-raising-her-hands-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna che alza le mani all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-raising-her-hands-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-raising-her-hands-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-raising-her-hands-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questo-no-sara-la-chiave-per-molti-si\/\">Lasciarlo andare<\/a>. Lasciare andare le aspettative. Lasciare andare il dubbio.<\/p>\n<p>What brings you closer is deciding the only thing you\u2019re going to fight for is you. Because you deserve nothing less.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Le lotte e il dolore sono campanelli d'allarme. Iniziate ora, fate del vostro meglio, e per favore:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\"<em><strong>Lasciatelo andare; mantenete voi stessi.<\/strong><\/em>\u201d (<em>Shrijan Shreyaans<\/em>)<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60463 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Lasciatelo andare e mantenete voi stessi \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s hard, but you\u2019ll have to do it. You\u2019ll have to let him go. I know that the pain of missing someone is sometimes harder than holding onto someone and getting hurt all over again. You\u2019ll have to do it anyway. There\u2019s no point in holding onto things that keep hurting you. Things that destroy&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":60464,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60450","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Let-Him-Go-And-Keep-Yourself.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60450","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60450"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60450\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60464"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60450"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60450"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60450"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}