{"id":60493,"date":"2020-04-08T14:24:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T14:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=60493"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:32:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:32:19","slug":"andate-avanti-perche-il-vostro-futuro-ha-bisogno-di-voi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/andate-avanti-perche-il-vostro-futuro-ha-bisogno-di-voi\/","title":{"rendered":"Andate avanti perch\u00e9 il vostro futuro ha bisogno di voi e il vostro passato non ne ha."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Andare avanti perch\u00e9 non \u00e8 mai arrivato nulla di buono dall'essere bloccati. Bloccati tra qualcosa che avrebbe potuto essere e qualcosa che non \u00e8 ancora accaduto.<\/p>\n<p>None of it is real. What already happened stays in the past and you can\u2019t do anything about it. It\u2019s best to just let it go.<\/p>\n<p>The things that haven\u2019t happened, you can\u2019t control. However, when it comes to the future, you can still make an effort to make it better.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando avete rotto con il vostro partner, eravate al minimo. Niente aveva senso. Siete diventati senza vita.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60500 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-door-looking-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi sulla porta che guarda fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-door-looking-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-door-looking-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-on-door-looking-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>All the pain was overwhelming and you couldn\u2019t seem to see an end to it.<\/p>\n<p>Ci\u00f2 non sorprende se consideriamo che le relazioni sono alla base della nostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Pertanto, quando perdiamo una relazione con qualcuno, perdiamo anche una parte del significato della nostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>The problem is when that part ends up being so big that it\u2019s almost the whole meaning. That means one thing; you put too much value into other people.<\/p>\n<p>Oltre ad avere un rapporto con un'altra persona, \u00e8 necessario avere un rapporto con se stessi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60501 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-girl-in-lavand-field-1.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza sorridente in un campo di lavanderia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-girl-in-lavand-field-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-girl-in-lavand-field-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-girl-in-lavand-field-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You can\u2019t just wander through life making everyone more valuable than yourself. That\u2019s disrespect to God.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Per vivere una vita felice e normale, \u00e8 necessario assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 della propria vita. Dovete imparare ad amare voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>The past is in the past. Nothing there can ever change. It can haunt you but it can\u2019t harm you if you don\u2019t let it.<\/p>\n<p>Not moving on is essentially crying over something that isn\u2019t there anymore. Accepting the truth is how we move forward.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Learn that you should never beg for love. If it\u2019s not willingly given, you don\u2019t need it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ignore crossing your boundaries. Stop thinking that familiar things are safe.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60504 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-at-floor-and-look-thougthfull.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta sul pavimento e sguardo pieno di pensieri\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-at-floor-and-look-thougthfull.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-at-floor-and-look-thougthfull-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-at-floor-and-look-thougthfull-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Familiar things are just familiar. They don\u2019t necessarily make you feel good, unlike things that are safe.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t go back to the thing that broke you<\/strong>. Dimenticatevi per un attimo di come vi sentite e pensate a ci\u00f2 che vi meritate.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve a chance to be happy. Maybe with someone else or by yourself. Who knows? You deserve to know you\u2019re enough as you are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Il trasferimento rappresenta quasi sempre un nuovo capitolo della vita, e un nuovo capitolo deve essere riempito.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Decidete di essere buoni con voi stessi e iniziate a fare cose per il vostro futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Il vostro futuro ha bisogno che non smettiate mai di imparare. Vuole riportare la curiosit\u00e0 nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60505 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-deepbreathing-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"donna che respira profondamente in riva al mare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-deepbreathing-by-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-deepbreathing-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-deepbreathing-by-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your future loves when you go outside your comfort zone. That\u2019s how you make the biggest progress.<\/p>\n<p>In futuro, volete definire i vostri confini e farli conoscere al resto del mondo.<\/p>\n<p>Esplorate i vostri interessi nascosti e portateli alla luce del sole. Passate del tempo con i vostri veri amici. Tutte le piccole cose fanno una grande differenza.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your future needs you because there\u2019s life in front of you, so why waste it?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un giorno, dopo aver voltato pagina e aver imparato ad accettarsi cos\u00ec come si \u00e8, arriver\u00e0 una persona vera.<\/p>\n<p>They will show up as a sign that you\u2019re finally at peace with yourself. A sign you have moved on.<\/p>\n<p>Move on because you deserve more in life. Move on because there\u2019s so much untamed potential in you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60503 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-blonde-woman-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda sorridente all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-blonde-woman-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-blonde-woman-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-blonde-woman-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Move on because you\u2019re always enough as you are. Move on because after every storm comes the sunshine.<\/p>\n<p>Move on because this is just a tiny part of your life, so don\u2019t ruin the rest of it. Be respectful of your life story.<\/p>\n<p>Superare una persona significa trovare un nuovo significato. \u00c8 necessario riempire il buco con una nuova sostanza. Che sia la vostra passione.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing wrong with taking time to know yourself but know that life\u2019s too short to grieve over the past and act recklessly about your future.<\/p>\n<p>Remember: The past is long gone, so don\u2019t live in it. The future is always now, embrace it.<\/p>\n<p>The true moment when we move on is when we accept that something\u2019s gone and start living in the now.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60496 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/MOVE-ON-BECAUSE-YOUR-FUTURE-NEEDS-YOU-AND-YOUR-PAST-DOESNT-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Andate avanti perch\u00e9 il vostro futuro ha bisogno di voi e il vostro passato non ne ha.\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/MOVE-ON-BECAUSE-YOUR-FUTURE-NEEDS-YOU-AND-YOUR-PAST-DOESNT-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/MOVE-ON-BECAUSE-YOUR-FUTURE-NEEDS-YOU-AND-YOUR-PAST-DOESNT-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/MOVE-ON-BECAUSE-YOUR-FUTURE-NEEDS-YOU-AND-YOUR-PAST-DOESNT-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/MOVE-ON-BECAUSE-YOUR-FUTURE-NEEDS-YOU-AND-YOUR-PAST-DOESNT-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/MOVE-ON-BECAUSE-YOUR-FUTURE-NEEDS-YOU-AND-YOUR-PAST-DOESNT-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/MOVE-ON-BECAUSE-YOUR-FUTURE-NEEDS-YOU-AND-YOUR-PAST-DOESNT-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Move on because nothing good has ever come from being stuck. Stuck between something that could have been and something that hasn\u2019t happened yet. None of it is real. What already happened stays in the past and you can\u2019t do anything about it. It\u2019s best to just let it go. The things that haven\u2019t happened,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":60497,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60493","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Move-On-Because-Your-Future-Needs-You-And-Your-Past-Doesnt.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60493","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60493"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60493\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60497"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60493"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60493"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60493"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}